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July 28, 2010

ARIES: You don't need to concern yourself with what other people think. It's not your business. And what you can't control is best left alone. Too many things filter in to this situation for you to think that there's only one way to see and/or deal with it. For now, it would be good if you could keep your eye on what's true for you with the understanding that everyone has a right to their own opinion. Don't expect anyone to sign up for your team. Too many of your allies have chosen to step out of integrity at a time when you seem to be the only one who knows what it is.

TAURUS: Before you go ahead with this, you better be damn sure you can handle it. The idea that it'll be easy to sell it, or do it, or create it is a naïve misconception. Many of you aren't well informed enough to be clear about what you're up against; some of you think that you're invincible. The other thing is: you have lost sight of the fact that nothing goes in a straight line. If you think you've got this all figured out, you're about to find out that the Gods have other plans. Expect a little more pressure, your share of doubts and questions that beg you to face the music.

GEMINI: If things are stuck and you can't figure out what you're doing wrong, my advice to you would be to stop and look at the situation for what it is. Many of your objections boil down to excuses for what you are unwilling to do. You know that something has to change but you don't seem to understand that it has to start with you. A few adjustments in the company you keep, and enough objectivity to see that it's pointless to keep trying to make a go of it in a situation that is already halfway down the tubes, will go a long way to getting you off your ass and onto something new.

CANCER: The things that make you unique have more to do with the way you respond to life than they do with whatever you're doing outwardly. You may not realize it but it's your feelings and your ability to care that generate every bit of goodness that comes to you. Knowing this may make it easier for you to understand that you will only feel qualified for what you're about to take on when you erase any thought that says you might not be good enough. The extent to which you are able to recognize and value yourself will be what determines how things go from here.

LEO: It feels good to be out of the woods or finally done with things that were totally dragging you down. What's amazing is you were clueless as to how much of yourself got lost while life was harder than it had to be. It's even harder to believe that you were blind to the fact that you weren't there anymore. So much for what's over and done with; and a big "thank you" to whatever, or whoever, got you to see the light. You deserve a vacation and/or enough time to reconnect with the parts of yourself that disappeared while you were swimming upstream.

VIRGO: Your impatience with others is easy to understand. Their misdemeanors keep interfering with the energy flow, and you've had it with having to make all kinds of room for their nonsense. In situations like this it always looks like we have to take it or leave it when the fact is, the possibilities are infinite. Don't waste too much time wringing your hands over your inability to know what to do about other people and their problems. You can do more to help them grow up if you mind your own business and keep your heart focused on the things that make it sing.

LIBRA: You have more support than you've had in a long time. Something seems to be working. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that you finally let go of all the regret and bitterness that had to be left behind. With the weight of all that emotional baggage gone, the load feels lighter and you get the feeling that nothing can stop you now. While there's nothing in the way, this is no time to be taking anything for granted. Be grateful for this round of good luck and be sure to demonstrate your appreciation for it by continuing to apply yourself to the task at hand.

SCORPIO: You can't figure out why things seem to be rearranging themselves so quickly. One day you're clear that everything's going to be all right, and the next day your perspective flips to the thought that the other shoe is bound to drop. On top of this mental seesaw, all of a sudden the spiritual component has become a big feature in your reality. If it sounds strange to suggest that this would add to your confusion, you need to consider that whenever we begin to go deeper into our purpose for being here, life automatically opens up a Pandora's Box of one thing after another.

SAGITTARIUS: You have been pushing things to the limit. Your philosophy is one of "more is better." This could have you thinking that if you just keep working and adding more to the pile, everything will turn out for the best. Maybe so, but you forget that you've been feeling like a prisoner, locked behind the bars of your accomplishments, and part of you is ready to pick up and get the hell out. It might be better to slow down long enough to see that what you wanted out of this and what it has turned out to be are different enough for you to pull back and redefine it, or go on to something else.

CAPRICORN: You're coming into the home stretch with more than one thing. As you wait to see how it all unfolds you're wondering how far you really want to go. Of late, you've come to realize that having it all requires more from you than you've ever had to give, and while there is obviously some benefit coming from it, you aren't sure that this is who you want to be. The slow lane is looking more and more attractive. Instead of throwing everything out the window you might want to look at what it will take to bring things to fruition without sacrificing your soul for it.

AQUARIUS: There's only so much you can do for people. It looks to me like you've gone over and above the call of duty. Whoever keeps expecting you to be a little bit of everything hasn't shown one sign of trying to do that for themselves. You got sick of this a long time ago. If it's your good natured idealism that makes you put up with it, it might be time to look at what it's getting you. The milk of human kindness turns sour when we make it too easy for people to keep running their trips ad infinitum. All of us have to grow up; for you this means being mature enough to cut the cord.

PISCES: It looks like it's quittin' time. Something's just about over; either that or you just want to hit the road. There's more than just the call of the wild begging you to move on. Some part of you knows that you've got to be elsewhere for anything to work. Other issues tear you between the thought that this is crazy and the idea that it might not be. This is no time to be second guessing your intuition, nor can you continue to dumb yourself down just to placate those who can't deal with your true and total self. Step out of the box, my friend — it's time to go out and get a life.

July 21, 2010

ARIES: It's not like you to be vague about too much of anything, but you're totally fogged up about your current situation. The gap between what you want and what you have is bigger than China; so much for seeing only what you want to see. Everyone else is more than clear that you've got to face reality before your illusion either gets the best of you or winds up demolishing whoever's on the other end of the stick. Smartening up will require you to backtrack through a lie or two. You may even find out that staying here will make it difficult to live with and/or be yourself.

TAURUS: Biting off more than you can chew is usually a sign of optimism and faith. You've taken on something so totally new and different it'll be interesting to see how it goes. For many of you, what comes together from here on out will form the foundation for the rest of your life. If you're as diligent about it as you are about everything else there will be no problem. If you happen to be stepping into something that's too big, too far out of the box, or too far beyond the scope of your understanding, you will find it next to impossible to put your money where your mouth is.

GEMINI: You have this weird sense of objectivity that allows you to see things from both points of view; thank God! Others are so totally one-way about it, you'd go nuts if you went along with them. The bigger issue has to do with mommy and daddy. Your continuous need to have someone "out there" to discipline, control and/or restrict you, is as old as the hills. If those close to you keep acting as a stand-in for your parents, how will you ever get to find out who they are? At which point the bigger question becomes: when will you ever get to find out who you are?

CANCER: There's a difference between being nice and being weak. Over-kindness can get you into all kinds of trouble. It looks to me like you're in one of those situations where someone got the wrong impression. In their mind you are now the nicest person in the world. If you thought you had to play that role to get them to leave you alone, it had the opposite effect. Now you're at the mercy of needing to show them your true and total self. All you have to do is let them know that you're going through an identity crisis; and the real you isn't half as nice as the one they've met.

LEO: Don't assume that more is better. If you're suffering from lack of stuff, work, love, time or attention, how can you make the most of what you've got? The truth is we always have everything we need. If you look around you will see that it's all here in front of you and the fruits of your labors are what you have to work with. If it's time to change, don't hesitate to shift your direction and don't be afraid to leave everything behind. Too much is about to re-route you to a totally different course and you can't get too stuck on anything that keeps you away from it.

VIRGO: What other people do is their business. Don't get too wrapped up in trying to figure out why they don't know how to behave. Within your own frame of experience the only power you can call on is the example you set for yourself. In the end, it is never our job to mess with people and their lessons. If it's getting harder for you to have faith in the idea that they're ever going to get it, you'll be happy to know that they're about to get whacked with the truth. Do yourself a favor and don't get too involved rattling their cage; this is one time when you need to stay out of it.

LIBRA: You aren't totally sure that you're up for this. The scent of your previous mistakes is wafting out of what you thought might be too good to be true. I'm not so sure it's as bad as it looks. You know you don't want to keep repeating the same old story; as long as you're clear about that, you can do anything you want here. Don't expect others to tell you when you're not being yourself and don't expect them to know exactly what to do. It's you who has to set the standard for what you want out of this arrangement, and now is the time to start making it real for yourself.

SCORPIO: You can't believe how easy it's been to get this going. If you're pinching yourself to see if it's real, I can see why. Sometimes things work out just the way we want them to — and when we get over the shock, we usually discover that we have a whole new set of problems to deal with. That being the case, your situation is ripe for creating anything you want, and now is the time to think about where you want it to go. Don't use any of the prescriptions that you've used in the past. Your current state of affairs is totally different and won't respond well to the old set of rules.

SAGITTARIUS: You haven't decided whether this is working for you or not. Part of you feels like you've been thrust into something that belongs to someone else and you're not sure why it's you that got to play this role. Another part of you sees this as an opportunity to branch out into uncharted waters and it excites you to think of the possibilities. The only thing you're completely clear on is that this is where you happen to be at the moment. It's a well-known fact that we are all exactly where we need to be, so stop wondering what you're doing here and make the most of it!

CAPRICORN: The part of you that emerges when the rest of your chores and responsibilities are done for the day is totally at peace with things. You are beginning to see that this aspect of your nature is where all your power comes from. At the moment, there is nothing to interfere with your experience of yourself and this has opened you up to the idea that you can do absolutely anything. With a list of obligations, and the expectations of others about to keep you busy for at least six months, the need to center yourself in this place of power can't be overemphasized.

AQUARIUS: More isn't always better. Don't take on anything extra or you'll wind up regretting it. If you think that this recent rash of opportunities is a good thing, you're probably of the mind that you need to follow up on them as a way to insure your further progress or success. What you may be less aware of is the law that governs random forms of interference. If your motives have even a whiff of over-ambition, fear or greed, biting off more than you can chew will land you in a maelstrom of complications that will totally undermine your ability to put out your best effort.

PISCES: You're ready to pull out of a situation that isn't ready to be left. The sense of frustration is mounting and you're wondering if it would be OK to just say goodbye to this. For many of you it's totally fine to split, but for others, the emotional component has to be weighed before you make your decision. What you may not be aware of is that the universe is on your side and whatever you're waiting for will happen soon. At that point you will not only be free to fly away, but you will understand firsthand that everything in life is divinely ordered.

July 14, 2010

ARIES: Pushing your luck isn't going to work. You're so convinced that you can make this happen you're forgetting that it could be the last thing you need. Before you go trying to sell whatever it is that you're peddling, you better be sure that you know what you're doing. Others will not be impressed by surface efforts, nor will they be flattered by your attempts to kiss up. Don't think you can fool them. This is one of those situations that will work out better if you operate from the standpoint of sincerity and are able to demonstrate that you know of what you speak.

TAURUS: No matter how much you try to please others it’s never enough. At this point they don’t even notice, they’re so used to getting whatever they want out of you. Don’t you find it interesting that you, the one who doesn’t suffer fools, is so totally gullible when it comes to this particular individual. It seems as if their hold on you has made it hard for you to be yourself. Don’t hesitate to let them know that they’ve got to start dealing with their own mess and give you the freedom to pursue the dreams that won’t come into being if you continue to devalue yourself like this.

GEMINI: Your moods have been totally up and down lately. Underneath the sense of nervousness or anxiety, the issue seems to be about you wishing you had more to say about the direction your life is taking. If others have been messing with the control panel, you need to ask yourself why you'd allow anyone to step in and run the show. Blowing hot and cold, or going from being the perfect person to being your evil twin, wouldn't be an issue if you could open your eyes to the fact that you are one of those people who absolutely cannot tolerate any type of control.

CANCER: It would be easier to tell you the truth if you wanted to hear it. Most of what's going on has to do with you trying to figure out how to keep your show on the road. Everything seems to be moving in a really good direction — but there are undercurrents or doubts that have you wondering if it's even worth it to continue. These thoughts are your intuition giving off a signal. Any tendency to second guess it could see you pouring a ton of time and energy into a plan that could prove to be more trouble than it's worth. Trust your gut and be as willing as you can to face the truth.

LEO: You need to lay down your defenses and get real. People won't be able to know you if you keep covering up everything that makes you special. Part of the trouble with your love life has to do with the way you start out making it seem as if you're a dream come true. As things develop, the real you comes out, and your partner feels like they've been duped. This is where all your troubles originate. Try just being yourself from the get-go; that way the endless dramas and the energy it takes to keep it all going will be replaced with more meaningful methods of connection.

VIRGO: You're about to get carried away. If you want this to flower into something meaningful, give it time to prove itself. This could also translate as: this is no time to be stubborn about the wrong things. Life may call you to reverse your direction in a heartbeat. Knowing when to keep going is as important as knowing when to stop, or turn around. Get your bearings and don't allow your "investments" to keep you from making the right move. At this point, you have to decide whether your instincts are more accurate than the part of you that needs to hang on no matter what.

LIBRA: It's time to hit the road or head to higher ground. You've lost your taste for whatever's going on here. It's not that there's anything wrong; it's more about needing to redefine everything. A trip, or even a day or two away, will allow you to step out of your routine far enough to see yourself and your life objectively. It may very well be time to move on permanently. Those of you who operate conservatively will be called to reconfigure anything that is no longer working. If your sense of obligation is overdeveloped, it could screw you into missing out on the rest of your life.

SCORPIO: It seems as if everything needs to turn around. Recent epiphanies have revealed things from within and you have come to a greater awareness of your true worth. This understanding has upset the balance in your relationships, not just with people but with your whole life. For the first time, the need to either withhold or give all your power away, has transformed into the need to share it. Others, who up till now have had you under their thumb, could be totally pissed off that you finally recognize yourself! Don't let this keep you from speaking and living your truth.

SAGITTARIUS: Does it matter how things go from here? Do you have anything to lose by putting everything on the line? If you're afraid to tell it like it is you're probably worried about whether or not you'll be able to survive without the support of whomever or whatever holds the purse strings. Over time you've become more cautious about your choices. This one will require you to allow your instincts to make the decision. What seems logical and/or practical may have to be put aside in favor of what it is that you need to open yourself up to: a deeper sense of who you are.

CAPRICORN: You're almost free. It'll take a while before this process is complete. Much of what keeps you here has to do with the compromises we all have to make when our choices involve other people. Waiting for someone else to settle up or move on is what you're dealing with right now. Chomping at the bit, you're so aware of how important it is to get real about things you don't have the patience for this. Cultivate it; part of you believes that you're ready to split, but there's one last piece that has to be resolved before the Laws of Karma are done with you.

AQUARIUS: The last thing you wanted to do was turn into your parents but it looks like you're well on your way. How did this happen? Too much time spent trying to be normal has taken you away from your truer yearnings. There was a time when no one could accuse you of being ordinary; always the rebel, you made a point of coloring outside the lines. Whatever's got you slipping into sleep mode may feel a lot more comfortable, but is this what you want? Giving up on the possibility of any further growth is a cop-out. Get out of this rut and live your truth.

PISCES: Whatever was meant to be a break has turned out to be more of a chore than your normal routine. It's laughable really; you couldn't make things easy if you tried. At the same time, part of you is having the time of your life, because in the midst of a lot of confusion, some really good things are coming together. People who haven't shown their faces in years are back with a measure of support. Others are picking up their own slack for a change, and even though you can't see it, your life is opening up to whatever the next miracle is supposed to be.

July 7, 2010

ARIES: You keep missing the point. It seems as if you want to stay stuck in whatever it is that you can't see. Don't feel bad; we all have our blind spots. This one either has to do with your nearest and dearest, or it's about you being totally mystified by things that are blatantly obvious to everyone else. Being stubborn about the wrong things, along with any tendency to close your eyes to them, will lock up your life at a point where, if anything, it needs to bust open. All of us are being called to go for it. You will be left behind if you keep babying out when it comes to the truth.

 

TAURUS: Settling up has presented you with a whole new set of problems; when one thing changes, every blessed thing gets shaken and stirred. Now that you have exactly what you want, what are you going to do with it? If others are full of ideas, make as much room for them as you can, but don't let anyone try to tell you what you need to be doing. You've waited too long for this — and you don't have time to mess around playing anyone's game but your own. This isn't selfish. At this point, serving your own interests will make it that much easier to be there for others.

 

GEMINI: Don't be too quick to write everything off as if life is written in black and white. In your attempts to balance your reality you can't dismiss the emotional component. Your intuition plays a huge part in things, too — so don't second guess every thought. Most of what's bubbling to the surface is telling you to move on. If part of you is still stuck in the idea that you have to have a plan, or that you can't do this until you finish that, get over it. This is no time to be wondering about certainty. All you really have to go on are the feelings that are prompting you to change.

 

CANCER: The reason you've had it with this is because you can't be yourself and keep it going. I don't know what made you think it would work to play things this way but something went awry about six months ago, and it got out of hand because you haven't been paying attention. Unless you're totally in denial, you know that it's time to tell the truth. If others don't want to hear it you will have a harder time finding a way to make yourself heard. It looks to me like they are so hooked on believing what they want to believe that they refuse to see that you've moved on.

 

LEO: Sometimes life allows us to remember what it's really all about. In the midst of too many things to do and more than your share of pressure, someone showed up to remind you that love is the operative word. All of a sudden, everything you see is filled with it. Times like this are precious and fleeting, so soak it up and be prepared for everything else you do to be altered by this feeling. Of course, you have to hold steady and remain focused enough to stay grounded in the real world, but the love that you feel right now is there to make it all worthwhile.

 

VIRGO: There's a sense of relief that the bigger part of an effort is over and done with. If you've just come off of one thing and are about to move on to another, getting a chance to regroup would be nice. Unfortunately, the need to keep it up will see you moving forward with less energy than you need to get this next thing to work. That's OK. It could very well be that something intervenes to rearrange the plan. It could even be that everything gets called off temporarily. Relax, and know that whatever you've got is just enough to make life perfect.

 

LIBRA: If I've got a bone to pick with you it has to do with the fact that you're too damn nice. What makes you think it's good to give people too much space to act out? In not standing up for your own interests you consistently allow others to control absolutely everything. And what you can't see is that their issues always win out over the truth. There's no virtue in not having the balls to say no, and you don't serve yourself by being overly kind. None of this would be a problem if you could see that it makes no sense to give all your power away to a basket case.

 

SCORPIO: The need to be recognized plays a huge part in your psychology. It's interesting because you haven't figured out that no one will recognize you until you recognize yourself. The greater part of being seen comes from knowing who you are. Things get complicated when we think anyone can do that for us. As soon as your true confidence begins to flower it won't matter who's there to applaud you for it. Ironically, the minute we begin to know who we are and what we're worth, attention ceases to be an issue and — as if by magic — we begin to attract it by default.

 

SAGITTARIUS: What an amazing time. So many things have come home to roost. If you're not reaping a tremendous amount of love and reward, you're feeling fulfilled by simpler things. Those of you who can relate to this know that you've come full circle and are now ready to settle into something that really gets your heart going. If you've been spending more time being amazed by the beauty of life than you've spent wondering what it's all for, you know that something truly miraculous is happening right now. In so many ways, you've never been happier.

 

CAPRICORN: You still don't get it. You bought into something and went so far into believing it you can't see that what you're living with is the end result of misplaced faith. All of us are being called to examine our beliefs. When life isn't working it's usually our principles that screw up the machinery. If your beliefs don't show any evidence of working to create the life that they were guaranteed to provide you with, maybe it's time to shift your perspective. When doing everything by the book doesn't get you anywhere, try coloring outside the lines for a change.

 

AQUARIUS: We all shoot ourselves in the foot every now and then. It's only human. You said no to this because you couldn't deal with what it would cost you to open up to it. The fear of confronting whatever it is that keeps us from opening our hearts lies at the core of every problem. When the irony of pushing away the very thing that you want more than anything finally strikes you, it would be good if you could take a chance and see if you can get a rain check on this opportunity. Think about it. Stuff like this doesn't come around too often.

 

PISCES: Too many things call you to review your motives; why did you get into this? Underneath it all, were you taking the easy way out? Or are you sure that you got involved for all the right reasons? When things aren't working it's a sure sign that something isn't balanced on the inner levels. Instead of trying to manage a situation that was out of integrity from the get-go, maybe it's time to call a halt to it, or at least rearrange it from a place of total honesty. Nothing works when it's standing on a weak foundation. If you can't redeem things, they won't continue.

June 30, 2010

ARIES: You can't be sure about other people's motives and you can't overlook the fact that you don't feel good about this. If one and one makes two, I'd say it's time to trust your intuition. No one knows how you're going to respond to the return of something or someone who's got a major hold on you at the emotional level. Getting back into anything that requires you to trust a situation that didn't work out in the past will do nothing but drag you down. If there was ever a time to pull out all the stops on the detachment button, that time is now.

TAURUS: Too much is coming at you. If it seems that way, it's because you take on more than your share of other people's stuff. Half of this wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so involved with things that even they can't change. Whatever it is that draws you to desperation, you seem to need this. Your ability to deal with other people and their pain is as much about you as it is about them. Underneath it all, you wish someone would come and help you deal with yours. And here's the deeper question: is all of this just a distraction that keeps even you from seeing it?

GEMINI: Don't overwork or overanalyze your issues. None of this is as dramatic as it feels. And even though you deserve to make the most of the experience, get off of your cloud and start living as if the drama meant less than your need to see it for what it is. Underneath it all, all you did was make a choice. Living with it will be easier if you understand that timing and boundaries mean everything right now. Speed up any process that looks like it could take forever and don't let anyone try to tell you that they have the right to make what's yours any of their business.

CANCER: You've got it all figured out ... guess again. The minute you start patting yourself on the back things have a way of flying south. Don't be too sure that you've got someone right where you want them and don't ever underestimate them or their stuff. What looks so good could be a costly compromise. Before you get too happy about how good this is going, keep in mind that sometimes you have to be more aware of other people's issues than they are. Don't be so sure about who you're really dealing with; what you see will definitely not be what you get.

LEO: Here we go again; tell me this isn't a rerun. Cross your fingers and pray that that was then and this is now because it didn't go that well the last time. There's always a purpose to these repetitive little scenarios. This one's meant to show you how to not get too involved trying to make everything a bowl of cherries for everyone. When will you ever learn that it's enough just to be yourself? You're so overly concerned with making sure you're always there for others you wind up deserting yourself in the process. Don't do this time what you did the last time.

VIRGO: Waiting to settle your affairs, you have no clue how anything will go. It may be best to hold off till others straighten out their confusion. Whoever said they were up for this either doesn't have the capacity to follow through or they're not sure enough about who they are to commit to this. You already know what you want but what you need could be something very different. "Don't get too set on anything" is the message of the week. The less invested you are the easier it will be for you to see that you could be dead wrong about what's best for you.

LIBRA: The gypsy in you needs a transfusion. No one needs to tell you this, because you know it better than anyone. Too much overhead and responsibilities that you can't walk away from make any sort of adventure out of the question. Until you divest yourself of whatever it is that keeps you from following your spirit this will all stay the same. It's very clear that you may have to give up everything to get out of here, but when something else beckons, we have to heed the call. Dump anything that needs to fall off the wagon. Lighten up enough to spread your wings.

SCORPIO: Concerns about someone close have you wondering if you had anything to do with their pain. If you think this is your fault you're crazy. Everyone has their own row to hoe and how they interpret their life experience is totally up to them. Whoever's coming unglued has yet to see that they either expect too much or their expectations are irrelevant to the times we're in. You can hold their hand and walk them through this but there is absolutely nothing you can do to alter the way they deal with it. Sometimes you have to sit back and let people get their lessons.

SAGITTARIUS: You're running on faith that someone will come through for you. If they do it'll be because they care. On other levels it'll be because they're getting something out of this, too. What you need to remember is not to lose yourself in whatever their needs are. Both of you are making this investment. It doesn't matter if it's a project or a relationship. What you bring to the situation will reflect the extent to which you really care about it. What others decide to bring to it is uncertain; things will work out if both of you are conscious enough to give it your all.

CAPRICORN: What you can no longer blame on others has to be seen in a different light. The habit of never being able to own up to the part you play in bringing things on has been a source of infinite difficulty. It has occurred to you that maybe something you did, or said or projected unintentionally made it possible for others to take you for a ride in every situation where things didn't go your way. This revelation could change everything. It's quite possible that you will never let yourself wind up whining about "who did what to who" ever again.

AQUARIUS: High maintenance people are screaming for attention at a time when you've got no energy for it. This most recent tantrum is nothing new, but it looks like you're going to have to stop the train just to handle it. It's too bad you're too deeply involved with this baby to tell them to grow up. I have a feeling you're going to have to rearrange your schedule and make a lot of adjustments just to calm them down. Don't waste too much time on it. It's crazy to make this much space for someone who won't meet you halfway and who never seems to change.

PISCES: You aren't too happy with the way things turned out because you expected too much. This has been a huge lesson in giving people more credit than they deserve. If you're disappointed, consider the extent to which you saw what you wanted to see and don't be too hard on yourself. On other fronts, you need to review your work situation and realize that playing it safe doesn't always work, even in troubled times. The writing on the wall seems to suggest that there's no safety here. Keep your foot in the door but have Plan B cooking just in case.

June 23, 2010

ARIES: Jumping the gun would be totally inappropriate in this situation. Your assertive tendencies lead you to believe that confidence is the only prerequisite for anything. This is one of those times when a little humility and the ability to go with the flow will get you more in the long run.There are a million reasons why you need to back off. Anyone can see that you have to make a move, but when you put the cart before the horse nothing comes to fruition. Get centered enough to have your ducks in a row and keep your heart focused on your purpose.

TAURUS: The next time you decide to go out on a limb, make sure you've got something to fall back on. Your current situation has you stretched far enough to feel like it's time to split, snap or sell out to the highest bidder. For some of you, it doesn't matter; for others the story is a little different. If you fall into the latter category, the ability to be OK with having no certainty whatsoever is the key to riding out this strip of the journey. No matter who you are, it's time to let go of the need to cling to anything that keeps you apart from a deeper sense of purpose.

GEMINI: Too many reasons to celebrate tell me that you've got a lot to be happy about. After a long period of not knowing where you stood, years of dedication have turned out to be their own reward. Ironically, as much as it's party time, you're so busy living up to your responsibilities you don't have a minute to spare. For once in your life you're OK with having more work than you can handle. Give it everything you've got; and while you're at it, congratulate yourself for making it through one of the hardest stretches of your life without sacrificing your spirit.

CANCER: You aren't as enthusiastic about this as others expect you to be. After what you've been through is it any wonder that you're a little leery, or even paranoid about what might come out of it? We are told that the past dictates the future, but if that is the case, we'd all be living through reruns of every mistake we ever made. Don't make the mistake of using the rear view mirror to figure out what will happen next. Whether you know it or not, what you're about to embark on will be your reward for all the BS you've had to plow through to get here!

LEO: You expect more from people than they're able to give you right now; leave it at that. If you decide to take this personally you'll miss the point. The idea that there always has to be someone to lean on, or be there to validate your every move is crazy. And what you may not totally understand is that this period of time is here for you to learn more about meeting your own needs. To continue to want something "out there" to make you feel OK about yourself will keep you from tuning in to the fact that it's we who have to work out our own problems.

VIRGO: You can't explain this but you're at the point where needing an explanation is sort of ridiculous. This is a non-linear experience. When things can't be defined they come from a different corner of the experience pool — the place where karma can dish out whatever it wants. If you look at this with ordinary eyes, it seems as if the universe is begging you to get out from under all the things that have made you feel unworthy. And what you can't explain is the feeling that all of a sudden you know what you're worth and it's hard to believe you're this incredible!

LIBRA: The next move will involve setting yourself free. You have approximately six months to wrap things up and get on with the next phase of your experience. At the moment, you're thinking that circumstances or sentiment will conspire to keep you here. Instead of waiting for those things to become an issue, make your plans and let everyone know they need to figure out what to do to replace you. This is your life. Time is too short for you to be giving yourself a hard time for finally getting around to doing what you've always wanted to do.

SCORPIO: This is a gamble. You're not too sure about which way things will roll but you've got nothing to lose. Others are less enthused about what this will mean for them. If you think you can get them to drop all of their considerations and go for it, that too is a risk. The best approach would be to go about your business and keep your life moving forward. It's one of those times when, if you build it, they will follow — but don't expect anyone to get there until you've prepared a place for them. And even if they don't show up you'll be well on your way to a whole new life.

SAGITTARIUS: You have made the decision to drop everything and give yourself time to chill out. After too much systematic and circumstantial nonsense you've forgotten half of what it means to live. At the moment, you're finding it ironic that all of this was meant to get you back in touch with life, and it has only served to complicate it. If you strip away everything and stop allowing other people and their BS to distort your perspective you could easily have what you want without having to fight city hall and turn everything inside out just to survive.

CAPRICORN: It would be so much easier for you if you could figure out that there are a million ways to approach things. You get so wound up trying to get everything right, it keeps your world under the gun, with absolutely no wiggle room for anything less than whatever you think is perfect. Believe it or not, stepping out of line is what makes the world go round. Your way is just fine but if that's all you're willing to embrace you shut off not just your creativity but the thought that another idea, or a spark of insight from another quarter might be even more enlightening.

AQUARIUS: You've got to be wondering how this is going to work. You have too many irons in the fire and could use six arms and six legs. Whenever life goes through this type of transition, the logistics become more important than usual. You're not one of those people who needs or wants to be bothered with the mundaneness of things; you just want the vision to manifest. If I were you I'd get someone with a totally practical mindset to organize your life, or at least tell you what you need to do in order to make too much going on easier for you to handle.

PISCES: The whiplash from other people bad mouthing whatever you're doing has really hit a nerve. If you're saddened by the fact that others have decided to take the low road, what did you expect? It doesn't matter what the story is; underneath it all this is just another disillusionment. Don't hang around trying to figure out why so-and-so is too wounded to deal with themselves without needing to hurt you in the process. It would be better for you to forgive and forget because this is old stuff and you don't need to keep indulging those who are still stuck in it.

June 16, 2010

ARIES: At times you feel as if there's nothing to worry about; at other points you're convinced that everything's about to go to hell. Going back and forth between doubt and faith, you wish that you could be clear about things. Too much is about to change for you to assume that certainty is even relevant at this point. It would be to your advantage to rearrange your sense of what it will take to keep life from rocking your boat. Whatever "holding steady" has meant to you in the past, these days it has more to do with remaining fluid enough to handle anything.

TAURUS: Experiences that call you to wonder about other people and their integrity should make you think twice about extending the benefit of the doubt. You'd be wise to run them through a few more tests before you sign on or cement any type of connection. This is one of those times when your ability to read people and their motives can't be colored by sentiment, or whatever it is that wants them to be what you need. It's a good thing there's no rush here. The time it takes to make sure this is worth the credit you're giving it will be well spent.

GEMINI: How do you deal with people who are too caught up in their own perspective to see life any other way? You can't afford to upset them, but you need to make yourself heard. Direct confrontations will only increase their need to dominate this situation. Ground yourself in whatever it is that makes you feel strong and whole before you enter into any type of discussion. Questions as to whether or not you will be able to be yourself and continue with this involvement will be ongoing for about two more months. This is a process. Learn what you can from it.

CANCER: There is a conflict of interest that has you wishing you weren't stuck in the middle. You can't do much but remain wedged between two or more sets of issues. As uncomfortable as you feel, there is a way out. Other things have called you to see that you don't even need to be involved in this. It's as if you could slip out of the situation and force everyone to deal with themselves. What a concept! It may be time to take a powder, or a hike, or leave town for a few days. In your absence others will become crystal clear about the fact that this is their mess.

LEO: You may feel as if you have to go along with this, but whatever you do, don't lie to yourself about why you're making this choice and don't expect too much from a situation that isn't what you think it is. If doing what's expedient is the name of the game, consider it a stepping stone that'll only tide you over until you get stabilized. Once you're there you will most likely see this for what it is. Those who have gotten involved are here for their own reasons, so don't feel too responsible if in the end it turns out that you have to move on to whatever's next.

VIRGO: You aren't sure about what you're doing. Too many things seem to suggest that there has to be another way. It's not that you're dissatisfied; life is totally great in a lot of ways. But the issue of "What are you here for?"and the idea that there is a whole other realm of possibilities has you thinking that you're in the middle of another identity crisis. Stay focused enough in the here and now to keep up the good work, whatever it happens to be. But don't presume that any of it will stay the same, and whatever you do, don't lie to yourself about the fact that you want more.

LIBRA: Things have been in limbo for way too long. At this point, you're thinking something's gotta give. Levels of impatience with the "stuck-ness" of too many things have you wishing you had a little more control. I hate to say it, but a little more control is the last thing you need. As soon as you realize that your efforts to micromanage yourself on to the next thing don't do anything but interfere with what is essentially a Karmic process, you will stop obsessing and surrender to the fact that beyond a certain point we have to relax enough to let life open the way.

SCORPIO: Too many things have converged simultaneously. For some of you this feels like life is finally coming together; for others it feels more like a 10 car pileup. When things get this nuts there's not much to do but wait; so what can you do while you're waiting? Meditating on the situation would be a good place to start. You need space and time to look at what's going on. Once you get the picture, you'll know more about what needs to be done. Unraveling this knot will take a while. Settle in, settle down and do whatever you can to get to the bottom of it.

SAGITTARIUS: You have finally figured out that your way isn't the highway. Congratulations! Now that you've loosened up, others feel much happier with the situation. And what seems to be happening with you amounts to a metamorphosis, because you're seeing that everything in your life works better when you allow people to express who they are without needing to monitor their beliefs or their behavior. You're totally amazed by all the love and support this has generated; and the power that is inherent in that will empower you to rediscover yourself.

CAPRICORN: Don't get too worked up over what only appears to be a big deal. You've been through the mill enough times to know how to get through this one. If you're worried about the fact that this feels like an enormous responsibility, I'm here to tell you: you can do it in your sleep. Give yourself a break and go out for recess until it's time to buckle down and deal with this. At that point, take one thing at a time, don't get ahead of yourself and know that you're in control. The smoother you operate the easier it will be to turn this mountain into a molehill.

AQUARIUS: Life is demanding that all of us remain open to any and all possibilities. The last thing you want to do may be the first thing you have to do, so never say never. Your life is as subject to change as everyone else's. In spite of all the things we do to preserve our security, sooner or later those things get challenged. If you think the last few years have been over-the-top you're entering a period when anything can happen. You'd be wise to preserve any of the structures in your life that are still relevant while remaining watchful of the world around you.

PISCES: The days of selling yourself short are over. You know you were cut out for more than this. Maybe it's time to get moving in a new direction. So many of your natural abilities have already been developed, but don't kid yourself into thinking that's all there is to it. Inside, you get the feeling that you're happier out of the box. Whatever your definition of the box happens to be, believe me when I tell you: your spirit is ready to pop out of it. This is no time to set limits, and neither should you bother to stop and ask for anyone's permission but your own.

June 9, 2010

ARIES: Don't expect people to treat this the way you would; it's crazy to assume that they care. You aren't going to be able to enlist their support because this is your business not theirs. For many of you the idea of being betrayed, stabbed in the back or undermined by those you assumed were incapable of deceit is part of the lesson. Getting upset about it won't heal this. If you are aware of yourself you understand that it's time for things to change. If you've lived long enough you know that change often manifests as difficulty, but it always makes things better.

TAURUS: You keep telling yourself you don't need to keep doing this. At the same time you can't give it up. Torn between the idea of keeping on or heading off to whatever's next, you're wedged in a conflict that won't get settled just because you want it to. External issues have already created delays. The signs suggest that it'll be "hurry up and wait" for the next few months. In the meantime, what can you do? This is happening to give you a chance to reconsider a few things and to help you see that it isn't what you do — it's your relationship to it that counts.

GEMINI: Coming to the realization that you're in over your head has you wondering what to do about it. This sense of being overwhelmed and the idea that something larger than life has interfered with your freedom is part of an old pattern. Why does this keep happening? If you look closely, whoever or whatever appears to be the source of the problem is a stand-in for the people and things that made everything in your life about sinking or swimming. Staying calm enough to float on top of the situation will allow you to have more control over it.

CANCER: Your plans are about to get sidelined by forces that are larger than life. Don't be fooled by what appears to be a period of smooth sailing. Sudden change will require you to think on your feet and keep your instincts sharper than usual. Possibilities include: being uprooted, reversing your direction or coming to the point where you realize that it might be best to pick up and go no matter how good things look. At times like this what seems logical will be less beneficial than trusting your intuitive mind. Lose your expectations. Make way for change.

LEO: If you could let go of needing to reflect back on things it would be easier to get on with your life. Old stuff, new stuff ... whatever it is, it's over with. If you look around there's much more on the horizon than you've seen in a long time. Some of it comes with a risk. You know enough about who you are to know what you can handle. Don't throw yourself into anything that involves too many other interested parties and don't be naïve about your ability to adapt. Your next move needs to be something that operates within reasonable limits.

VIRGO: You'd be OK with this if you had a better sense of where people are really coming from. It takes time to get to know anyone. You aren't street smart enough to be able to tell if your latest connection has anything going for them. It's a good policy never to sell yourself short. Even at the risk of appearing to be a complete and total snob you'd be smart to remain as aloof as you can until they show you who they really are. If you get into this without taking their sincerity level and/or their credentials for a test drive you could wind up in big trouble.

LIBRA:You can't believe how lucky you are. It almost feels strange to have nothing in the way. At the moment it's not quite clear how far things will go, but don't waste your energy worrying about it. Everything has a life span and like everything else this will spin out until there's nothing left of it. Your job is to have this experience and allow yourself to be transformed by it. As far as other people go, there are no guarantees. If part of you knows this keep it in the foreground, because the part of you that believes everything lasts forever could ruin a good thing.

SCORPIO: You can't be held hostage for whatever it is that others seem to be blaming on you. Are they forgetting the part they played in it? You can't ignore these accusations but it won't do you any good to challenge them. If you want this to smooth over walk softly and make it clear that you're not here to hurt anyone. You might also remind everyone that all of this was their idea to begin with. This will make it easier for others to acknowledge the extent to which this most recent drama snowballed out of things that they set in motion a long time ago.

SAGITTARIUS: You're setting yourself up for something that could totally wreck all the goodness you've created if you don't smarten up. Of late, your need to control and/or be right about everything has driven the life out of your relationship with yourself and your relationships with others. Once you figure out that making this work requires that everyone is allowed to be themselves you'll be able to use your power to support instead of control everything to death. Backing off far enough to let everyone have their space would be a good place to start.

CAPRICORN: A lot of good things are growing out of this time. You're feeling clearer and steadier with a sense that even better things will come forth if you just keep this up. For many of you that translates as keeping your nose to the grindstone when it's more about keeping your heart centered in whatever you're doing. You tend to get confused when it comes to remembering what's important. Don't allow yourself to get sucked in by the thought that diligence matters more than joy. Keep the joy quotient high and work with an open heart.

AQUARIUS: Just when everything's set up to go exactly the way you planned the plan is bound to change. If you could see around the corner you'd know this. Others have come forward with warnings but you have chosen to ignore them for the time being. Torn between your desire to keep things just the way they are and rumors that have you wondering what the future holds you're leaning toward staying put. If that's what feels right to you now, go with it. In time, if and when your instincts tell you to switch to Plan B, don't hesitate to trust that it's meant to be.

Pisces: After removing a mask that had come to be whatever you thought you were, the façade is down and you are bringing more of yourself to your life. For many of you, opening up to a broader expression of self has shown you that you're so much simpler, and easier to please than you ever imagined. Instead of living at warp speed you are now revolving in harmony with more natural cycles and rhythms. This change has brought you closer to your loved ones and it has made the whole act of living more fluid and fulfilling than it's been in a long time.

June 2, 2010

ARIES: You would be less upset if you knew that others just don't have the time for you right now. That's all it is; don't take this personally. It's a testimony to your sense of self-absorption that you're oblivious to what's going on in other people's lives. In this situation anything you could do to help would be more appropriate than expecting others to drop what they're doing and rescue you. It's time to stop being such a baby. If you can come to understand this, it'll open the space for you to give your strength and support to a situation that could use all the help it can get.

TAURUS: Don't waste your time trying to get anything more out of this situation. You've either had enough or there isn't anything left to get. If you're holding out for things to change, for your ship to come in, or for someone to wake up and get real, it ain't gonna happen. Part of you knows this. Instead of using your powers of persistence to keep things as they are you could be using them to change the scenery. Think about it. What you've decided can only be a certain way can be any way you want, so don't stay here trying to make something out of nothing.

GEMINI: You may feel compelled to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth but it won't work; not now. There's a time for everything. If you drop this bomb into the situation as it stands you can be sure that others will take it much harder than you expect them to. You don't want to deal with the consequences. Wait a bit. Give whomever this concerns enough time to get back on their feet before you sit them down and explain how they messed up. While I respect your desire to keep everything honest, revealing the truth would be like kicking them when they're down.

CANCER: You don't need to put up with whomever it is that expects you to do it all. It's a bit strange that you feel so obligated. Beyond a certain point it won't work for either one of you to keep relating to each other if you don't address the imbalances that make this so one-sided. You've been through too many situations where the belief that love means putting up with anything has generated nothing but unhappiness. It's OK to love people unconditionally but the law of reciprocity implies that you could use a little more love on the other end of the see-saw.

LEO: Making things harder than they have to be seems a bit stupid. Don't think it will work to play the martyr. It would be so much better if you could just find a way to let this go without turning it into a monument to your developmental issues. If there's a problem, whether you see it or not you brought it on yourself. Stop focusing on the problem and look at the stuff that led you to make it one. The real issue here is your tendency to have to be right and your need to make everything about you. For your current situation to improve, you'll have to get over yourself.

VIRGO: Don't think that being overly kind will help whomever you've taken pity on. There's nothing you can do to change the way things are going for them and you don't want to be the one who cares about it more than they do. Avoidance is the best tactic in situations like this. A little detachment would help things, too. Part of the problem is you're identifying with them too much based on things that happened to you when you were down and out. Step back and ask yourself who you're trying to save before you try to rescue another projection of your inner child.

LIBRA: You didn't realize how much was at stake. When you took this on you were too wrapped up in your illusions to see that your entire life would get rearranged. If your outer reality has shifted, it's because something clicked inwardly. Before everything changed you were already aware that all of it had to be given up for the sake of freedom and truth. The last few months have shown you that you may be the definition of intensity, but when nothing matters more than freedom it's easy to cope with the difficulties that arise when you live your truth.

SCORPIO: There's all kinds of stuff going on. You've been swept away and are now wrestling with the awareness that it's time to swim back to the shore or let go and allow yourself to be carried further into this dream. Trust that the dream has something to it but it may not be exactly the way you picture it now. With no clue as to whether capturing the illusion is what you need to be doing there's no incentive to return to the past. Between a rock and a hard place it's best to dissolve and become fluid enough to let the river carry your spirit deeper into the mystery.

SAGITTARIUS: Standing on principle is one thing — it's quite another to stomp, scream and get rigid about it. You're nuts if you think this crusade will do anything but make you more self-righteous. Aside from that, what are you fighting for? At a time when life needs you to be centered and whole it seems counter-productive to spend so much of your time scattering your energies in a wasted effort. Do yourself a favor and cut your losses. Take your mind off whatever the injustice is, stop trying to prove your point and remember that you came here to enjoy life.

CAPRICORN: You have gotten to the point where high levels of random interference are no longer clogging up the gears. If it feels weird for life to be smooth and calm do your best to sit back and enjoy it because it ain't gonna last. The next phase of your process will probably be bollixed up by the time it takes to deal with other people and their issues. Much of this you will not be able to avoid, but at least half of it is not your problem. Do your best to discern what's important and handle the rest of it by shutting off the need to be responsible for everything.

AQUARIUS: Everything has opened up in a way that has given your perspective what amounts to a shot of B12. You are so glad that you have come to a place where you have the time to reflect on deeper things. The next few weeks will be a retreat of sorts. Allow yourself to rejuvenate and regroup. Within a month things will begin to speed up, and the sense of strength and centeredness you have now will be needed to face increased demands and unexpected pressure at work. Take a deep breath. Use this time to inhale the things that give you life.

Pisces: If in the process of reinventing yourself you found out that you can be anything, congratulations; you got the point. After years of being a caricature of your definition of who a person like you needed to be you've come to understand that who you are is something else entirely. When we decide to be authentic life starts all over again. You may not know what you're doing at the moment, but in the course of rediscovering yourself you will find out that your purpose here has more to do with what's in your heart than it does with outer things.

May 26, 2010

ARIES: Looking back on the last few months it's easy to see that what you were so freaked out about was no big deal. What have you learned from this? With less strain on the brain and the heart maybe you can look at what you really want out of your life right now. New work opportunities are giving you options that weren't there before. The question is: is it really worth giving up on the idea of doing your own thing, for the false sense of security that comes from working for someone else? Nothing is secure right now. Trust me — you can do this on your own.

TAURUS: You've been through so much you've become overly defensive. On guard against further hurts or more collateral damage, going with the flow is next to impossible for you right now. The idea that you could trust anyone is on hold pending any proof that it's safe to do so. Regardless of what's happened, you will only invite more difficulty if you can't figure out how to open up. Any fears that you might be taken for a ride are unfounded. Use this period to figure out how to get past them and keep your shit detector tuned up while you're at it.

GEMINI: It's time to decide. If you're going to do this how are you going to do it? Think ahead. Because what you're itchy about now will get scratchier as time goes on, and if you wait to follow your truer desires you'll go nuts. Settle up with people and situations. Consider living in two places at once. You could even hit the road right now if you wanted to because life seems to be all up in the air. For the first time you feel like you can finally be yourself. Many of you are so out of touch with what that means, this time period could see you acting out all kinds of stuff.

CANCER: High pressure tactics take so many different forms. Not fond of the direct approach you're an expert at subliminal strategy. In your current situation this could turn out to be a huge asset. No matter what form things are taking your needs won't get met by making an issue of them. Whoever you're dealing with likes to know that they're on top. The merits of surrender mixed with unconditional love are as powerful as water when it comes to wearing down the rock of power or resistance. At the moment, your strength lies in your ability to inspire their trust.

LEO: You just woke up to too many things all at once. When life dishes out one thing after another we go into shell-shock. Don't expect yourself to know what to do next. Sort through the rubble and get in touch with what you're dealing with before you even dream of making a plan. Right now the plan is about baby-steps — and it would help if you could resurrect a little faith. Because the key to pulling out of this has to do with seeing the blessing in it and believing with your whole heart that you are totally supported by life no matter how tough things get.

VIRGO: You're getting hassled by someone who's too angry to deal with you honestly. This has been ongoing and it's making your life difficult. I don't know why you need to have someone out there playing the bad guy, but you might want to look at what you're getting out if it. Instead of going into fear about whether they actually have the power to totally screw up your life, stop feeding into it. I hate to clue you but part of you is into this; because if they keep being mean, or cruel, or just plain cuckoo, you get to be the saint, the savior, or the one who can do no wrong.

LIBRA: You've been flipping out more than usual lately. Between outer changes and all the stuff that keeps coming to the surface you're having a hard time maintaining any sense of normalcy. Those close to you haven't been able to figure it out. If you were to describe it to yourself you would say that nothing seems to matter anymore. The sudden realization that life is totally different than you understood it to be would drive anyone nuts. What feels like too much to deal with is really just you waking up to the fact that it's time to start living your truth.

SCORPIO: You could skip this and let someone else handle it. Covering the situation won't heal it and you really aren't qualified to be doing rehabilitation in your spare time. It's one thing to care and quite another to be able to have it make a difference. Whoever you're trying so hard to fix may not respond to anything you do; and you can ignore the fact that maybe this little crusade is really about you needing to be the one to save the day. If it is you'd do better to look at why life seems to require you to be heroic in situations where others don't have the strength for it.

SAGITTARIUS: Too many things have lost their flavor for you to have any sense about what turns you on. The desire to do absolutely nothing battles with the idea that you really ought to be doing something constructive. If this confuses you it's only because you are transitioning into a whole new ball game and you don't have a clue what it involves. The old stuff is there to support whatever happens from here on out; fortunately, you can do all of that with your eyes closed. As far as the latest clue to the new direction goes, it'll reveal itself to you when you least expect it.

CAPRICORN: There's no way you're going to change anyone's mind, so give it up. Their way of thinking and feeling took years to develop and it's based on the sum total of their experience. If you disagree with them, making them wrong won't lead either one of you to a deeper understanding. Ultimately, you both want the same thing but your ways of approaching it are totally different. Instead of dwelling on the gap that separates you it might be better to lighten up enough to see that all either one of you want out of this is what's best for everyone.

AQUARIUS: No one knew how far this situation would go. You can't blame others for what they didn't understand. As much as it looks like this has nothing to do with you there's no way around it — you're here, too. Rewinding back to the point where you made the decision to jump in no matter what the cost will do a lot to show you who got the ball rolling. What if you had said "no" instead of "yes?" You can't change the past, but once you learn to live with it the present reshapes itself and it gives you the freedom to realize that it's just what it took to get you here.

Pisces: The scenery has been changed by life or by recent experiences that have changed you. Nothing is the same. Armed with a new perspective, for the first time in a long time you're not concerned with where anything goes; you're more interested in figuring out where you're going. As time continues to redirect you, be open to the idea that you're renovating or expanding a life that was out of alignment with the person who was living it. The way things are now, you'll be a lot freer to connect with yourself in a way that allows you to feel like you have a purpose.

May 19, 2010

ARIES: Another option just opened up. If you follow up on it you might be able to defuse some of the tension in your work area. If you wanted to you could turn this into something totally incredible, so don't be too conservative about your choices right now. You've had your back to the wall long enough to know that you've got to make a move or risk falling into a systemic trap that won't get you anywhere. Short of bailing out completely, this recent development looks like a better bet than hanging around wondering if you're going to get the axe or be forced to quit.

TAURUS: You have so much going for you. Being able to parlay it into something lasting and permanent will depend on where you decide to put the emphasis. It's so easy to let money be the motivating factor but there's no way things will work if you're operating from the standpoint of "What will this get me?" It might surprise you to know that what you've created has much more to it than you realize. Don't assume that its face value has anything to do with what you're really about and don't let yourself fall into the trap of not seeing that your purpose is tied to it.

GEMINI: If you've done everything that you can, there's nothing left to do. What we often don't take into account is the fact that everything is cumulative. Your efforts have served to plant a seed that will grow into whatever the next step involves. Waiting it out will require you to remain vigilant and have enough faith to realize that we're all on our way somewhere. Instead of wishing things would materialize instantly be aware that your waiting is part of the process. Be mindful of where you place the emphasis and monitor any thought that says this won't happen.

CANCER: You've been flipping out more than usual lately. Between outer changes and all the stuff that keeps coming to the surface you're having a hard time maintaining any sense of normalcy. Those close to you haven't been able to figure it out. If you were to describe it to yourself you would say that nothing seems to matter anymore. The sudden realization that life is totally different than you understood it to be would drive anyone nuts. What feels like too much to deal with is really just you waking up to the fact that it's time to start living your truth.

LEO: In the midst of too much change there's no way you're going to be able to define yourself. The recent loss of ---- (fill in the blanks) has you wondering where you stand and who you are now. If pride makes you feel like there's something wrong with not knowing where you belong, you need to know that "not knowing" is the first step toward enlightenment. Don't waste too much time blaming life or other people for what has happened. Do your best to navigate the empty space that separates one phase from the next and have faith that this too shall pass.

VIRGO: You're not much clearer about things than you were the last time we spoke but you've settled down enough to see that your perspective is a little warped. Now that you understand that yours isn't the only way to see things all things have become possible. You are also beginning to realize that your relationship problems have to do with the fact that your significant other has a totally different viewpoint. For some of you it could be that "never the twain shall meet" — for others it's a question of learning how to balance yourself in the reconciliation of opposites.

LIBRA: For many of you, the issue of what people will think has taught you that it really doesn't matter. For others, you could still be wondering if you need to be concerned about everyone else's opinion. So much is being redefined, how do you expect it to change without blowing a few minds? It would be great if you could lose the need to be OK with everyone. Forget about what all of this says about you and find a way to relate to it without needing to apologize or explain yourself. If this is how you really feel don't be afraid to tell it like it is.

SCORPIO: Too many things have been exposed for you to be able to tie it all together. Between impressions from the past and all the turmoil that's rearranging the present you're having a hard time knowing what to do. As much as you would give anything to make this be what you think it is, circumstances could call you to see that it is something else altogether. Waking up to the truth is only difficult until we realize that it sets us free. This is what you're in the process of working out and you will stick around until you figure out that it's impossible to get blood out of a stone.

SAGITTARIUS: Somehow or other you keep getting involved with people whose issues fill up the better part of the bargain. It's hard to say if you're a sucker for a sob story or if it's your principles that sucker you into taking on the weight of the world. If you're having a hard time figuring out what got you into this mess, it has a lot to do with your tendency to overlook the details. As you sit down to ponder the pros and cons of keeping on or starting over again, remind yourself that some things were never meant to go anywhere; sometimes it's the end of the line.

CAPRICORN: The feeling that you've got it all keeps getting displaced with the thought that you're totally bored with it. All the trouble you went through to build the perfect life and so what? Consider this a phase. There's nothing inherently wrong with the way things are. The problem has more to do with the idea that you've become too identified with the patterns you've created and have forgotten that those patterns were set in place as a structure within which to find yourself. Don't get lost in the pattern. Let your life fill it with something new and different.

AQUARIUS: This would be so much easier if others would stop making you feel responsible for everything. Could it be that you're doing this to yourself? When you really stop and look at it none of this is your fault. In fact, you've been the one to keep things together all of these years. Before you start to overcompensate for whatever it is you haven't done, stop and ask yourself what gives anyone the right to project all of their BS onto you? The less you play into their hand the more they will be able to see that everything would improve if they could just grow up.

Pisces: You have the idea that everything's going to be different from here on out. It certainly looks that way. Before you congratulate yourself for outgrowing certain patterns look around at what's going on and ask yourself if it isn't just a different version of the same old thing. Getting pulled back into things that have been the source of so much misery isn't what you need right now. Instead of taking that risk, it would be best if you took your time and looked at this realistically. If you still want to go through with it a month from now, go ahead and go for it.

May 12, 2010

ARIES: Nobody expects you to be anything but yourself. It's you who has decided you have to put on an act. It might be good for you to ask yourself why you don't consider yourself OK enough to qualify for whatever's going on here. Other issues that go back to the circumstances of your childhood prevent you from growing beyond a certain point. If your mind is open then another part of you is closed to the idea that you too, deserve to have, and be, and do whatever you want. Don't disqualify yourself from the chance of a lifetime. Give yourself permission to shine.

TAURUS: Trouble in paradise? Is this an emergency or have you just woken up to a few things? Any surface disturbance has its origin in things that have been suppressed for far too long. What you take to be a sudden turn of events started reverberating at least seven years ago. If you're in trouble or distressed about anything most of it refers back to that point. What you decide to do about it this time will depend upon whether or not you can accept your previous mistake. Owning up to things will be easier than continuing to pretend that you are right about everything.

GEMINI: You need to think about what it will take to make this work. This isn't one of those things that will benefit from the direct approach. Taking care of it will require you to look at what you owe the situation and decide what it will take to make everything fair and square. If you're honest you know that there's enough of a debt on your part for you to be willing to make a few allowances for people. On paper you have every right to cut the cord, but there are personal issues and lives at stake and you can't just dispense with things without taking all of that to heart.

CANCER: People could care less about your problem. Don't expect anyone to respond. You may not like it but life is teaching you about where your support really comes from. Searching for strength or consolation in anything outside of yourself could be considered a handicap at this point. If this sounds harsh, it's just the way things are. The wise choice would be to accept those conditions and work within them. If you can do that you will forge something lasting and real instead of caving in to the fear that your life depends on who or what is out there to support you.

LEO: It's hard to figure out if you're trying to make this happen or if the act of shooting yourself in the foot is just the old karmic two-by-four whacking you off the side of the head. If we create our own reality you get the Academy Award for what appears to be a cross between The Grapes of Wrath and Gone in 60 Seconds. You could blame this on people, places and things, but so much of what's going on is the direct result of things you did and were never quite clear about. You know what they are. If you can own up to that, this tragedy will turn into a comedy.

VIRGO: The next few weeks will see you reviewing your relationships and their influence on your overall well-being. Your sense of obligation to others weighs so heavily on your mind it would be good if you could step back and see what it gets you. This looks like a one-way street. To keep on giving, or not, is the question of the hour. Everything is relative. For many of you this is a karmic thing, and the issue of when enough is enough depends on things that took place in another time. For others it's a simple matter of learning how to say "no" for a change.

LIBRA: Don't let surface disturbances mislead you into thinking that everything is falling apart. On so many levels you are totally connected. What appears to be shaking down is just what happens when our lives cross over into a renewal phase. If your life is looking a little too much like the last thing you thought would ever happen, it's time to ask yourself why you were so sure it had to be some other way. From another point of view, what's going on here is exactly what you've always wanted. As crazy as this looks, if you can get behind it it'll turn out just fine.

SCORPIO: Don't try to make this decision right now. You keep going back and forth in your head without realizing that this is one choice that only your heart can make. Recent changes make it difficult to be clear about what's going on, and this is another reason to take your time. It's pretty obvious that you know what you want. The problem is that you are so afraid of what it will do to other people. From the looks of things, a delay of a few weeks will open the space for other issues to clear up. When those things are fully resolved your choice will be easier to make.

SAGITTARIUS: You can quit or you can wait and see if things improve. Part of you knows that nothing you say or do is going to change this, but you're still running on the hope that it could. Everyone's telling you to forget about it. Half of them can't be trusted and the rest of them are dishing out advice based on their own misfortunes. You'd be stupid to listen to anyone right now. I get the feeling that whatever this looks like now, the passage of time is going to mold it into something more to your liking. In rare instances, sometimes it's worth it to keep on trucking.

CAPRICORN: You've been juggling so many variables, no wonder you're feeling a little schizophrenic. Flipping back and forth between this and that makes it difficult to find yourself when life settles down at the end of the day. You don't necessarily need a vacation because you thrive more on work than you do on play. But you definitely need to chill out because the bigger part of you is spiritually exhausted from having to live this way. Something needs to change. You could start by getting in touch with what it would take to feel centered and whole again.

AQUARIUS: The least of your worries turned out to be something else altogether. Little did you know what people were capable of. Signs of betrayal began to leak through the cracks long before this, but you were too busy denying it to see this coming. Fortunately, you're not one of those people who likes to play the victim. You're also better than most when it comes to owning up to the truth. Your current affairs could get worse before they get better. Avoid anyone who tries to get you to bare your soul. Whatever you say will be used against you.

Pisces: The horizon has changed so much you have to re-evaluate everything. You feel clearer about who you are inwardly and it's time to bring all of that to the surface. As this happens, more than one adjustment will have to be made and people will either go along with it or they won't. Don't be timid about the way you approach your next move and whatever you do, don't hang around waiting for others to back you up. Too much hangs on your ability to act decisively, even in the face of people who will do their best to convince you that you're making a mistake.

May 5, 2010

ARIES: The rug is getting pulled out from under everything. You're either saying, "Thank God!" or "Why me?" For some, the idea of getting sucker-punched by providence is so upsetting it becomes impossible for you to see that life might be doing you a favor. Underneath it all, the start of a whole new chapter has been written by forces that are more interested in your purpose than they are with the things that give your ego a chance to feel comfortable. If you can let go of the need to know where this is going it could turn into something absolutely miraculous.

TAURUS: People use silence as a control device. If you're concerned about your own (or someone else's) lack of communication, chalk it up to the idea that for now, it's just easier not to talk about things. Step back and look at the chain of events that got you to the point where the truth became too much to bear. Opening the vault on that information will help you understand what's going on. Other issues underscore the need to back off or take it easy in general. Less is more. So is the idea that the best opportunities materialize when we are totally blissed out!

GEMINI: What you weren't counting on just panned out. Now that you've got your wish you are blown away by the idea that you actually deserve this. Don't sabotage it any more than you have to. Other areas point to the need for an open mind. The one you thought would never wake up is currently on fire with a desire to reconnect with you. You weren't prepared for this and you're not up to speed but you're willing to take another chance. What seems crazy to even dream of getting involved in is a sure bet. Once things get rolling I have a feeling you'll be glad you did.

CANCER: Don't mistake all this attention for true affection. Before you decide where to place your trust give it time to simmer. It could very well be that others are here with all the best intentions, but you never know. Aside from that, what's the rush? In light of some of the things that have screwed up your relationships in the past you should know enough to take your time. It's hard to say what it is about you that can't stay away from the next love affair, but if I were you I'd break the habit — because you keep jumping from the frying pan right into the fire.

LEO: You can't expect people to read your mind. It seems absurd in light of the fact that even you don't know what you're thinking. If you could step back from whatever it is that you're obsessing about you would see that you have spun this into something that has absolutely nothing to do with what's real. Getting over yourself and letting go enough to see that no one's out to get you or hurt you will require you to sweep the dust off more than one dark secret. It would be great if your ego was more willing to finally look at things for what they really are.

VIRGO: The benefit of the doubt can be hard to extend when people seem so hellbent on driving you nuts. Instead of trying to figure out why others need your attention, you'd do better to ignore their attempts to suck you into their little web of intrigue. The more you stay away the easier it will be for them to get to the root of their problem. Until this happens it will do you no good to engage. Don't try to explain your reasons for anything — and whatever you do, don't buy into the idea that they're actually ready to come to terms with the truth about themselves.

LIBRA: Calm down enough to see this for what it is. You spend too much time dramatizing the rightness of your position at a time when you could achieve more by cooperating. Past experience has conditioned you to believe that things can never be "win-win," when the truth is there is always a way for everyone to get what they need out of a situation. Maybe it's time to vent or give yourself a chance to see that there's nothing to be afraid of. Be flexible in your expectations and realize that the possibilities are only limited by your ability to believe in them.

SCORPIO: You are having a hard time dealing with somebody and their authority issues. It wouldn't matter so much if you weren't given the impression that you came here to work as a team. What no one told you is that your "partner" likes to be in charge. What was also never made clear is that you would never be free to implement your own ideas. Now that you're here you see that circumstances will only get worse if you decide to be OK with this. What you're not as sure about is the question of how confident you feel about walking away from it.

SAGITTARIUS: Don't get involved with this. You will never be able to figure it out. You assume that being close to someone means that it's your job to deal with their stuff, too — when in reality we can only deal with ourselves. Just because you care it doesn't mean others care enough about themselves to contribute to the effort. Before you decide to step in and save the day, reflect on whether or not people actually want to be saved. The Good Samaritan routine makes a nice story, but in real life it sometimes creates chaos and gets you into situations that totally suck.

CAPRICORN: You can relax when it comes to wondering if you're off the hook. It seems as if everyone has figured out that they need to grow up and deal with themselves. This means that you're free. Questions as to whether or not you know what will happen next depend on the extent to which you remember what you wanted before other things became important. If you've kept up with yourself you know what that is. For many of you the answer will be harder to come by, but either way: the real you is just beginning to live. You are about to rediscover yourself.

AQUARIUS: You have had it up to here with more than a few things. Surrounded by people who aren't in the mood to look at themselves, the level of dysfunction is straight out of daytime TV. Why is it that hardly anyone is willing to go to the mat when it comes time to own up to the truth? You're so done with pretending to go along with this you don't even care what happens. Creative separations and the idea of a little time out will give everyone a chance to see who they are and what they're doing here. Don't exempt yourself from the rigors of self-examination.

Pisces: You can't figure out why this isn't going the way you thought it would. If it's easier to keep blaming things on people, places and things, go for it ­— but this will only make matters worse. Anyone with eyes can see that you bring everything on yourself. The only way to heal this is to step out of denial and take your entire history into account. When it's always someone else's fault this becomes a perfect excuse for why nothing ever goes right. You've got some hard lessons in facing the music and realizing that something in you is more comfortable with failure.

April 28, 2010

ARIES: Whatever they’re saying behind your back will cost them more than it costs you. Don’t be concerned. You can be sure that the only ones who are listening are the ones who see it that way to begin with. Your truer friends are always there for you. These things are only indicators or signs that say "things have changed" and you can no longer go by anything that was in place even a month ago. Don’t waste too much time worrying about your reputation because you are not what you do, and the ones who know you know that your truer self is the soul of integrity.

TAURUS: Don’t obsess over ailments that nobody has a name for. Too many things are changing for you to think that you could make it through without a symptom or two. As your heart opens to a clearer sense of what it’s here for, is it any wonder that it might skip a beat now and then? Caring for ourselves has less to do with hovering over the physical vehicle than it does with giving ourselves all the room in the world to grow. At this point you’d do well to be a little more forgiving and a lot less obsessive, as you discover what it truly means to love yourself.

GEMINI: You’ll need the wisdom of Solomon to figure this one out. Close ties make it hard to be objective. As your staunchest allies tell you it’s time to make a move, the thought that you might hurt someone by leaving everything behind makes you doubt yourself. Sifting through the feelings, you are 100 percent sure that there’s another way to go about things. And you are beginning to understand that your spirit has a life of its own. The need to shift gears and move on is the spirit’s call to greatness. Don’t allow lesser mortals to convince you that you need to stay put.

CANCER: The lies are what get us in the end. If you are just beginning to see this you’re blown away by the need to make amends. Any attempt to return to integrity will help everyone involved. Your desire to clear the air comes out of recent epiphanies or conversations where you finally got to hear the other side of the story. The whole truth has made it possible for you to forgive everyone, including yourself. There’s plenty of hope that you will be able to heal everything that brought you to this point, but give it time and let others meet   you halfway.

LEO: You’ve got to get a hold of yourself. Before you fly off the handle make sure you know what you’re talking about and who you’re talking to. Hopefully your latest faux pas hasn’t led to too much trouble. It would be better for you if you could get over yourself enough to apologize because you won’t learn anything from this mistake if you can’t admit that you made it. You’re wise enough and big enough to do this; if only you could talk the prideful part of your being into realizing that it comes before a fall. Think about that and consider the virtues of humility.

VIRGO: Whatever you need or want to be doing, stop putting it off. You know what it is; and the idea that you have to repress the urge is crazy. I don’t know who got to you first, but you seem to think that life is about obeying rules that have nothing to do with anything. If you’ve asked this question more than once it’s for sure you already know what the answer is. If you’re still wondering, part of you is sure that if you keep doing what you’re doing things will only produce more of the same. When change is the operative word it's nuts to second-guess it.

LIBRA: Too many things are eating away at your sense of certainty for you to be sure how you feel. The brunt of it seems to be coming from circumstantial interference and the rest of it is coming from other people and their choices. How those things affect you will depend upon what you’re willing to accept. This is one of those times when you could even start smoking because the stress is so unusual. Words of comfort won’t match the level of intensity that’s swirling in and out of this, so for now, don’t even try to figure this out and do your best to endure what you can’t avoid.

SCORPIO: This would be easier if your history wasn’t so checkered with memories that keep reminding you how nuts you are to be falling into the same old trap. You used to do this unconsciously, but at this point your routine is so familiar you’re totally aware of it. Believe it or not, observing our mistakes gives us a chance to see how fate and free will intertwine. And what you see now is showing you that none of this would have turned out the way it did if you could just figure out how to stop the madness and be a little more particular about who you love.

SAGITTARIUS: There’s nothing you can do to influence people when their feelings are overly involved in a situation. It’s obvious to you that someone close is being a little too understanding when it comes to other people and their flaws. And what they find so easy to forgive is beginning to affect your life as much as it does theirs. You will have to resign yourself to this until they come to terms with it inside themselves, because the more you highlight whatever the problem is the more they will try to justify their codependence by taking sides with the culprit.

CAPRICORN: The less you know about some things, the better. Whatever happened while you weren’t looking is none of your business. Aside from that, aren’t you tired of playing the role of the cop? Now that you’re paying attention instead of getting too involved with other people’s affairs it might be good to give some energy to your own. This may require you to retreat for a while. It might also be a good idea to regroup and re-plan the next few months because too much is going on for you to own the luxury of being distracted by anything but what’s on your plate.

AQUARIUS: Don’t even try to figure out how things got this crazy. You can take comfort in knowing that even those who appear to have the world on a string are living through their own version of this insanity. You’ll do more for yourself if, instead of trying to correct everyone’s behavior and attempting to recreate what was never there to begin with, you let everything be what it is. It might also be good to remember to expect less and learn how to love people in spite of themselves, because underneath all the madness everyone’s doing the best they can.

PISCES: You thought you hit the bottom line a while back but you’re beginning to see that it goes deeper than that. Lessons in what it means to return to your self have shown you how far you strayed from the path. Imagine all that time spent being totally deluded about who you are and what you’re here for! Now that you’ve found the road home, retracing your steps will rewind you through all of your choices to the point where none of this even existed. Imagining that, the question that you might want to ask is: do you even remember who you were, way back then?

April 21, 2010

ARIES: The question is always about how far we’re willing to go. You aren’t as sure about this as you would like to be. As much as part of you wants to dive right in and have the experience, you’re having second thoughts about putting yourself through the wringer. Not knowing what you’ll miss if you decide to let this go, you’re wondering if going to extremes is the only way to find out what you need to know. For the time being, it might be best to wait and see. All the facts aren’t in, and if this is worth the risk it’ll keep until you’re clear about it.

TAURUS: You can’t deny the need for change. This has been staring you in the face for quite some time. Now that you see that you have no other choice you’re in doubt about your ability to handle this. Don’t get weird about whatever life is calling you to do; and don’t assume that change means throwing the baby out with the bath water. There are ways to get things to turn around without losing the better part of what you’ve created. Before you can move forward you may have to take two steps back in order to clear the path toward something new and different.

GEMINI: Too many people, too much going on and no time for yourself has turned life into a bit of a zoo. You aren’t into this and you’d just as soon drop out for a while. At the moment, your presence seems to be mandatory. Trying to do it all with a smile would be easier if your teeth weren’t clenched over some of the things that have come down lately. Projects that looked like they were worth the effort have been screwed up by people who didn’t have anyone’s best interests in mind. You’ve had it with trying to make sense of why you bothered to take it on.

CANCER: Petty gossip is more fun when you’re not the center of it. The topic of more than one conversation, it’s too bad no one really knows what’s going on, and even less about whether or not you play into it. You’ve got your reasons for keeping silent. Jumping in to defend yourself will only make things worse. Situations like this require us to let people think what they want and refrain from over-exposing ourselves to their judgments. You’ve definitely got the soap opera of the century going on but there’s nothing about it that warrants this much speculation.

LEO: Somehow or other you have gotten the wrong impression. Either that or you’re taking out your frustrations on someone who has nothing to do with the problem. If apologies aren’t already in order you might want to think about being more careful about the way you speak to people. It doesn’t matter who’s right or wrong; it’s time for everyone to pull their heads out of their butts and get over it. A sense of humor would definitely go a long way towards taking the edge off of this. If you didn’t take yourself so seriously you’d be laughing at yourself for being such a total idiot.

VIRGO: Getting entangled in a drama that isn’t even yours has wasted too much of your precious time. Maybe next time you’ll know enough to step back and let it run its course. If I were you I’d lose the need to play the codependent role, because your real gifts will not develop until you release yourself from the urge to always put everything ahead of yourself. You may not realize it but things have changed so completely that the old you isn’t even here anymore. As soon as you figure out who you’ve become you will be able to stop giving all your power away.

LIBRA: If there’s trouble in paradise, it’s to be expected. Your lessons are coming one right after another and you can’t figure out what you did to deserve this. If you’ve lived long enough to know that life goes up and down you see this as a test and are probably growing by leaps and bounds. If you’re having a hard time adjusting to the fact that things are less than perfect you need to open your mind to the idea that your pictures of perfection have nothing to do with you or your life. Before this can change, all of your illusions will have to be exposed to the truth.

SCORPIO: Things seem to be running at cross purposes. You aren’t too sure how to juggle too much at once, but you’re learning. And it’s teaching you so much about the relative importance of "this versus that." You are beginning to see that what we call "crisis" is really an opportunity to blow the dust off our lives. As far as that goes, all of a sudden half of what you’re involved in has lost its meaning and you’re unclear about what needs to be kept and what needs to fall away. Don’t worry about it. Nature will sort all of that out if you just keep remaining true to yourself.

SAGITTARIUS: You’ve had your share of too much stuff. Putting up with it has left you feeling wiped out and perhaps a little desensitized. The endlessness of the rat race makes it difficult to stop and give yourself what you need — but only you can draw the line. Making choices to preserve your sanity could involve giving everything only what it needs. Going all out with every blessed thing makes about as much sense as driving a tack with a sledgehammer. Use some of that energy to put toward the things that are personally meaningful to you and pay the piper only what he’s due.

CAPRICORN: You can’t expect people to want to approach you when every signal suggests that you prefer to be left alone. Whining about your sense of separation doesn’t make sense in light of your desire for solitude. The deeper issue has something to do with whatever you’re hiding. It’s no one’s business but yours — unless you make it so by broadcasting the idea that you want to be close but you can’t bring yourself to go there. Which is it? If you want to end this sense of separation you’re going to have to get over the fear that you’ll lose yourself if you hook up.

AQUARIUS: You’ve got differences of opinion that stand to distance you from anyone who doesn’t share the same view. As hard as it may be to see it any other way but your own, it would make your life easier if you could open up. If what you crave more than anything is love, what is it that causes you to reject the possibility just because someone does things a little differently than you do? Rigidity about anything is always an indication of resistance. When we push things away nothing comes to us. Get over yourself. You could be having a ball if you weren’t so stuck.

PISCES: It’s obvious that things are about to take off and you’re a little nervous about how it’s going to go. I don’t blame you, because so much of what you’re involved in has an edge to it and things could explode before this turns into a supernova. Part of you is worried about hurting people and another part of you is more concerned with the truth. What you seem to forget is that sometimes the truth hurts. It’s not your job to babysit other people’s emotional responses — especially now when their feelings seem to be at the heart of what’s holding things back

 

April 14, 2010

ARIES: Just when you thought things were going to slow down they’re speeding up again. You aren’t sure you’re ready for more but you see that you can’t stop the momentum and you sense that there has to be a reason why all of this is up to you. You have good reasons to want to step out of the picture and focus on your own affairs; it’s been too much for too long and part of you is totally exhausted. The universe seems to be expecting you to carry on with the same level of integrity no matter what. If your second wind is anywhere in sight, breathe deep and take it now.

TAURUS: You are so good at staying focused it would be great if you didn’t have to keep getting distracted by things that won’t go away. On some level you are so clear about what you’re doing that you have even convinced others that you know what’s going on. But you’ve shoved too much under the rug to really believe that you can get off to a whole new start with all this dead weight threatening to drag you down. The picture you’ve hung over the hole in the wall is pretty enough; it’s what’s behind it that you need to reckon with if you want this to work.

GEMINI: You’re anxious about something that won’t even happen. If you could see around the corner you’d know that whatever you’re so worried about will be subject to some form of divine intervention. It’s quite possible that the whole thing will get called off. It could also be that things change to make all of it less of a hassle. Instead of getting all worked up over this bring yourself back to a place of knowing that it’s not up to you to direct anything. You need to wake up and realize that what you’ve turned into a big deal is taking very good care of itself.

CANCER: Nobody could have foreseen this. Don’t fault yourself for having too much faith. Now that things have rearranged themselves you need to reevaluate your goals. If you really need to stay where you are there’s no sense trying to change things — but if you’re able to make some kind of move you need to know that it could turn into a miracle. Your instincts are speaking to you for the first time in a long time. Seven years ago they would have told you to take an entirely different route; at the moment, they’re begging you to settle down.

LEO: You aren’t too sure why you can’t deal with this but you know that it doesn’t feel right. It’s OK to say "no" to things. It looks to me like others have boundary issues that make it hard for them to see that they assume far too much when they say this was meant to be. Aside from that, you get the sense that they’re either insincere or they just aren’t what they appear to be. Oh well. Don’t waste a minute wondering if it’ll hurt their feelings if you tell them the truth. In situations like this, if you don’t tell the truth it takes forever to get the person to leave you alone.

VIRGO: You can’t worry about what people will do next. In this situation, the less you think about them the better off you’ll be. Every time you rehash whatever it is that didn’t go right it weakens your ability to move on with your life. And what you may not understand is that regardless of how they decide to represent themselves, you will not incur any further penalties or suffer from their efforts to bring you down. Your debts to this situation have already been paid. Others can keep grinding their axe if they choose; fortunately, you’ve got better things to do.

LIBRA: You need to watch the extent to which you allow others to make your decisions for you. In a similar vein, it would be good for you to monitor the tendency to over identify with whoever you’re with at the expense of yourself. You are not a mixture of other people and their ideas. Finding the balance that you crave isn’t going to happen if you neglect the need to connect with your own truth. If you even know what you think anymore, get in touch with whatever it is that will help you align with your core. This business of externalizing everything has to stop.

SCORPIO: The next time you decide to lower your standards, see if you can bring yourself back to this current state of affairs. You’re aware enough of what this has gotten you to see that checking people’s references should be your first order of business, no matter how nicely people may truss themselves up. This most recent scumbag came disguised as the nicest person on the planet. It wasn’t until you caught them in a lie that you realized you were about to get ripped off. Too bad you didn’t pay attention to the signs. Next time you’ll know enough not to trust them.

SAGITTARIUS: Too much of a good thing can be overwhelming. Your powers of manifestation have unleashed more than you bargained for and now the sorcerer’s apprentice has some cleaning up to do. Being careful what we wish for is an art. You definitely got what you wanted, but it seems to be a little fuzzy around the edges. The next time you conjure up a lover, make sure you mention that you need them to be faithful and emotionally available. The same goes if this is about work. You’ve got to include a clause that makes it steady and enjoyable.

CAPRICORN: If you’re procrastinating I can understand why; I wouldn’t want to make this choice either. Sooner or later you’ll have accept the fact that it won’t go away. What isn’t clear now would be clearer to you if you focused on it instead of scattering your attention all over the place. You need to stop and address some of the fears that keep making you think that your life won’t be worth much if you stop doing this. None of us are what we do; and your truer fear may be about finding out who you really are and what you’re really worth underneath all of this.

AQUARIUS: You have managed to balance a very tenuous situation with a lot of diplomacy and a deftness at playing both ends to the middle. It’s been interesting how it’s found its way to a resolution without turning into a scene. It’ll be a while before the warring parties can ever manage to be in the same room together so don’t go pushing for too much camaraderie, and don’t expect them to bury the hatchet just because they signed a treaty. Playing the mediator for a little while longer will require you to make it clear to everyone that you will not take sides.

PISCES: Ninety percent of this is inconsequential. When you strip away all of your surface considerations it boils down to who we think we are versus who we truly are. You went so far into the fantasy you built up around yourself that your persona forgot its place. You even came to believe that you had actually located yourself in the scheme of things. Recent, irrevocable changes have brought you closer to the truth — and what you need now has a lot to do with getting out of here, because the old frequencies only keep you tuned to the same old channel. 

April 7, 2010

ARIES: You could make this easy and surrender to whatever the issue is; because it’s bigger than you are and it won’t yield to resistance or pressure. Aside from that, at this point you’re too tired to put up a fight. No matter who or what the opponent appears to be, the only way you’re going to be able to go with the flow is to turn off the need to manage things that could be happening for reasons that you have yet to understand. Disengage enough to see the gift in a gnarly set of circumstances. Don’t make things worse by playing poor pitiful me.

TAURUS: It’s hard to know what would work out best for you in the long run. You keep doing what you’re doing because you belong here and because there’s a certain amount of comfort in knowing your place. At the same time, there’s so much that you’d abandon this for in a heartbeat -— if you weren’t such a steady, dutiful soul. Beyond that, the bird in your hand doesn’t look half as attractive as the two that are sitting in the bush. Odds are you will stay where you are and be greatly surprised when you find out that you get to have your cake and eat it, too.

GEMINI: You haven’t had enough time to figure out where you stand with all of this. Don’t make it harder by rehashing it and do your best to remain philosophical. Instead of looking for someone to blame, you need to realize that you saw it coming and be accepting of the fact that regardless of how it happened, it happened for the best. One foot in front of the other will show you that what appears to be a crisis is really just the way out of a situation that needed to fall apart. Instead of dwelling in the blood on the tracks lift your heart to the thought of renewal.

CANCER: You keep telling yourself that you aren’t ready for this but you know just as well that it’s time to shit or get off the pot. The fantasy that says you don’t have to grow up has you chasing after one thing and another but your heart wants something else these days. When you get in touch with what that is you may discover that settling in would give you a better shot at satisfaction. Everything changes, and the aims that were relevant to your spirit seven or eight years ago have no bearing on it now. Regroup and ask yourself what would make you happy.

LEO: The sense of paranoia that had you waiting for the other shoe to drop has been replaced with the understanding that you have nothing to fear. If those who seemed untrustworthy have redeemed themselves you are also realizing that your trust issues have played a huge role in making this entire situation harder than it has to be. Now that you can see how foolish it is to imagine the worst you are just as aware that you have to learn how to respect people enough to believe that they mean you no harm and that they could, in fact, be here to do you some good!

VIRGO: You don’t know which end is up. If you were a little less compulsive it would be OK — but you’re going nuts trying to figure out if you really do need to keep doing what you’re doing or if it’s time to give it up. When things get like this it’s futile to think that anything is black and white. At the same time, it’s quite clear that if you keep doing what you’re doing you will only create more of the same. You may be afraid to change your tactics but I’ll tell you what: you aren’t going to solve this by using the same methods that messed everything up to begin with.

LIBRA: The open road may be the only solution to a situation that doesn’t seem to be responding to your attempts to return to normal. It could very well be that this is really about redefining "normal." If that is the case, releasing yourself into the great unknown could go a long way to helping you reestablish a sense of belonging. Staying put appears to be the safer bet only until you realize that you’ve exhausted all the resources that are available to you here and you’re sick and tired of only having permission to bring one-tenth of yourself to the party.

SCORPIO: It isn’t that someone doesn’t care, it’s just that they’re on a downswing and all their energy is being consumed by things that have nothing to do with how they feel about you. Needing to be the centerpiece in someone else’s life rarely gives us anything but sorrow. Don’t keep trying to change their mind. Disappear for a while. You don’t need to hang around and hold their hand through this process. If you could take your attention off what you’re not getting from them, you’d see that your own life is on an upswing and this doofus is just dragging you down.

SAGITTARIUS: This turned out to be such a good thing you’re sort of blown away by it. Something must have clicked because you seem to be flowering instead of "all business and under control." After the last few months you’ve seen that it doesn’t matter how much you try to do the right thing --— life works better when you let the right thing be whatever’s true for you. Others may find fault with some of your recent choices. Don’t take their judgments to heart. Half of the time what people find fault with is something that, underneath it all, they wish they could have.

CAPRICORN: What an amazing time. You snapped out of it long enough to see that things might be as good as they look. Not having any exposure to this much perfection, you’re confused as to what to do next. That’s OK. There isn’t any template for things like this. Underneath all of the stuff that is totally blowing your mind, you have yet to accept the fact that life will never look normal again. Surrender to this and feel safe knowing that you’re being called to start living your dream instead of searching for it. Get with the program. Open your heart and get into it.

AQUARIUS: You’d just as soon blow this off. You’ve been there and done that so many times you really don’t need to stick around. Find someone to take care of your duties and disappear, because you’ll wind up handling the whole thing if you’re not careful. Your personal life has taken an interesting turn and that’s part of the reason you need a break. After doing a 180 in the love department, the whiplash of reality is making you wonder what you did. The one who looked like they could walk on water has turned into a human being — can you handle it?

PISCES: You’d be happier about this if it was your idea. You either want more or less than the one who’s calling the shots, but unfortunately you don’t have the power here. Sometimes it’s best to recognize that it serves us to acquiesce. In the end, you’ll get what you want, or you’ll get more of what you already have. The need to be strategic can’t be overemphasized. For someone who has a hard time focusing on anything but themselves, at times it’s wise to be more aware of other people’s issues than you are of your own; especially when so much depends on them.

 

March 31, 2010

ARIES: There’s not a whole lot you can do to change this. If it isn’t working for you maybe you should take it as a sign. A little foresight could show you that there’s only one way it can go and it seems to me that you can’t let yourself agree to those conditions. Little did you know how freaky things can get when you have to face whatever you haven’t had the courage to deal with. If I were you I’d walk on out of here and tell whoever has a problem with it that you aren’t willing to sell your soul for money or anything else. Reclaim yourself. It’s never too late to get a life.

TAURUS: Whoever it is that you’ve chosen to rely upon isn’t going to live up to your expectations. They either don’t see things your way or they don’t have enough invested in this to care about it as much as you need them to. It’s one of those times when the lesson seems to be about seeing what’s there or seeing what you want to see. Instead of wishing things were different you might want to check in with yourself and accept the fact that regardless of how things appear, you are dealing with someone whose motives are completely and totally selfish.

GEMINI: Choosing your battles will require you to decide whether or not it’s worth it to try to make this right. On paper it seems like a good idea but how far do you think you’ll get with people who don’t know how to tell the truth? Don’t waste your time. It will keep too much of your energy focused on the problem at a time when you really need to be creating solutions. Let whoever’s on the other side of this learn their lessons from someone else. Pack up your troubles and look beyond the pettiness of this situation far enough to see it as one of your luckier breaks.

CANCER: You just woke up and realized that you’ve got to pull your life together or risk remaining stuck in a groove that only goes one way. Ask yourself if this is what you always wanted to be when you grew up? If you’ve settled into something it relates to decisions that were made seven years ago. Too much has changed for you to think that you can make what mattered so much to you then mean as much to you now. Rethinking your life is no sign of failure. Get out of your head long enough to see that there are a million and one ways to get the most out of life.

LEO: You’ve got the same old thing driving you crazy. It could be a person or a pattern or an issue, but whatever it is it won’t go away. Anything that keeps coming around is a sign. The only way you can get this to stop is to look at what it has to tell you. If you’ve gotten yourself into something that looks like everything else is to blame you haven’t figured out that you played a major part in bringing it on yourself. False impressions, ambiguities and whatever you have yet to find out about yourself will hold you hostage only until you start to see this for what it is.

VIRGO: If you aren’t sure about things it’s because your life is in a state of flux. Outwardly everything is copasetic. Inwardly the message sounds something like: it would be great if I could get off the boat and find another way to do things. Caught between what needs to be done and what lies unexplored you’re wondering why we spend more time working than we do living. Too many things are about to open up for you to be timid about moving in a new direction. If you play your cards right you’ll be able to get off the boat without neglecting your obligations.

LIBRA: After what you’ve been through in the last couple of years you should know better than to put things off. What you think needs to happen in six months needs to happen now. Others have proven themselves enough for you to trust the fact that they won’t let you down and you seem to be OK with the idea that they’re here for the duration — so what will you cook up next? When you took this leap you knew it would take you over the edge. Now that you’re here you need to realize that you can go anywhere. The only question seems to be how high can you fly?

SCORPIO: The last time you got this bold it worked out well for you. I’m not so sure what it will get you now but you’re about to find out. It would be great if whoever you’re trying to impress had a reason to need whatever you have to sell. It basically doesn’t matter how you put yourself across because everything is a two-way trail. And what I see is you barreling head-on into something as if you owned it at a time when you have no claim to either it or the idea that whoever’s out their even wants to reciprocate. Hello? What makes you think this will work?

SAGITTARIUS: You have been immersed in the same thing for so long you can’t see it for what it is. So much of this feels comfortable that the thought of changing it hasn’t occurred to you. You know as well as I do that as soon as anything settles into a routine there’s a risk that we become identified with our role and lose sight of the fact that we aren’t what we do. If you can still find yourself in this situation keep playing your part — but if you’re feeling antsy, or if any of this has you thinking that you could get lost in it, check out your reasons for wanting to keep it alive.

CAPRICORN: The ones who have needed you most are taking good care of themselves for the time being. You would be wise to follow suit, because in a few months all of your energy will be taken up with more demands to prove yourself on every front. You face decisions that will see you questioning the benefits of expansion versus contraction. They will be easier to make if you approach them from the standpoint of making the most of what you have or capitalizing on what is already in place. It’s time to renovate and redefine things. If you can do that you will flourish.

AQUARIUS: You have to step back from this if you want to understand it. The way you see it now is making it really hard for you to appreciate the extent to which you have it made. Part of you still believes that you have to knock yourself out to get anywhere at a time when the rest of the world has figured out that all you have to do is get out of the way. Keep pushing and see what you end up creating for yourself, but while you’re at it remember this: the better it gets, the better it gets. Once you start to lighten up and enjoy yourself this will begin to make sense.

PISCES: You have been on the fence about more than one thing and part of you feels like it’s time to speak up. What you haven’t taken into account is the fact that no one’s listening, and if they are they can only hear what they’re willing to hear. It makes no sense for you to stick around and try to justify things that won’t be clear in anyone’s mind for a long, long time. Think less about what others might think and more about what it will take for you to make peace with a situation that came to life because you woke up one morning and decided to tell the truth.

 

March 24, 2010

ARIES: You don’t need to keep this up. You’ve been thinking about making a change and there’s a reason why everything seems to be coming unglued. Go back in time to the point where all of this began and realize that you’ve come full circle. To try to continue with something that has already run its course could be the definition of insanity. If you think your survival depends on sticking to the plan, whether you know it or not the plan has changed. You are as close as you’ll ever be to turning this into a miracle. Don’t be afraid to risk it all if you have to.

TAURUS: Being judged on our merits is one of those things that can go either way. You’ve got more than enough to offer. There seems to be no problem with your presentation. What you may not have taken into account is the relative intelligence and honesty of the people who judge you. The beauty in this hasn’t escaped the notice of those whose approval you seek. You’ve made your impression. If there’s any goodness in it you will get the support you need. Whatever you’re aiming at will happen by default if you just keep telling the truth and putting out your best effort.

GEMINI: This doesn’t have to turn into a big production. You could be overreacting to something that is less of a deal than you’re making it. Whoever you have a problem with would be easier to get around if you understood more about how they see things. You don’t have to be their next best friend to figure out why it is that they won’t get off your back. This is a no-brainer, my friend. If you want to sort things out all you have to do is be willing to hear them out, decide how much you owe on this debt and strike it off your list of unpaid bills once and for all.

CANCER: The sense of foreboding that has you thinking things are bound to get worse has nothing to do with your current situation. Something from the past has triggered this. If you know what it is, pull yourself together and deal with it. If you’re clueless as to what this is all about it’s time to look at your life without your blinders. Ultimately, what you’re really afraid of may be more about opening up to yourself. Tell your inner child to trust that the adult in you is well-equipped to deal with pretty much anything and open up to the fact that your life is just fine.

LEO: You have been playing a little game with yourself. It’s fine to be dreaming up whatever you want but you can’t have it be at anyone else’s expense. This business of showing people around, or showing them the ropes has led them to believe that you are larger than life — when in fact, you just work here. Maybe it doesn’t matter to you whether you’ve created the wrong impression, and perhaps whoever’s fallen for it has their own lessons to learn. For your own sake, I suggest you come clean about whatever it is you’ve puffed up just to win people’s approval.

VIRGO: You are in what is known as the calm before the storm. The underlying sense that something is about to pop isn’t just your "nervous Nellie" working over time. You may already have a sense of which area of your life the disturbance will come from but you could just as easily be oblivious to it. For many of you there will be changes in the lives of those close to you that will call you to rearrange your priorities. For others it’ll be some out of the blue shift that will remind you how naïve it is to think that anything lasts. Either way it’ll be an interesting ride.

LIBRA: You’ve totally had it. If you weren’t so good at putting on a happy face God knows what you’d come up with. As if one crisis after another wasn’t enough, all of a sudden things got worse and you’re wondering what it’s all for. I have no advice to give you except to say that even this has to have a purpose. Instead of focusing so much on the problem take a look at what the solution might be. If you could only bring yourself to accept the fact that you have absolutely nothing to say about other people’s choices, their direction or their life, this would be easier.

SCORPIO: It’s hard to believe that you’re out of the woods but it looks as if this new situation will get you by for now. There’s been enough uncertainty in the past year or so for you to wonder what it would take to hold everything together. If what’s come to save the day is as good as it looks make the most of it and see where it goes. Temporary stability will give you a chance to regroup and realize that if anything, the last year has taught you the importance of having more than one option. Look to this new position as a point of connection. Don’t get stuck here.

SAGITTARIUS: You wouldn’t have gone ahead with this if you knew more about where people really stood with it. Too late you’ve seen that they used you because they didn’t have enough of their own steam to make it go. Once again, here you are questioning the ways in which you want more for people than they want for themselves — and no matter how much you care, nothing you do can give that to them; so much for the "good samaritan" syndrome. How you’ll manage to cut the cord is another issue. Expect a tantrum or two and a good share of drama before this is over.

CAPRICORN: Seeing things for what they are has never been a problem for you. I don’t know what it is about your current situation but you keep dressing it up and calling it something that it isn’t. Before you or anyone involved can get anywhere you’ve got to address the elephant in the living room. Once everyone gets clear about the fact that whatever they’ve been in denial about has taken over their life it’ll be easier for them to rearrange their perspective on issues that have never been fully revealed. It’s truth telling time. Be prepared for everything to be stripped bare.

AQUARIUS: It’s a good thing you’re preoccupied with something that needs all your attention, because there is so much you either can’t or don’t wish to see. Burying your head in your work, making sure that no one interferes with what must be done, letting people know that you’re in seclusion; these are all ways of avoiding the sense that there’s no passion fueling your personal life. When it becomes all about work something gets lost. You know enough about how to balance yourself. Don’t dismiss what you can’t address just because it makes you uncomfortable.

PISCES: Now that you see what you did you can’t believe that nothing in you had a clue as to how insane it was to think it was the right thing. Wouldn’t it be great if you could say, "Please excuse me, I was under a spell," and get out from under the sense that some part of you actually knew what it was doing? Now that this is over you are coming to understand what "over" really signifies. You can’t go back. And you have never felt so vulnerable because the spirit that has followed you all the way to this moment isn’t the least bit clear who it is or how to express itself. 

 

March 17, 2010

ARIES: As you look forward to whatever’s next you feel confident that everything will go exactly the way you want it to. When we project for the best we’re already halfway there. Life couldn’t be better. In the face of changes that seem to be rolling out the red carpet others are wondering what they might be missing. Keep up your research in the realm of positive thinking and you just might be able to get even the stubbornest soul to go along with you. If this is what you want you need to be sure that you’ve got what it takes to help them transform themselves.

TAURUS: You have too many things to be grateful for to be whining about what’s missing. When everything’s at your disposal any sense of limitation is just your ego making sure you feed it with more money, more work or more stuff. Instead of running around trying to keep all your bases covered you’d do better to chill out and savor what you have. The beauty of life has less to do with what we acquire than it does with our ability to tap into the pulse that keeps it going. Count your blessings, and open your heart and soul to the idea that you already have it all.

GEMINI: You know for sure that you need a radical change but you can’t push for anything beyond a certain point. It’s also clear that change for its own sake could take you from the frying pan into the fire. Holding on in a situation that demands a steady application of discipline and an even heavier dose of codependence has you wondering what it’s all for. Don’t think too much. If this seems like a never-ending story I suspect that the next chapter will be more interesting than the one you’re on now. Hang in there. Another way out is about to open up your life.

CANCER: You’ve been talking about this long enough. Everyone knows how you feel. If you’re waiting for someone to come along and give you permission to go for it, you can only do that for yourself. The next move could see you getting into something completely different than what you’re doing now. If that’s the case, don’t question it. And if ghosts from the past show up to help you set your life back in motion don’t overanalyze the meaning of it all. Reconnecting with people and things from long ago will teach you a lot about where to place your trust.

LEO: You went over the top with something, and you're either glad you did or feeling like a total fool. Either way, something has come out of this bizarre little episode. Going out beyond the boundaries of convention is the only way we get to evolve. If you’re chastising yourself for whatever took you over the edge you need to realize that all of us are being called to stretch our limits. Instead of wondering what to do next, look around — there’s a whole new set of variables and a completely different cast of characters waiting for you to start directing this movie.

VIRGO: The sense that something is about to come down has many of you imagining the worst at a time when things could go either way. Don’t keep wringing your hands over what others might be capable of. Whether you see it or not, you have invisible arms of support that have been, and will always be there for you. You are also way more powerful than you realize and you’ve got the upper hand as far as integrity goes. In the end, integrity may be the only thing that counts in this situation. Just keep telling the truth knowing that sooner or later it sets           all of us free.

LIBRA: You have just begun to realize that this isn’t a joke. Taking things seriously doesn’t mean you have to make everything harder than it has to be. There’s no need to ride herd on people, and you won’t get anywhere if you’re too strict with yourself, so relax — please. This is more about cutting through the BS enough to see where people are really coming from. The fact that they’re still here is an indication that they might be sincere, but who knows? Spend less energy laying down the law and allow others to prove themselves in their own time, on their own terms.

SCORPIO: You can’t be too sure about others but you’re pretty clear about how you feel about all of this. It remains to be seen whether anyone will be able to reciprocate. If you’re wondering why they seem to be so hesitant you need to know that they have side issues that prevent them from giving you the attention you deserve. This is one of those things that will come around again, so don’t linger over it or go nuts wishing things could happen now. Go about your business. By the time you reconnoiter both of you will know what you want out of this.

SAGITTARIUS: You keep doing your best to shine everything on. I suspect that part of you wonders how long you can keep it up. There’s a fine line between positive thinking and Pollyanna-ism. You’ve been pouring your heart into a person or project that seemed like a great idea at the time. Between external pressures and internal changes that have been hard for everyone involved, you insist on being the one who hopes for the best. In theory, high hopes are all one needs, but in practice it pays to review the evidence before you stake your life on them.

CAPRICORN: The thought of slowing down would be easier to entertain if there wasn’t so much going on. I don’t know what it is with you, but you always seem to be handling loads of stuff. This time, the personal element is as up-and-down as some of the changes that are affecting your work and your sense of purpose. At a crossroad, it’s always best to stop and review your options. Going in a straight line won’t work much longer. The further development of your life and your plans depends entirely upon your willingness to take a sharp right or a sharp left.

AQUARIUS: Don’t assume that your productivity level will increase if you keep going. You’ve got nothing to lose by giving yourself enough space and time to come down from the changes of the last year or so. And there are unseen reasons for needing to step off the treadmill. Other things are about to become way more important than your ambitions and your possessions. The part of you that knows this wants to be free to find out what those things might be. Regardless of where you end up placing your focus you need to get grounded before you can do anything.

PISCES: You feel like a spectator sitting on the sidelines of a life that you can’t relate to. Up till now it’s been OK to not be involved — but you’re at a point where you’re beginning to see how much it has cost you to disassociate from yourself. What happens from here on out depends on how passionate you are about it. If none of this turns you on you need to ask yourself what it would take to get back in touch with what it means to be human. The way you answer that question will determine whether or not you get off your butt and turn your life around. 

 

March 10, 2010

ARIES: No one needs to tell you that you’ve got to be cautious. The one who once took on everything without thinking twice has been burned enough times to know that s/he can no longer function on a wing and a prayer. With any luck you are opting for a change that will loan more stability to your situation. Deeper issues have called you to consider moving. If it isn’t age or the economy it’s your intuition telling you to get out of Dodge. Whatever the reason, you keep thinking that the solution to everything that’s going on right now could be the geographical cure.

TAURUS: You haven’t got to worry too much about whether someone’s going to rise to the occasion. Their efforts to win your approval have been going on long enough for you to see that, at the very least, they mean well. What you haven’t considered is that they may not be qualified and/or this isn’t in their best interests. Before you assume that what’s good for you is good for them you might want to double-check on what’s really going on here. Trade-offs are never cut and dry, and the subtler issues will get you into trouble if you don’t address them honestly.

GEMINI: You may think that it’s a matter of self preservation to stick up for yourself but it isn’t going to work for you this time. Every situation is different. This one is not in your charge. Before you go too far with the “Don’t Tread on Me” routine you need to understand that whoever this is about is under no obligation to do anything that doesn’t suit their purposes. The only strategy that will work is one of total submission — at least for the time being. If you want to hold your position, smarten up; you will do more to fortify it by going along with the program.

CANCER: Opportunities to break out and do something totally different have enticed you into thinking that they are the answer to your prayers. As exciting as it seems, you are wise enough to see that others are involved in all of your choices and part of you is hard-pressed to venture too far afield. Caught between the realm of possibility and the reality of what’s up-and-running, try to see yourself playing both roles and decide who you want to be. You may find out that staying right where you are feels a hell of a lot better than taking a chance on what’s behind the curtain.

LEO: Whether you know it or not, others are paying more than the usual amount of attention. This could be good or bad, depending on their motives. Don’t be fooled by what passes for friendliness and don’t assume that politeness is a sign of integrity. Even if others are anything close to what they appear to be, the next time it’s your turn to respond you’d be smart to engage just enough to give them a chance to display some sincerity. And be particularly watchful of your appetite for flattery. In this situation it could very well lead you right down the bunny trail.

VIRGO: You are trying to handle a complex set of variables as methodically as you can. It would be easier if this didn’t involve having to keep half of your attention on the other players and their issues. Multiple forms of codependence have you wishing people could just be straight with each other. I hate to clue you, but people can’t even be straight with themselves! If you’re worried about how this is all going to reflect on you, just keep the light on, stay honest and know enough to shut people off when their issues start mucking up their ability to be objective.

LIBRA: It’s time to loosen your load. Nothing’s going to move or change until you dislodge a few things. The weight of too much stuff and the side effects of having the ego multiply all of your demands have gotten you into a pickle. As much as you are aware that you have to tear yourself away, you have all kinds of ties that can’t be broken overnight. As long as you are realistic enough to see that it’s time to prune off years of dead wood you will be free to get on with your life with nothing left behind to make you feel any sense of obligation to the past.

SCORPIO: After sweating out one thing after another here you are opening up to a period of smooth sailing. Getting on with things has restored your faith in the power of the spirit to find its way through anything. The next phase of the journey will require you to pay closer attention to the way you affect other people. And the smoothness of the sailing will depend to a large extent on how others respond to your energy and your level of integrity. What comes out of this could make you or break you. Don’t put on airs or try to over-impress people — just be who you are.

SAGITTARIUS: Circumstances have involved you with people who need you to do what they can’t do for themselves. And it’s quite possible that you’re the one who’s finally getting taken care of. Either way, something is calling you to look at what we give and what we take from our relationships. You have begun to see that it’s impossible to be generous toward anyone if you don’t know how to receive. What goes around comes around. When you’re not out to take anything from anyone you can give them everything you have, and/or receive it back.

CAPRICORN: Be mindful of the company you keep. You aren’t at all clear about why you’re here, and until you see that you came for a very specific lesson, your experiences will continue to teach you. At this point it’s difficult for you to separate what the child in you wants from what the adult needs. It’s more than evident that you don’t need this, but an older part of you keeps drawing you back to it. It would be better for you to focus on yourself and what you came here to do than it would be for you to spend all your energy feeding old patterns and negative people.

AQUARIUS: You could try a little harder but it won’t make a difference. No one’s noticing. And they either won’t or they can’t because they have other obligations and/or preferences. Give this situation only what it will take. Don’t knock yourself out over things that are of no consequence and don’t expect anyone to care. Timing is everything and it makes no sense to push when circumstances call you to see that nothing comes to fruit when you do. It’s also more than obvious that you need to wind down and find a way to reconnect with your creative self.

PISCES: You may not know what to do next but at least you’re aware that something needs to change. Reviewing the last few months, let me remind you that nothing has been easy. The reason you’re obsessed with moving on to anything but this is because you’ve had to give up everything just to hang in there and do it. Give yourself a few more months to consider the uses of adversity and don’t try to change directions until you know for sure that you can’t get any satisfaction out of this. Bold moves won’t work now. Keep your nose to the grindstone and wait.

 

March 3, 2010

ARIES: Making the most of this would be easier if you had something to hold on to. It appears as if there’s not much left to make it worth your while. You’ve got your reasons for trying to keep it together but you’re beginning to see that it stopped working for you a long time ago. What can you do to correct the situation? Setting yourself free always involves telling the truth. Those of you who live in denial will continue to hold on to what little you have. Those of you who have even begun to face the truth have most likely already packed your bags and left.

TAURUS: You haven’t figured out how to get this to work and you’re considering dropping out of it completely. Far be it from you to ever give up, but the signs suggest that the magic carpet ride is just about over. Investing too much in anything needs to be balanced with enough intuition and common sense for you to know when it’s time to bail out. You aren’t inclined to risk. At the same time, any attempt to preserve things for posterity needs to be weighed against the reality of any kind of future growing out of the circumstances that you find yourself in now.

GEMINI: Politics and diplomacy need to be brought into play if you want to come out of this better off than you are now. Step out of the situation far enough to see that you don’t have as much leverage as you once did and your associates are pushing a whole new agenda. Standing up to what could either be an inquest into your business affairs or an attempt to undermine your position will go smoother if you have both your ducks and your X-Ray vision lined up clearly enough to derail the actions of those who seem to be hellbent on knocking you off your perch.

CANCER: You’ve got opportunities brewing that are bound to come with a few strings attached. What seems so attractive may have less to offer than what you’ve got going on right now. Instead of jumping on the next best thing take a look at what’s here and see what you can do with it. It makes no sense to keep abandoning one thing after another. This includes the people who have come to care about you. Don’t be insensitive to the fact that others are a factor in this equation. Whatever you do, make sure that you stay in touch with their feelings, too.

LEO: Don’t presume anything. You can’t afford to give yourself more credit than you deserve. And you’ve lost so many points in the congeniality department whoever’s in charge could care less about your performance level. If you look at your options, you could be S.O.L. if this falls through, and you’re in no position to assume you’re irreplaceable. In other areas you seem to be withholding too much of yourself to expect others to feel safe about extending themselves. Loosen up. You miss out on so much by hiding out behind a mask of superior position. 

VIRGO: Sometimes the best way to endure something is to avoid it. You know all too well this won’t go away. If it’s not your choice, or if you’re here because you haven’t found a way to leave without a trace, the sense of frustration must have you in a vise. At times like this, dealing with it can involve living as if you and whoever this is about are just ships passing in the night. Hopefully this is just a passing storm, because you can’t live like this forever and you’re so worn out from skirting the truth you’d just as soon have it out regardless of how much it hurts.

LIBRA: Riding herd on people won’t make them rise to your expectations. If you want this to grow, give it room. And before you convince yourself that a deeper commitment is what you’re after, take a month off and look at what it is you want out of it. Backing off could take the form of work/study events that take you away long enough to recalibrate your sense of self. When you get a clearer picture of who you want to be in this situation you’ll see that you’ve over-romanticized something that has turned out to be more of a nightmare than a fairy tale.

SCORPIO: How far this will go is hard to say. You aren’t so sure it’s what you want so forget about where it’s going; focus your attention on where it is right now. Whatever you’re here to learn, if your attention is on the outcome you’ll miss the point. There are things that haven’t been factored in, so you can expect the next phase of the process to be full of surprises. Throw your fixed ideas out the window. The more you are able to adjust your expectations the more you will see that every time you stretch your limits the better you feel and the better things go.

SAGITTARIUS: You’ve come to the conclusion that you have to rearrange your perspective on things that have gotten to be too much about money. This about face has brought you back to a simpler place. It has also reminded you so much of some "long-ago" stuff and rekindled a desire for truth and simplicity. I have a feeling you’re about to get reacquainted with more than just your memories. Keep a candle burning in the window; old ghosts, flames and partners in crime will be back to remind you that it’s what money can’t buy that gets us through the night. 

CAPRICORN: Getting blown out of the water has its good and bad points. You’re either shell shocked or amazed that your life has taken off like a rocket. It’s all the same, no matter how it looks. Something is being cracked open, and the seed atom that holds your spirit is at a point where it needs to birth something new in order to grow. Check in with where you were headed about seven years ago — how far have you come? Or are things still bubbling in the same old stew? Whatever it is, it’s getting boiled down to nothing so that you can open up and start anew.

AQUARIUS: Wrapping things up would be easier if you weren’t so preoccupied with whatever it takes to get by. It’s amazing how ordinary life can become our excuse for not confronting the truth. Being too busy to put your cards on the table can go on for years. Be wary of using more important things to deny the fact that you’ve had it with this. If you’re already aware that something’s got to give, giving it a boot in the ass wouldn’t hurt. Check in with yourself. Putting your foot down may not be your favorite thing to do but it’s what will work in this situation.

PISCES: You’ve been lingering in a situation that hasn’t had enough time to heal. Detaching from it would be the first thing on your list if you weren’t so aware that you too need more time to patch up a few things. Whether you know it or not, now is the time to head on down the road. If you stay too much longer you’ll be too rooted to these wounds to cut the cord. You may feel like it’s premature, but hey — none of us are getting much time to get it together. Snap out of the need to process and let go of the shore. Open your heart to whatever the future holds

February 24, 2010

ARIES: Too many people have taken you for a ride for you to think that this so-and-so isn’t up to the same thing. Your soft heart makes you gullible and your savior complex makes you want to dive in and rescue anyone who comes along with a good sob story. Between those two elements you wind up falling prey to one nut after another. Falling in love with someone’s potential is always risky business. What you see in your current piece of work is a far cry from who they really are. Get a grip, my dear. What looks like a dream come true is really just a nightmare in disguise.

TAURUS: You got yourself into this. You knew where it would go. This is what happens when you lead people on. Who knows what led to this lapse in integrity but I hope you’ve learned enough from the experience to see what it gets you. Outside of the mixed messages that keep screwing up your relationships, things are going well. You are so happy just doing your thing, other people and their stuff and the whole question of love, doesn’t even matter right now. Keep it like that for a while. You’re too busy rearranging your priorities to be clear about much else.

GEMINI: Here we go again. Extending yourself one more time isn’t a bad thing. You know well enough that you’re co-depending with someone who is at a very weak point and you have no choice but to say "yes." You will wind up having to live with things that really don’t appeal to you for as long as it takes for them to pull themselves together. As long as you understand that it will do no good to waste your energy trying to convert anyone, or fix things that have been going on for far too long, you’ll be able to test the limits of compassion without going nuts.

CANCER: You are laughing at yourself for wondering if this was the right idea; look at what you’ve created! With nothing but a good sense of intuition you’ve been able to remove yourself from a situation just in the nick of time. If you’d waited even a day longer you’d be stuck with something that you couldn’t get out of. Now that you’re free and clear, do you wonder what made you see the light? What we call "luck" is really just the ability to trust your inner voice 100 percent of the time. You’ve seen what can be done. Keep listening to that voice; it’s never wrong.

LEO: Don’t let the way things are going fool you for a moment. None of this is as bad or as good as it looks. You can’t trust your senses and you definitely can’t apply logic to this situation, so that leaves you without a whole lot of clarity. It would be better for you if you could find a way to cut through to whatever’s most meaningful and essential. I say this because you’re approaching a time when a lot of dead wood has to be removed from your life. In order to know what to keep and what to let go you have to get crystal clear about what really matters to you.

VIRGO: It’s anyone’s guess which way things will go from here. Needing to know what’ll happen is a handicap in situations like this. So much hangs on what others decide to do with themselves; and this is why your certainty trips are such an issue. Instead of wondering if someone else is going to change their mind, you’d do better to just keep yourself focused on what you’re doing here. You know as well as I do that everything is subject to change. Don’t think so much about making anything but your love for each other lasting and permanent.

LIBRA: How much will it take for you to see exactly what happened here? Don’t minimize it by saying it happens to the best of us; you’ve been through the mill. Somehow or other it’s your job to find your missing parts and reassemble them into something that looks more like the person you’ve become. You aren’t quite sure about anything and it feels strange to think that for so long you were so sure about life you had it all sewed up in a neat little package. Ever since the wrapper fell off it’s been one thing after another. Give yourself time to digest the lesson.

SCORPIO: This would be easier if there weren’t so many people to consider. Disparate interests are in conflict and you’re wondering if it’s even worth it to stick around and try to get your needs met. Between complex family issues and too many factions vying for a front seat you’re going to have a tough time making your point. If I were you I would hold off saying anything until someone asks you for advice or until they begin to notice that you’re the only one who seems to know what’s going on. Once things settle down making your influence felt won’t be a problem.

SAGITTARIUS: You can go ahead with this because there’s no way anyone’s going to talk you out of it; you might want to check in with yourself one more time before you do. Signs point to "no" but you’re more concerned about settling scores than you are with walking your talk. You know better than anyone that if there’s even an atom of mean-spiritedness underlying any of your choices, it all comes back to haunt you. As hard as it is to come clean about your true motivations, pretending that they’re something else will teach you a harder lesson.

CAPRICORN: You can’t stay in the background when life calls you to take charge of a situation. The subtle approach, or the belief that it’ll all go away if you let someone else handle it, isn’t going to work for you this time. The last thing you want to do is step out and be the grown-up, but you’re the only one who knows what’s going on and your conscience is screaming at you to deal with it. Anyone who accuses you of being bossy, and anyone who thinks you’re getting off on this should be reminded that no one knows more about how to get this to work than you do.

AQUARIUS: You know exactly what needs to happen but you’re not sure how to get it to work. It’s always good to sweep the floor before you start anything new, so settle up with whoever you haven’t dealt with and lay a clear foundation. The better part of getting anything done lies in the doing of it. Too much talk and too many plans delay things that evolve out of whatever the work at hand involves. Once you understand that your next project has a life of its own, you’ll be able to get out of the way and let the deeper part of yourself allow it to come into manifestation.

PISCES:  You may not like what’s going on but you can no longer escape the fact that it’s happening. Finding a way to get around various forms of emotional intensity, it’s easier to bury it in work, or exercise, or any other addiction than it is to check out what drives us to distraction. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’re on top of the situation. Some things rattle us to the core because they’re meant to. If this calls you to reevaluate everything start looking at it now. The more willing you are to get over yourself the better things will go for everyone involved.

February 17, 2010

ARIES: Issues of a personal nature are simmering in the background and you seem to be torn between wondering how to take care of them when 90 percent of your energy is caught up in the need to put food on the table. There was a time when life went a little easier. If you recall you weren’t as caught up in the system in those days and everything went just fine. Cutting back on your duties may be the only way to find some middle ground. Check in with yourself long enough to see how much of this is necessary and how much of it is sabotaging your peace of mind.

TAURUS: You seem to be maintaining a positive attitude in the midst of crisis; either that or you’re feeling like things are about to turn around. You have good reasons to expect the best out of whatever’s going on. As long as you walk softly and carry a big stick your ability to make your outer world dealings go the way you want them to is assured. Don’t think you can succeed without plenty of proof or backup, however. Nothing you say or do will carry any weight with anyone if you can’t buttress all of your words and actions with more than just false confidence.

GEMINI: You don’t need to know what’s going on to feel safe in a situation. Living with uncertainty is an art. If the changes of the past year or so have uprooted your sense of clarity it’s to be expected. As you try to pull your life together you are beginning to see that you keep attracting the same sort of people and situations. Experience and repetition are there for us to learn from. Once you begin to examine the patterns that keep leading you into the same old thing the unsolved mysteries of your childhood will start to take on a whole new meaning.

CANCER: You have to weigh more than one choice right now. If this was just about you it would be easier, but there is more than one person involved in your decision and their interests have to be considered. On the one hand you could go for it and let everyone figure it out for themselves. This would make sense were it not for the fact that you care about them and you know that you can’t leave them stranded. It seems to me that all you really have to do is what’s right for you, and that will include making arrangements that cover your debts to others.

LEO: The way things are going you’re not sure you can keep up with whatever the demand involves. It’s as if you’ve had it with trying to prove yourself. Spending this much energy trying to figure out what it will take to be seen for what you are has to make you wonder why it’s never enough. Stop the madness! This, along with enigmas in the relationship area might call you to review everything and look at the extent to which other people’s exaggerated expectations have sucked up not just your energy, but much of what keeps your spirit in touch with its purpose.

VIRGO: Don’t overanalyze what would be a lot simpler if you let it rest in peace. It doesn’t matter how you got here; the point now is to keep moving forward. Closure is often denied in situations that are as complex as what you’ve been through — and since experience is the only teacher, it’ll take you a while to understand why all of it had to happen. For now, focus on what it will take to keep your spirit open to changes that are about to pull you into another lesson. Yes, my dear, it’s not over yet; and chances are the next phase of the curriculum is all about love.

LIBRA: Does it even matter what you think about what other people do? And why do you seem to be so identified with them and their choices when it’s your own life that you need to connect with? You are trying to figure out how to be in a relationship when every particle of your being wishes you had better things to do. The hard part about being in love is you have to hang in there when your partner turns into someone else altogether. Where this will go is anyone’s guess. It’s for sure that love survives anything — but the ego isn’t always able to handle its deeper lessons.

SCORPIO: You can’t take this too seriously. Instead of going nuts trying to get other people to see it your way, let it go and give them time to figure it out for themselves. If you’re wondering which way they’ll turn, does it have to matter that much? You’ve been around long enough to know that things work better when we have no investment in the outcome. At the same time you’ve been told that focused intentions can get you anything. Between the two, you’re about to learn that nothing works if it isn’t in our best interests. Relax and let life magnify your intent.

SAGITTARIUS: Oh boy! The web of complexity is so far out of hand it’ll be a miracle if you can get to the bottom of what’s really going on here. It seems to me that connections have been formed out of expedience or necessity. You know as well as I do that hooking up with people because you’re lonely, desperate or in need of a meal ticket doesn’t work over the long haul. Most of the stuff you’re processing now wouldn’t even be there if you had told the truth to begin with. Living with the consequences of your actions will require you to live with this for a while.

CAPRICORN: Now that you’ve managed to extricate yourself from the confusion that’s been driving you nuts you see that it all comes from other people and their stuff. You haven’t felt this free in a long time. Enjoy it while it lasts because your tendency to be the one to handle it all hasn’t gone away. If your current adventures see you enjoying yourself in a totally different set of circumstances use this time to get in touch with the things that have meaning — and whatever you do, don’t let anyone try to suck you into figuring out their problems for at least two months!

AQUARIUS: The best thing that ever happened doesn’t always look the way it appears in our dreams. Recent experiences got misinterpreted by your tendency to make them wrong; when in fact, whatever you did created a fantastic impression. Don’t sell anything that’s going on right now any shorter than you have to — least of all yourself. And don’t let one person’s opinion have too much to say about how you see yourself. Has it ever occurred to you that they might be wrong or that they’re deathly afraid you might wake up and realize how incredible you are?

PISCES: Don’t try to gloss this over with your usual rationale and stop pretending that you’re cool with it. If denial is what got you into this mess, what makes you think more of it will get you out of it? Being caught in a situation that requires even more from you than you’ve already given to it has you wondering if the best solution might be to split. Getting away from it all, at least long enough to think, will show you that you’ve told your version of the truth; now it’s time to let others deal with theirs, knowing that it’s no longer your job to walk them through it.

 

February 10, 2010

ARIES: You could make it easier on yourself if you could learn how to back off when things don’t seem to be working. The need to “make it happen” presses many of us to keep on trucking until we realize that life doesn’t work that way. Ease up a little. If you think your will has governance over other people and their choices you haven’t figured out that none of this is up to you. Forget about being in control. Disengage enough to allow every other factor in this equation to inform you that things will work better if you lighten up and stop taking yourself so seriously.

TAURUS: Don’t be naïve about people; your ideals only apply to you, believe it or not! Assuming that anyone approaches anything the way you do could create problems. You’re dealing with someone who doesn’t know enough about themselves to tell you the truth, let alone have a clue about where you’re coming from. Tread lightly. If you expect too much from this it’ll wind up disappointing you. Few of us know what we mean and even fewer mean what we say. Most of the time, it’s our tendency to take people at their word that gets us into trouble. 

GEMINI: You’re in a much better groove. All kinds of distractions have you flying around from one thing to another. As you make the rounds don’t forget to digest each experience. If all of this feels random it’s really here to teach you something. And right now what you need to learn is that it’s always safe to take the less traveled route. Making your way through a kaleidoscope of changes here, you stand gazing through the looking glass at an array of possibilities that weren’t there a year ago. Congratulations and best of luck getting on with your whole new life.

CANCER: Maybe it’s time for a change or a good reality check. You aren’t sure about things and you’re out of touch with yourself. Too many external pressures and obligations have taken you away from your truer goals. Up till now it’s been OK with you to hang around being a dutiful soul — but you’re clear that going too far down that road will see you selling your soul to whatever it is that keeps you duty bound. Any fool can see that it’s time for you to come back into yourself long enough to see if you still need to be the one who takes care of everything.

LEO: Something’s come full circle. In letting go you’re latching onto something else and even though they’re both connected, whatever this new turn is all about, it’s totally different than what was there before. At a time when you could have easily broken things off you’re very much here and with it on some level. In order to make it worth your while you’ll need to find a way to carve a new impression into the patterns that are already there. This will involve being more conscious of the way you treat people and of the extent to which you need to respect their needs too.

VIRGO: You don’t know if you’re coming or going. For someone who thrives on certainty not knowing where you stand can be hard. What you may not realize is that life is calling you to reinvent yourself. Yes, it’s time to take the best of what you’ve done so far and kick it up a notch; because you’re restless and the "what’s next?" switch got turned on a few months ago. Don’t try to keep anything the way it is. If this thought freaks you out, trust me — you can’t avoid the fact that you’ve got to come up with a new plan before the old one completely dies out.

LIBRA: How far are you willing to go? Do you think you can get there from here? Sometimes the problem is more easily solved when we leave the place where it left its mark. Letting things go and getting on with your life doesn’t have to be gut-wrenching, nor does it have to turn into a soap opera. You’re so caught up in your own story you forget that it isn’t who you are. How can you detach from this if you continue to swim in the fish bowl of small town gossip? Moving wouldn’t be a bad idea. Even a temporary change of scenery would help you brush this off.

SCORPIO: Don’t give yourself a hard time for not having a clue. By the time you figure out what you need to do it’ll be safer to go ahead with it. It looks to me like you’ve got a series of lessons to move through — either that or all the facts aren’t in — and while you may be well aware that you have to come up with a plan, if the internal structures are incomplete there’s no way you’ll have a firm sense of where to go with this. Other factors suggest that opposing forces are temporarily undermining your confidence, so wait it out. Time is on your side right now.

SAGITTARIUS: Glossing things over at a time when you are totally clear that more than a few things are messed up makes me wonder who you’re trying to kid? This could translate as being absolutely sure that you’re over something, when in fact it is alive and well in your cellular memory. Hiding from the truth and being unwilling to tell it are one and the same. You are about to open your eyes to the way things are. When you do you will find that the mess and the memories linger on only because your denial system keeps them from ever being resolved.

CAPRICORN: Knowing what you’re doing only comes from experience. If you’ve seen this before it should be easy for you. If it’s a whole new thing you’re probably wondering where your confidence went. Fortunately you are gifted with a clear eye and a great bullshit detector, so those of you who are going through this for the first time will know exactly what to do when the time comes. Don’t give yourself over to too much planning or get into over-preparing for things that will come off a lot better if you just do what comes naturally and let God cover the rest.

AQUARIUS: One good thing leads to another and sometimes we’re in a cycle where nothing can go wrong. If you feel like you’ve just opened up it’s because you’re more receptive to change than ever before. Those of you who feel compelled to resist what life is calling you to do are probably wishing that you could press the snooze button and escape into whatever you’re comfortable with. It’s too bad, because if you could just let go of even half of what you’re stuck on you’d soon find out that things go better when we allow ourselves to live dangerously.

PISCES: The way things go gives us pause to reflect on how one thing led to another. Eventually we figure out that they couldn’t have gone any other way. And no matter how it looks or feels to us, what we end up living with is the lesson. You aren’t too sure what the lesson is but you’re pretty clear about how you got here. Now it seems as if moving on will require you to sever ties with people and places that have come to mean the world to you. Returning to integrity always demands a leap of faith. It could be time to kiss everyone goodbye. 

February 3, 2010

ARIES: When you first got involved in this situation you didn’t know what you know now. As more of what’s really going on has been fully revealed, you realize that you bought into something that was not what it appeared to be. If it feels like it’s too late to pull out you’re going to need to sit down with whomever this concerns and rearrange your agreements. Don’t be shy about this. Make it clear to them that you are in no mood to roll over and play dead when it comes to your own needs and don’t let them talk you into being something that you’re not.

TAURUS: It’s time to regroup. Recent shifts in direction demand that you rearrange your best-laid plans. If you thought you would be free of this situation once and for all, guess again. Finding ways to make what’s been going on forever more interesting is always a challenge, but it will be less nuts once you realize that you can delegate most of what has been your job to those who have more of a feeling for it. While it’s true that a changing-of-the-guard would do much to improve things, it looks like you’ve got to stand watch until your reinforcements show up.

GEMINI: Before you get into this, think twice about playing the go-between, being the mediator or taking one side against the other; this isn’t your business. As much as you want to make everything OK for everyone, you need to see that your two cents will only confuse things that are confused enough as it is. Silence could be golden right now — and before you decide to distract yourself with other people and their problems ask yourself where your own life went. There’s a lot to say that you would be far better off if you paid more attention to your own affairs.

CANCER: It’s one thing to give people a little slack and quite another to see how far they take it. Extending credit and/or trust has put you in the position of being exploited on some level. If you’re in denial about this it’s because you’re making excuses for whoever’s ripping you off. Underneath the need to allow others to take advantage there’s a pile of old, psychological crap. Far be it from me to play analyst, but what do you think will happen if you draw the line? Don’t give yourself over to over-kindness. It only weakens others and it does even less for you.

LEO: The tide seems to be turning and the scenery is changing right along with it. You don’t know what’s going to happen from here on out but things are looking better for you. Some sort of opening has occurred and this has allowed you to break away from the need to hide out. For so long the focus has been inner, and your energy has gone mainly into your work — but new things have come up and you’ve got choices about what and/or who to get involved with. I would expect the next month to hold the promise of more fun and a tremendous amount of recognition.

VIRGO: You are totally in love with the way things are going. In the midst of change life seems to be working and so many things are being confirmed. When it gets like this, one always wonders when the worm will turn. If you know how life works, whatever happens when things fly south will be taken in stride. But if you’re one of those people who hasn’t figured out that this is a roller-coaster, you’ll be bummed out when things start to go down. Brace yourself. Learning how to enjoy the ride no matter where you’re at makes it easier to love life all of the time.

LIBRA: Your need for certainty has flown out the window. Life has given new meaning to the expression "flying by the seat of your pants.” Not knowing how things will turn out is about to give way to a greater sense of stability. If situations and people have kept you on your toes, the resolution of long-standing matters will put you in the position of being the one who was right all along. As things die down and you are no longer saddled with all of this pressure, all the energy you’ve spent trying to keep it together will be freed up to devote to more meaningful pursuits.

SCORPIO: Maybe you need to rethink this. The decision to stay or go could be turned into something else altogether if you could figure out what it is you really want. It looks to me like lines need to be drawn. You also need to make it clear that you’re unwilling to play games. If whoever’s on the receiving end can hear it, you might be surprised to find out that they’re willing to bend. Whatever the outcome, change is crawling out of the woodwork and you’re going to have to go for it regardless of whether or not others choose to grow along with you.

SAGITTARIUS: “Baby steps” is the best approach in this situation. Even if you want to waltz right in you don’t have the capacity to move freely and you are totally unfamiliar with the territory. In addition to that, whoever’s out there isn’t quite sure about you and they are even less sure about themselves. The last thing you need is to get hooked up with yet another loser who doesn’t know what’s going on. It’s OK to get acquainted, but as soon as you get a faint whiff of dishonesty or insecurity trust your instincts enough to know that you’d be better off elsewhere.

CAPRICORN: Out of the blue you’re beginning to see that whatever you’ve been searching for is right here in front of you. Too much pressing for the next big thing has lost its flavor and it’s a relief to be content with what you have. If what’s here is good enough for the moment, at some point you will begin to refine it. Recognizing yourself and accepting the fact that this is what you’ve chosen will lead you beyond contentment into a place where your relationships and your work become an alchemical laboratory where absolutely anything can be transmuted to gold.

AQUARIUS: Take advantage of this time to make changes and trust your intuition when it comes down to knowing what to do. You have more than your share of higher guidance so tap into that, too. There’s a lot to be said for the presence of angels. This is a milestone period so don’t discount anything that happens and be sure to live by the Golden Rule. If others are confused by your reliance on insight over logic, let them know that they needn’t feel threatened by your flashes of inspiration and would be better off if they could allow you to steer the way.

PISCES: You get confused when it comes to understanding why people can’t own up to things. Perplexed by someone else’s need to hide from the truth you’re wondering if you should bring it to their attention, but you can’t tell anyone what they don’t want to hear. Leave this alone and let time help them figure it out for themselves. As far as your relationship with them goes, maybe you need to detach. Because it will be impossible for you to connect or have any meaningful discourse until they are able to come to terms with their denial mechanisms. 

January 26, 2010

ARIES: You wouldn’t care so much if you didn’t know how much others have been through. If it’s hard to walk away from this it’s because sometimes that’s the way it goes. Don’t get too caught up in sentiment. Your ability to remain objective to what needs to be done will make it easier for you to see that this is what’s best for everyone. For too long your choices have been too heavily influenced by other people’s emotional immaturities. What you thought was the right thing has only weakened them; trust that in choosing to grow up you will help them, too.

TAURUS: Checking in to see if you’re on the right path it seems as if your greatest risk lies in overinflating your potential or in overestimating what other people are actually capable of. Hauling back and getting real about the times we’re in would do a lot to take the wind out of some of your big ideas. You’ve gone about as far as you can go with something. Finding a way to invigorate it with new life would work out better if you stopped going all out with a lot of slick, surface changes and just focused on making what you’ve got into what it was meant to be.

GEMINI: You’ve got your hands full trying to figure out how to get someone to see it your way. If their interests run contrary to yours, finding out where they’re coming from should be your first order of business. Instead of hinting around that you’d be happier if they dyed their hair blonde, why don’t you ask them why they like it black? The minute they feel that you’re willing to look at this out of their eyes they will be more open to seeing it from your point of view. In the end, the two of you will either agree to disagree or be free to turn this into a win-win situation.

CANCER: Don’t be too hard on yourself; you can’t be faulted for translating unconditional love into codependence. If there’s still an outside chance that this is worth it you will keep playing this role until others wake up and figure out how to take care of themselves. There are other things that make staying here imperative. Between your work and ties to the area, the best you can do is let nature take its course. I have a strong hunch that whoever can’t live up to your expectations, wants to. Trust that in time they will see that they too want more out of life.

LEO: Self discovery themes, including real or imaginary vision quests, seem to be a big part of the scenery right now. You’re trying to find your way out of the box and the only exit is out the door or over the top. More time in nature wouldn’t be a bad idea. It will be easier for you to get in touch with your answers far away from the rat race. Seminars and learning experiences that open your mind would also do a lot to stir the pot and bring you in touch with people who will take you beyond what at this point only serves to keep you asleep to all possibilities.

VIRGO: You can’t ignore what needs to be done, but none of it will get done if you’re out of touch with yourself; so how do you bridge the gap? There are times when life is about work and sleep. When things get like this, pouring your heart into whatever the task at hand involves has to be balanced with equal parts of self care. Keeping your sanity and keeping your nose to the grindstone aren’t that hard once you accept the fact that any extracurricular activities have to be put on hold — at least until you reach the point where the fruits of all your labor become ripe.

LIBRA: Maybe you’re crazy to get back into this but who knows what’s right for you? Life rarely matches our pictures, and contrary to what we’ve been told, Dr. Phil doesn’t have all the answers. Who’s to say that you aren’t making inroads into unmapped territory? If you’re willing to take this risk it means you’re open to the idea that your experience holds more truth than anything society has to say about it. Listen to your heart. Whatever it calls you to do is what’s right for you. Follow those instructions and let your experience take you to the next lesson. 

SCORPIO: You are torn between your sense of obligation and your need for independence. Others seem to be holding you back and it may be that you have to do something about that before you resign yourself to the fact that you might get stuck here. It’s all up to you, no matter how it looks. If you’re wondering how a radical move or change will impact someone else, think more about who you are and what you need right now. You didn’t come here to hide your light under a bushel. If others can’t allow it to shine there’s a good chance that you need to split.

SAGITTARIUS: Everything seems to be up in the air or confused by circumstances that are beyond your control. Not knowing what’s going on is easier to live with once you figure out how to be OK with more than your share of uncertainties. One thing at a time is the name of the game right now. Nothing is clear enough to see which direction things will take. In a way this gives you a great excuse to slow down and stay cool. If you can put a lid on your expectations and do whatever it takes to amp up the joy quotient, this could turn out to be a wonderful ride.

CAPRICORN: You’ve got the usual suspects hanging around driving you crazy. Along with that there appears to be a collision of opportunities that you either don’t have time for or that require an enormous expenditure of energy on your part. Who knows why it’s all happening at once, but here you are in the middle of it. You know what they say about the eye of the hurricane; that’s probably the only way you’ll be able to handle this. Do whatever it takes to stay centered and try to be amused by the fact that you might actually be the strongest person on the planet!

AQUARIUS: The last thing you needed was more delay. Getting anything done has been like hiking in deep water with cement boots. If you’re flipping out it’s because there’s so much on the line and very little time to get it handled properly. This happens to the best of us. When it does, all you can do is trust that the time you have has to be more than enough or the universe wouldn’t expect you to keep putting it off. Who knows? Two weeks of solid concentration and whatever you’re obsessing over could turn magically into further proof that you’re a genius!

PISCES: You could be wondering where the money went. This could also be about wondering where you went; because everything seems to be slipping away. Don’t be disturbed by any hint that you might be losing it. For some reason, times like these end up being what we love the most about our lives, but living through them is a totally different story. Paying the piper always involves big doses of self reflection. Instead of deluding yourself into thinking you’ll have your feet on the ground in a jiffy, give yourself a chance to heal your post-traumatic stress syndrome.

January 20, 2010

ARIES: You haven’t been 100 percent honest and others aren’t too happy about it. Deciding who’s right will turn this into one of those situations where you dredge up the past and take all the fun out of the present. Whatever this is about you’re dealing with someone who’s totally black and white about everything. Don’t expect your explanations to make a dent — but for your own sake, at least let them know that the last thing you wanted to do was hurt them. If they can hear that, ask them if they’re willing to drop the need to turn your misdemeanor into a federal case.

TAURUS: This isn’t what you thought it would be. You’re not so sure you want to get involved with people who are hellbent on turning everything around. Before you get too committed to this plan of theirs ask yourself if you want to hand what amounts to your life over to someone who doesn’t understand what it took to get here. If things don’t sit right with you there’s a reason for it. High pressure tactics, strategic ploys and polished demeanors are starting to make you feel uncomfortable. Don’t exclude any option that allows you to maintain your integrity here.

GEMINI: You haven’t felt this good in a long time. Things that used to interfere with your peace of mind have been replaced with a sense of balance. If this feels right to you it’s because it reflects things that are truer for you than what was there before. Everything is subject to change and this too is about to pass. In the process of moving closer to the truth we inevitably begin to carve out the deeper issues. Getting to the bottom of them is about to take you on a ride that will introduce you to portions of your spirit that you never knew were there. Enjoy the scenery!

CANCER: You can’t fix everything all at once. Just because you’ve seen the light it’ll be a while before it starts reflecting itself in your outer reality. For the moment, all you can do is trust the fact that the seeds for change have been planted and try to keep them watered. Don’t look for results or think that what results from this will be what you expect it to be. It’s not your job to know; you’re here to find out. Stay humble and fall in love with whatever the task at hand involves. It is through doing, but even more so by being, that you will heal and grow beyond this.

LEO: You seem to be at odds with yourself; either that or you’ve got a conflict brewing with someone else. Being aware of the extent to which you brought this on yourself, would you be able to stop the madness? You haven’t got time for this. Stop over-reflecting on your primary issues and bury the hatchet with whoever it is that’s got you going. You didn’t come here to referee your way through life. Toning down the head trips that keep all of that alive may require you to direct your thoughts more toward knowing who you are and what you’re here for.

VIRGO: You can’t keep up with the rate of change and you feel like you’re being swept along with the tide. If "out of control" defines it, you can take comfort in knowing that this state comes in many different flavors. Instead of clinging to the idea that you’ll have this all figured out someday you’d do better to realize that it’s bound to keep changing no matter what you do to try to make it perfect. Let go. Stop over-analyzing and/or trying to manage things that defy logic. At this point, staying on top of things has more to do with how good you are at letting 
them go.

LIBRA: You’re feeling like the scapegoat in a situation that has gotten complicated by things that you didn’t see coming. Give yourself two seconds to reflect on what the best course of action might be. It doesn’t take much to see that it might be time to move. From a broader perspective there are other reasons why it would be good for you to relocate. If you stay where you are do your best to avoid people who have decided you’re a threat to their survival and make sure you’re well insulated against things like small town gossip and/or nutcase neighbors.

SCORPIO: You’ve been nursing the same idea forever. What hasn’t come to pass may not have as much to do with your happiness as you think it does. There are fears that have you wondering how safe it is to change your approach in the middle of things and deeper concerns that make you think there has to be another way to get where you want to go. If anything, you have the right to change your mind. In doing so you could easily find yourself manifesting everything you ever dreamed of. This is no time to get picky about what you happen to find on the path to fulfillment.

SAGITTARIUS: You tend to overlook the obvious in situations where you’re emotionally involved. Don’t automatically assume that people mean what they say or have any means to back their promises. If you want to avoid an upset, wait until they mess up and deal with it then; but you’d do better to see if you can get them to show their true colors before they let you down. This is the last thing you need. For too long you’ve gotten suckered in by the same old story. Waltzing right into situations that are about to stir up the pot, do you really want to do this?

CAPRICORN: The people in your life have given you more than enough to deal with. Reflecting on your own issues, who knows what you’d find if you had the time to sit down and look at it. Making things turn out for the best is about to involve you slowing down long enough to tune in to the real truth; because things have changed and it’s time for you to step away from being the one to handle it all for everyone else. Weaning yourself from the need to superintend everything is part of this. Is there an outside possibility that you could trust someone else to take care of it?

AQUARIUS: You’ve learned your lessons when it comes to what you’re worth. Whatever it took to get you to see how much you bring to this situation is about to expand it to include more. Most of the time it's the love that we feel that brings everything to us. Getting over yourself enough to express and embody it has made it easier for life to flow smoothly. In response to this, the universe keeps your experience swirling in a matrix that is unified by love and open to possibilities that would never have arrived if you had kept believing that you were worthless.

PISCES: Bombshells have dropped. Plowing through the wreckage you’re wondering what made you think anyone was ready for the truth. Overly defensive responses to things that got way out of hand will come from multiple sources. You had enough on your mind before all this started. Having to be the one who seems to have caused it, the deeper question now is: where did it really come from? It seems to me that if everyone can be accountable for the part they played in bringing this on, then the blame that’s being cast on you will fade away before the seasons change.

January 13, 2010

ARIES: Too many things suggest that you’re throwing pearls before swine in a situation that keeps you stuck doing what you’ve always done. If it isn’t boring you to death it’s got to be making you wonder why you don’t think enough of yourself to branch out. For too long you’ve sold out to the highest bidder and in the process you’ve betrayed your highest ideals. At this point any decision you make has to be made from a place of knowing that you can no longer live with yourself and keep pretending that you came here to live a mediocre life.

TAURUS: You’ve got it made on so many levels it’s hard to see that much of what you’re doing needs to change. Complacency may be comfortable but it doesn’t loan any excitement to your life. Whatever you’ve achieved in terms of stability can be used to further things that could make a difference for you and for others. It’s time to reevaluate your purpose without needing to limit your sense of what’s possible for you at this stage of the game. As you sit back and ponder who you want to be when you grow up keep in mind that it’s never too late to start all over again.

GEMINI: You could back off a little and still bring enough pressure to bear on this situation to make your point. Driving a tack with a sledge hammer rarely works, and you need to use your energy for things that have more to do with your future than they do with the past. This business of needing to put someone in their place has worn out. Side issues that have to do with the fact that all of the above has shot you in the foot are making you wonder if it would be wiser to befriend your enemies. Matters of expedience would suggest that it’s time to forgive and forget.

CANCER: You can’t make people want to go along with you if all you do is criticize them for not being who you want them to be. A little reverse psychology would do more to wake them up than all of your preaching. You have every right to expect more from this situation and it would be in their best interests to stop wasting their potential. But nothing grows when you force it and I have a feeling a little acceptance would do more to get them to see that their behavior isn’t working for them either. Change will come when they realize they’ve got better things to do.

LEO: Your moods would be easier to take if you didn’t try to blame them on people, places and things. Whatever’s going on, you have to take responsibility for the fact that this is all your stuff. I can see why you’re bogged down with remorse over things that couldn’t be helped. What you need to keep in mind is that your perspective is narrowed down to a pinpoint and you’re dwelling on too much negativity to be able to see the forest for the trees. Nothing is what you make it and you won’t be free to enjoy life until you open your eyes to the fact that your attitude sucks.

VIRGO: No one can tell you where this will go. If you could step out of the situation you’d see that you’re in one of those cyclic changes that alter everything to the core. On the mundane level you’re feeling kind of lost and perhaps going through the motions of the daily routine like a sleepwalker who isn’t really there for it. Picture yourself idling at a four-way stop sign; time will tell you when it’s your turn to move and your intuition will tell you which direction to take. In the meantime, just keep the light on and let your heart guide your choices from here on out.

LIBRA: The idea that you’re the "easygoing" type has flown out the window. As much as you want to be OK with all of this, you’re burning up over it. While it’s easy to see why you’re so bent out of shape, it’s hard to believe that you of all people could be so petty; especially now, when life seems to be calling you to step out of the box. Don’t get too judgmental. At the same time, give yourself plenty of space to air your judgments — just long enough to see how much it doesn’t pay to be closed-minded when the lesson involves outgrowing every previous limit.

SCORPIO: You’re tired of yourself and you can’t figure out how to perform a makeover. There’s no need to think that the changes you so desperately long for won’t happen by themselves. Reinventing yourself doesn’t necessarily require a total overhaul. If you’re smart you’ll see that who you really are is closer to the surface than you think. With a few minor adjustments you could turn your life into a happier state of affairs. Much of this will involve simplifying your needs to the point where anything at all is more than enough for you.

SAGITTARIUS: You say one thing and do another or you think what you’re doing is something totally different than what it is. This is either rose colored glasses or a wall of denial that nothing can penetrate. Everyone who knows you sees it. And what no one can figure out is why it’s so hard for you to look at the truth. On so many levels you’re hipper than most, but when it comes to your own stuff you hide behind things that make it difficult for anyone to believe in you. Walking your talk is the key to everything right now. It’s time to see what you don’t want to see.

CAPRICORN: A lot of things are about to change and you’re either in touch with this or you’re wondering why nothing seems to be working. If you can detach enough to see this with a wide angle lens it will soon be apparent that the pins are getting pulled out of a situation that has outlived its purpose. Trying to maintain it in the form that it’s always taken isn’t going to work. Look back to where you were seven years ago; whatever your goals were, your experience has altered things enough for you to have to shift your sense of where you want to go from here.

AQUARIUS: You think you’ve made a major change when all you’ve really done is rearrange the furniture. No matter how you choose to see it you’re still running the same trips on people. Control issues and things that have to do with who’s bringing home the bacon have you playing all kinds of games with each other. If everyone involved could bring themselves to tell the truth chances are you wouldn’t even be here — and this may be why you keep doing what you do. Sooner or later you’ll have to face the fact that these games you play take all the fun out of life.

PISCES: Questions as to what to do now can’t be answered right away. In a state of transition it’s pointless to try to direct the flow or even know what it is. It must be obvious to you that much of the past is gone and the stepping stones that connect you to it are few and far between. With nothing but the unknown in front of you, there's no choice but to dive in and start swimming toward it. Don’t criticize yourself for losing your ground. Sometimes everything has to fall away for us to see who we are and get real enough to move on to the next thing.

 

January 6, 2010

ARIES: Getting used to a new way of doing things always requires a different attitude. What you thought would stay this way forever has turned out to be just a stage in a bigger pattern of development. Recent serendipities and multiple wake up calls keep begging you to read the writing on the wall. If and when it becomes obvious that you have to make a move don’t second guess your instincts. Too much is about to come down for you to think that holding steady will do anything to help you ride out what will inevitably take you far beyond every previous limit.

TAURUS: You can pride yourself on what you’ve learned but don’t assume that you know everything. If this epiphany opened you up to a whole new way of being, what you seem to forget is that one thing leads to another. Getting stuck in the preciousness of the experience, you hang tight to the first rung of the ladder and run the grave risk of missing a thousand other possibilities. When we make the choice to step out of the box it is the impulse to keep exploring that we need to nurture. Keep the search for truth alive — don’t ever assume that you’ve found it.

GEMINI: Playing both ends to the middle has kept you on your toes. At this point you’re beginning to see that you have to find a way to reconcile what appears to be a lack of harmony between people, places and/or things. Looking at the situation objectively, it’s pretty clear that everyone’s grown up enough to handle not just the truth, but your inexplicable need to protect them from it. You can’t keep running the same old story and you need to have more respect for everyone involved. As soon as you’re willing to get real with people this will heal itself.

CANCER: Maybe you knew where this would go and you let it happen because you couldn’t find the strength to say no. If that’s how it is, I wonder what you’re thinking about it now. Letting things fall apart and not stepping in when you had the chance to turn it all around has led to a state of affairs that is way more complicated than what would have happened if you’d spoken up. You’re too caught up in the lie to unravel it; at the same time, you’re freaking out about the fact that you have to live with the consequences of being too weak to make a stand.

LEO: The worst case scenario could force you to fall back on reserves of energy and wealth that you never thought you’d have to access. If that is the case, whatever you’re left with will surprise you into seeing that the bottom line is never the bottom line. Underneath what seems to be a difficult time the lesson has more to do with opening your eyes to what’s important. The uses of adversity are many. If your current state of affairs has you wringing your hands over things that are totally out of control try to find the blessing in it and expand your mind enough to see it.

VIRGO: You can’t keep growing if you continue to lie. Nothing heals from the outside in and your attempts to plaster make-up on the flaws in your reality do nothing but detract from your serenity. This is an inside job. If even part of you is willing to see that, you can also see that you can’t keep blaming others and you can’t keep blaming yourself. A little forgiveness goes a long way. By the time you read this, you will understand more about the need to forgive yourself enough to allow yourself to be OK with what happened in spite of you, not because of you.

LIBRA: You don’t need to know what’s going on or where it’s going; nothing is up to you right now. Pulling your fingers out of the machinery will require you to be OK with no certainty. The only way to get through a time like this is through intuition. Linear, logical approaches won’t necessarily prove useful. Making the most of an unprecedented experience, you’ll do better once you are willing to grasp the idea that you’re carving new ground. Your core beliefs aren’t going to get you too far at a time when all of them have to give way to what your heart needs to do.

SCORPIO: Maybe you’re done with this; it’s too soon to tell. I don’t see any need to make it more complicated by thinking too hard about your next move. Most things, when they’re over, die a natural death. What you don’t seem to see is that things can change in a heartbeat. And what you think will happen is about to be challenged by a series of events that will totally change your mind. The desire to call it quits is based on incomplete information. Hold on and come from the stance of "waiting to see which way things go" — because it’s all in flux; unpredictable. 

SAGITTARIUS: I don’t see why you don’t get it. This is one of those "here you go again" scenarios and you’re falling right into an old, familiar role. Who knows why you keep having to do this? Hopefully the mystery will unravel as you go. In the meantime, stay true to yourself. Even your idiosyncrasies have their place. As you embark on this partnership or alliance don’t give too much up to compromise and don’t project too much of the past onto it. Everything changes as we change and who knows? You just might be big enough to handle this situation.

CAPRICORN: You’ve been watching the signs long enough to figure out what the message is. Nothing has to be totally wrong for you to know that there are subtler reasons prompting you to either move or shift your focus. Larger issues are speaking to all of us at this point. If something calls you to be elsewhere there’s a reason for it; and if you’re thinking of throwing caution to the wind don’t talk yourself out of it. None of your plans matter more than your ability to look honestly at your experience and alter everything if need be, just to find out what you’re here for. 

AQUARIUS: The next few months will bring you to a place of recognition. If this is hard to believe it’s only because you haven’t lifted your head up from your work long enough to see how much you’ve accomplished. Finally being valued for the effort will come with an opportunity to make a move. It could also open up the possibility of a new relationship. Don’t let anything interfere with the things that come to pass, and don’t be surprised if others have a really hard time adjusting to the idea that your growth means they finally have to step up to the plate.

PISCES: You want to approach things from a totally truthful place but you’re dealing with people who are completely dishonest. Maybe it’s time to do what’s expedient. Knowing what you know, it would make more sense to get out of Dodge or at least let absence make the heart grow fonder. Things will blow over if your presence doesn’t keep reminding everyone of what you did. And while you may think that you need to stick around and keep an eye on this, it’s a tempest in a teapot and it’ll die down the minute everyone sees that there’s nothing to it.

November 18, 2009

ARIES: You used to be open to taking off but you’re not as adventurous these days. It’s too bad, because a total change of scenery would show you so much about why you’ve lost touch with yourself. In attempting to stabilize ourselves we run a grave risk of allowing life to crystallize into patterns that keep us from growing. You may be proud of yourself for what you’ve established, but after a while those things become a prison in which we carve out a false identity. Don’t chain yourself to this job, this place or the need to believe that taming yourself = success.

TAURUS: You’ve got another thing coming if you think you can get away with this. Others may not be too happy about it, and you may not be allowed to go forward until you find a way to do it for the right reasons. As it is, there’s too much regret, anger or bitterness affecting your choices. Nothing good comes out of things that are done to retaliate. We get even less mileage out of choices that are based on the ego’s need to feel important. Before you think any further about where your next project is headed you’ll need to do a good amount of soul searching.

GEMINI: Sometimes it’s best not to intervene. In this situation someone expects you to step in; as much as they’re counting on it they also need to figure this out for themselves. Not saying anything can be more powerful than words. Let them think this is their decision; and while you’re at it, get a life. Having your mind on other people and their affairs keeps you out of touch with yourself. The trick to really being able to help people involves staying true to our own lessons and embodying our own potential enough to give others a good reason to embody theirs.

CANCER: You go from going out of your way for people to being unwilling to do the slightest thing to please them. A sense of paranoia has your trust level totally out of commission. Some days you do and some days you don’t. If that’s the way it’s going you might want to ask yourself why it is that you can’t be 100 percent there for this. These things are always about us, so take a look in the mirror and think about what you’re here for. Your plans and motives could be based on things that have nothing to do with what is ultimately in the best interests of your higher self.

LEO: This would be easier if you didn’t make it so hard. The same goes for your friendships. You will begin to attract people who are good for you when you decide that you no longer wish to attract people who aren’t. What we don’t want in our lives disappears the minute we look at what’s going on and decide where we stand with it. Don’t sit around whining about how hard things are. Getting off on being a martyr is your choice. And when it comes to love and friendship, taking off your hair shirt would go a long way toward making people come closer.

VIRGO: Just when you thought things were going to slow down they’re speeding up again. You aren’t sure you’re ready for more, but you see that you can’t stop the momentum and you sense that there has to be a reason why all of this is up to you. You have good reasons to want to step out of the picture and focus on your own affairs; it’s been too much for too long and part of you is totally exhausted. The universe seems to be expecting you to carry on with the same level of integrity no matter what. If your second wind is anywhere in sight, breathe deep and take it now.

LIBRA: What seemed like the answer to all of your prayers just blew up in your face. The shock was one of those necessary things that happened just to get you out of Fairy Land into a more realistic sense of what’s really going on. What you aren’t too happy with looks like more truth than you could handle. Learn to live with it. And if you can find a way to translate it into something you can take total responsibility for, you will see that this is just the way it is. What came in the form of betrayal is in fact an opportunity for you to go deeper into love.

SCORPIO: You have mixed feelings about how things have turned out. If you’re totally honest, you have to say that you messed this up about nine months ago and you haven’t been the same since. It’s too bad you’re so stubborn. Something happened that made you feel like you have to be right about whatever went down and your unwillingness to admit that you made a mistake has been the source of all of your anguish. To insist that it’s someone else’s fault, or to continue to remain in denial about the part you played in creating your own problems, won’t solve this.

SAGITTARIUS: Too many issues call you to have to mind your P’s and Q’s. For someone who likes to have everything out in the open this is a total pain in the butt. You can’t say certain things in front of some people, and you can’t do certain things when you’re with others, and someone else expects you to only tell them what they want to hear. Between the endless half truths and everything that can’t be said, you are fed up with having to edit your behavior. The urge to blow a few minds and whistles is getting harder to ignore; it may be time to tell the truth.

CAPRICORN: You’re anxious about something that won’t even happen. If you could see around the corner you’d know that whatever you’re so worried about will be subject to some form of divine intervention. It’s quite possible that the whole thing will get called off. It could also be that things change to make all of it less of a hassle. Instead of getting all worked up over this, bring yourself back to a place of knowing that it’s not up to you to direct anything. You need to wake up and realize that what you’ve turned into a big deal is taking very good care of itself.

AQUARIUS: Money issues have made you forget that life has nothing to do with money. Your efforts to make ends meet have had you running between work and your creditors trying to figure it all out. Any meaning or fulfillment you get from it seems to be a moot point. You’re too young to be caught in this trap. To continue to believe that if you just work harder everything will be all right is a lie that puts you in the same category with millions of others who have applied that principle without seeing that in believing it they sentence themselves to death! Wake up!!

PISCES: You didn’t realize how much spilling the beans would affect people. If you’re wondering why everything’s nuts it’s because you opened the floodgates with your truth telling. When one thing changes, everything changes; that’s the way things go. If your confession was made from a place of wanting to make things right, what you didn’t take into account is that now everyone involved has to rearrange their thoughts and feelings to accommodate it. The fur is flying because you made it mandatory for everyone to come clean. No wonder they’re upset!

 

 

November 11, 2009

ARIES: You’re freaking out about the fact that you’re turning into your parents. It happens to the best of us at some point along the line. The fact that you’re aware of it is a good sign, so don’t lose hope. That being said, maybe it’s time to look at yourself. How is it that you’ve settled into a pattern that doesn’t suit you or your beliefs? These things happen invisibly. Waking up to the realization marks the point where it becomes possible to turn it around. Now that you see what you’ve done to yourself is there any way that you could make a decision to change it?

TAURUS: You’ve gotten into a situation that has you pitted against your early programming. If it looks like something else, it’s really about you and beliefs that were formed when you were too young to know what was really going on. Battling with whoever’s out there now, you don’t seem to get that whatever they aren’t willing to give you is something you never had to begin with. What you couldn’t get from mom and dad can’t be milked out of your current situation. In the end, the sense of safety and certainty you’re looking for can only be found within yourself.

GEMINI: Concerns about someone close have you wondering if you had anything to do with their pain. If you think this is your fault you’re crazy. Everyone has their own row to hoe and how they interpret their life experience is totally up to them. Whoever’s coming unglued has yet to see that they either expect too much or their expectations are irrelevant to the times we’re in. You can hold their hand and walk them through this but there is absolutely nothing you can do to alter the way they deal with it. Sometimes you have to sit back and let people learn their lessons.

CANCER: You’re running on faith that someone will be able to come through for you. If they do it’ll be because they care. On other levels it’ll be because they’re getting something out of this, too. What you need to remember is not to lose yourself in whatever their needs are. Both of you are making this investment. It doesn’t matter if it’s a project or a relationship. What you bring to the situation will reflect the extent to which you really care about it. What others decide to bring to it is uncertain; things will work out if both of you are conscious enough to give it your all.

LEO: Too many cooks make it imperative that you step out of the kitchen. None of this will take off with so many agendas operating at cross purposes. You may not like not having a say in how things go but it’s stupid to keep talking when no one’s listening. You’ll stand a better chance of getting your point across if you disengage and become conspicuous in your absence. Without your input others will come to the right conclusion of their own accord. If you don’t get credit for solving the problem you’ll have the satisfaction of knowing what really happened here.

VIRGO: With so much going on staying centered would seem difficult. Of late, you’ve had an easier time with multiple demands and emotional issues that make it all that much more intense. The last straw got reached a while back and it enlightened you to the fact that a sense of humor would greatly facilitate your ability to see what’s going on. You’ve come to the conclusion that it’s all subject to change and there’s no need to worry about where things stand from one day to the next. Congratulations, my friend; you finally figured out how not to sweat the small stuff. 

LIBRA: What you can no longer blame on others has to be seen in a different light. The habit of never being able to own up to the part you play in bringing things on has been a source of infinite difficulty. It has occurred to you that maybe something you did, or said, or projected unintentionally made it possible for others to take you for a ride in every situation where things didn’t go your way. This revelation could change everything. It’s quite possible that you will never let yourself wind up whining about who did what to who ever again.

SCORPIO: You can’t let yourself go crazy wondering what people are going to do next. You act like you’re in high school, for Pete’s sake. Playing cat-and-mouse games, or planning strategies that you hope will entice others to do your bidding won’t work to attract whatever you’re trying to manifest. A little honesty and some straightforward conversation is what’s needed here. But before you can do that you’ll need to get real about what you really want out of this. It isn’t what you think. Pull yourself together and get to the bottom of your true reason for being here.

SAGITTARIUS: You keep trying to gloss over what seems unpleasant. If this is working for you don’t expect it to do the trick too much longer. The end result of seeing what you want to see is always disillusionment and you’re barreling toward it half asleep. I would expect to see someone rising up and speaking for themselves about things that you don’t want to hear. Any reluctance to listen won’t change the fact that they are no longer under your control. Opening your eyes will involve giving up on the idea that you have the right to decide who they can be.

CAPRICORN: High maintenance people are screaming for attention at a time when you’ve got no energy for it. This most recent tantrum is nothing new but it looks like you’re going to have to stop the train just to handle it. It’s too bad you’re too deeply involved with this baby to tell them to grow up. I have a feeling you’re going to have to rearrange your schedule and make a lot of adjustments just to calm them down. Don’t waste too much time on it. It’s crazy to make this much space for someone who won’t meet you halfway and who never seems to change.

AQUARIUS: You aren’t ready to drop this but you’ve just about had it. Hanging on to someone or something because you think it might yield results on down the road rarely pans out. You’ve done your homework and seem to be ready to take things to the next level but you’re dealing with a situation that isn’t developed enough to match your expectations. Elements of narcissism are infecting things, too. Someone’s sensitivity is so heavily focused on themselves, they have no clue how to redirect their feelings toward you because at rock bottom, it’s all about them.

PISCES: Pushing your luck always comes at a time when it’s running out. You haven’t got any more tricks up your sleeve and you’re at a point where you’ve got nothing to lose. In a way, there’s something liberating about all of this because it’s given you the freedom to try anything. It’s also helped you to see that there’s always a way out. Keep the faith. At times when very little seems to exist within the realm of possibility, an opening occurs that allows other factors to enter in and serve as the saving grace or the solution to things that didn’t seem to have an answer.

December 30, 2009

ARIES: You’d be happier about this if it was your idea. You either want more or less than the one who’s calling the shots, but unfortunately you don’t have the power here. Sometimes it’s best to recognize that it serves us to acquiesce. In the end, you’ll get what you want or you’ll get more of what you already have. The need to be strategic can’t be overemphasized. For someone who has a hard time focusing on anything but them self, at times it’s wise to be more aware of other people’s issues than you are of your own, especially when so much depends on them.

TAURUS: You’re looking around at what you’ve created and it feels good to be the one who did it. The satisfaction that comes from never stepping out of integrity is virtue’s reward. For some, reaping what you’ve sown isn’t feeling that good. Hopefully this will open your eyes to what happens when you approach your life with only yourself in mind. If you’re honest you’ll know what I mean. All of you need to chill out and reconnect with what feels real to you at this moment. The past is gone, and as far as the future goes, that all depends on where you’re at now.

GEMINI: You’d just as soon skip out on this next affair; you’ve been there and done that so many times you really don’t need to stick around. Find someone to take care of your duties and disappear, because you’ll wind up handling the whole thing if you’re not careful. Your personal life has taken an interesting turn and that’s part of the reason you need a break. After doing a 180 in the love department, the whiplash of reality is making you wonder what you did. The one who looked like they could walk on water has turned into a human being; can you handle it?

CANCER: The person who’s driving you crazy needs to be crazy right now — as much as you want them to shape up, it is their turn to come unglued. Instead of seeing this as problematic, try to look at it as part of the cure. And if they don’t want you to hold their hand through this, it’s because it’s something they know only they can figure out. When and if they pull themselves together, they may be ready to deserve you — but you can’t bank on that. Uncertainty is tough. Learning how to live with it is part of life.

LEO: You aren’t obligated to anyone. Don’t be stupid. You’ve got security mixed up with the idea that having any means you have to become an indentured servant. And if this is one of those subconscious things where you’re trying to work out your parental trips — get over it, please. Turning yourself into a martyr doesn’t become you. And sooner or later the pressure of everyone else’s needs will squeeze you right out of the picture. Drop some of the "have to’s" in your life; it won’t be worth anything if you lose yourself to things that have nothing to do with you.

VIRGO: The willingness to hang in there is good for some things and bad for others. Don’t assume that standing by is always the answer, because everything is relative and persistence doesn’t always pay off. At this point you need to keep your foot in the door where you are as you venture out far enough to explore new territory. This is a transitional phase for you. On the threshold between the past and the future, the impulse to stay where we are is as strong as the desire to break through to the other side. Your heart knows what you’re ready for. Trust it.

LIBRA: With so much making you wish that something would come along to handle it for you, you’re in no mood to deal with pressure or change. That’s OK, but the longer you subject yourself to the demands of others the more you will see that you can’t keep doing it. If relationships are meant to be 50-50, how come your partner gets whatever they want and you get to go along with it? You can’t make this decision now. Too many variables are impacting this situation for you to even dream of knowing what to do. 

SCORPIO: The best thing that ever happened doesn’t always come with a fairy tale. The wise men tell us that all passion breeds suffering and you’re getting a little taste of how that feels. If you could have said "no" to this would you be any happier right now? When life starts teaching us the meaning of bittersweet, the bitterness overrides everything until we realize that it’s all the same. Taking the good with the bad is what it’s all about. You may not like the fact that beauty and the beast live side-by-side, but the sooner you learn to live with it the sweeter life will be.

SAGITTARIUS: It looks like you’re getting a breather and this is giving you time to organize your life. It’s also setting you free to see what’s important. You’ve always been one to follow your bliss and right now doing that will bring what’s really meaningful to you straight to your door. Any whim that you have, no matter how ridiculous it seems, holds the key to something much greater. When your intuition tells you that you need to go bowling, don’t second guess it. You just might meet up with the love of your life!

CAPRICORN: The role you’ve cast yourself in isn’t an easy one. Being the Rock of Gibraltar takes a lot out of you. At this stage in your life you need to look around and figure out what it will take to be there for yourself. That others expect so much from you has gotten to be a habitual thing, and it isn’t working anymore. Things will not fall apart if you start saying "no" once in a while. Your lessons involve learning how to enjoy things. This could be harder for you than being “the rock,” but it’ll be a lot more fun.

AQUARIUS: Going off the deep end isn’t the worst thing that can happen to a person. There’s nothing wrong with losing it — but then you’re left with the business of finding yourself again. You can’t stay where you are. And as far as going forward goes, you haven’t got a clue about what to do now. There is so much about yourself that you don’t understand — but you can begin by trying to unearth older skeletons that have haunted all of your behavior and most of your choices. Underneath it all you will find the real you.

PISCES: You are in a whirlwind of people who all seem to want something from you. At this point you can't tell who's for real and who isn't — and since you're such an openhearted person your tendency is to believe them all. Don't be too naïve. Some of these jokers aren't here for the right reasons. Anyone who's in too much of a rush to pin you down should be considered suspect. It may help you to remember that what you have to give is priceless. Giving it away will cost you dearly. Don't let anyone sell you short. 

December 23, 2009

ARIES: You wish you could find a way to make this more interesting but you’re fresh out of ideas. Life has settled into a pattern that’s beginning to get old and you’re just waking up to the fact that you’re either not into it, or the whole thing needs a makeover. This is always the way it goes. What no one ever tells us is that the perfect plan winds up being boring as hell. After all the effort you put into trying to do it right, here you sit wondering what the joke is. The joke is on us, my friend. Hopefully it’s not too late for you to begin living life on your own unique terms.

TAURUS: There’s a fine line between lying and not telling the whole truth. What you keep to yourself could fill a book. If you’ve got something to hide that’s your business, but once it starts affecting others you’ve got a problem. False impressions, white lies and complex scenarios that would seem to require a team of psychiatrists could get out of control if you don’t start filtering out some of the BS. Stop imagining the worst and get some of this off your chest. It will be easier on you if you let some of what you’re thinking and feeling find its way to the surface.

GEMINI: You’re getting paranoid about something that has nothing to do with what’s actually going on. Where did you get the idea that you’ve got anything to worry about? Rumors and assumptions have a way of contorting our thinking. And there are times when problems in the financial arena distort our perceptions enough to make everything look as if the glass is half empty. It might be time to look at how everything you imagine comes true and begin to realize that it would be just as easy to imagine something that isn’t colored by fear and lack.

CANCER: You’ve been making up for lost time or trying to make up for what you did or didn’t do. The decision to clean up the past begins as a simple and straightforward thing; until it meets up with the people and issues that it concerns. How others respond to our desire to make things right is rarely what we expect. You’re about to find out about the other side of the story. If it shocks you to hear the awful truth about how your choices have affected others consider it part of the deal and don’t be surprised if people resist your efforts to make amends for the past.

LEO: You aren’t so sure about anything anymore. What was once 100 percent clear seems to have lost its meaning, and you’re not sure what you want to replace it with. The business of being in limbo is hard until you realize that it’s a natural thing. Don’t get too involved cracking the whip or trying to be productive at a time when your spirit has no sense of what its purpose is. No one ever told us that it’s OK to not know what’s going on. Your confusion would be easier to deal with if you understood that every new development comes to life in the waters of chaos.

VIRGO: You can’t believe what’s gone down in the last few months. Whoever you gave too much rope to has gone all the way over the edge with it. The desire to call them on their transgressions battles with a greater need not to stoop to their level. If your friends are advising you to go for the throat think twice about how much time and energy that will involve. Part of you knows that the fates will handle this; if you’re right about that I have no doubt that sooner or later whoever’s done you wrong will have to live with the consequences of their own actions.

LIBRA: No one knew how far this situation would go. You can’t blame others for what they didn’t fully understand. As much as it looks like this has nothing to do with you, there’s no way around it; you’re here, too. Rewinding back to the point where you made the decision to jump in no matter what the cost will do a lot to show you who got the ball rolling; what if you had said "no" instead of "yes?" You can’t change the past, but once you learn to live with it the present reshapes itself and it gives you the freedom to realize that it’s just what it took to get you here.

SCORPIO: You have been chasing the same illusion far too long. It seems a bit strange, given the fact that there’s no clear evidence that this dream of yours even exists. On one level you deserve a lot of respect for believing so strongly in it; but what isn’t there can’t be ignored. Instead of trying so hard to make this real, why don’t you take a look at what your experience is teaching you. It’s always the case that everything we search for is right in front of us. If you haven’t already, eventually you’ll begin to see that your happiness depends on loving what is.

SAGITTARIUS: Things weren’t supposed to turn out this way but here you are; and what doesn’t make sense took a long time to develop. At this point, things are too far along for you to have the luxury of wondering what the hell happened. When you finally find the time to sit down and look at it you will see that you set yourself up, big time. Depending on who you are this could mean one thing or another. Some of you are living high off the hog. Others could be down in the dumps trying to figure out why bad things always seem to happen to good people.

CAPRICORN: The issues in your mundane reality have overtaken any sense that there’s any meaning and purpose to your life. Not knowing what you’re here for has a lot to do with the fact that others and their needs/interests consume way too much of your time. Weeding out what isn’t your stuff would go a long way to giving you more space to reconnect with the things that really get you going. While I understand your need to keep up with your sense of duty and responsibility, I can’t figure out why you let that take precedence over your own fulfillment.

AQUARIUS: There’s no way you’re going to change anyone’s mind, so give it up. Their way of thinking and feeling took years to develop and it’s based on the sum total of their experience. If you disagree with them, making them wrong won’t lead either one of you to a deeper understanding. Ultimately you both want the same thing, but your ways of approaching it are totally different. Instead of dwelling on the gap that separates you it might be better to lighten up enough to see that all either one of you wants out of this is what’s best for everyone.

PISCES: Wowie, zowie! You’ve got a lot of stuff going on. Between the full impact of major changes and a honey of a soap opera you can’t figure out how you got to be the one to have this experience. Riding it out will require you to drop all the BS and come up with a whole new definition for yourself. Not being who everyone thought you were feels uncomfortable only until you realize that even you didn’t know who that person was. And you gotta laugh because if it wasn’t for this recent series of disasters you wouldn’t have a clue about that or anything else.

December 16, 2009

ARIES: Life has been on the intense frequency and you’re not quite sure how to handle it. Your instincts work for you most of the time but lately you’ve had to deal with the side effects of too much faith in the wrong things. If the whole ball of wax is melting you’ve gotta stop wondering about it and look at what it’s telling you. Once you read the signs you may see that anything would be better than this. And if you’re one of the few who are enjoying the ride you’ve already figured out how to take the good with the bad and are making the most of this intensity.

TAURUS: You can’t do much about the way people think. Differences of opinion have raised questions about the right way to do things. If you really think you’re right about this, the only way you can change anyone’s mind is to get around it. Instead of insisting on your rights in this situation you’ll further your cause by finding out more about the way others see it. Coming to an agreement would serve you far more than engaging in any kind of conflict. Consider the benefits of peaceful cooperation and open up to the thought that two heads might be better than one.

GEMINI: You’re worried about the wrong thing. What other people do is their choice, so don’t try to control the direction things take. Fortunately for you, the fates have conspired to make this dream come true; on some level, it’s already written that there will be a reunion within a few months, or some positive resolution to things that have troubled you for quite a while. As others begin to awaken to their destiny, have you had any thoughts about your own? Insight into why you choose to be consumed by externals will reveal the extent to which it stunts your growth.

CANCER: You should have known better but it’s too late to wonder why you didn’t. Self analysis is good up to a point. Living in the past and rehashing what happened keeps you locked into that story in a way that prevents the next level of your experience from unfolding. Getting your mind off this could require a jolt, a bolt from the blue that reminds you that it’s the present moment that we live in. Dwelling on what’s over replicates it. Pull yourself into the moment and look at what’s here and now. Is there anything about the past that still applies to any of it?

LEO: You’ve got differences of opinion that stand to distance you from anyone who doesn’t share the same view. As hard as it may be to see it any other way but your own, it would make your life easier if you could open up. If what you crave more than anything is love, what is it that causes you to reject the possibility just because someone does things a little differently than you do? Rigidity about anything is always an indication of resistance. When we push things away nothing comes to us. Get over yourself. You could be having a ball if you weren’t so stuck.

VIRGO: It’s obvious that things are about to take off and you’re a little nervous about how it’s going to go. I don’t blame you, because so much of what you’re involved in has an edge to it and things could explode before this turns into a supernova. Part of you is worried about hurting people and another part of you is more concerned with the truth. What you seem to forget is that sometimes the truth hurts. It’s not your job to babysit for other people’s emotional responses, especially now when their feelings seem to be at the heart of what’s holding things back.

LIBRA: You wonder why the phantom lover never seems to arrive or measure up. After all, you’re everything anyone could ever want. Underneath whatever you’ve done to make yourself perfect, there’s a wound that has never had the chance to heal. If you care enough to really look at it you will find that there’s a primary rejection piece that’s been there from the beginning. Could it be that the perfect relationship never materializes because it’s so hard to believe that you deserve to be loved? Are you ready to believe it; and would a radical move bring it about?

SCORPIO: Winding up in a fling that has no rhyme or reason to it could take many different forms. Depending on your nature, some of you could get into one of those "the Devil made me do it" situations; others could find themselves going overboard just for the hell of it. In a hundred years we’ll all be dead, so don’t spend too much time wondering whether to go for it. Some people say you only live once — and the ones who tell us we go around again and again understand that experience is the best teacher. If this feels right to you, jump on it.

SAGITTARIUS: Getting too big for your britches is always a pitfall. Getting stuck in pride about yourself, your capabilities, your connections or accomplishments offers important lessons in humility. Before you go too far with giving yourself more credit than you deserve, ask yourself if this is what it’s cracked up to be. When it comes to tooting your own horn, inwardly or outwardly, it’s best to be careful. In the long run, if whatever you’re selling really has merit it’ll get noticed. Instead of proclaiming yourself, focus on refining your dedication to your work.

CAPRICORN: It would be great if you didn’t have so much going on. The weight of responsibility always makes it harder for you. Anyone else could overlook some of this, but you couldn’t live with yourself if you did. Kids, work, pending deals and/or side issues that have to do with who’s taking care of who are all complicating things at a time when enough is enough. You haven’t got the energy or the inclination to deal with half of this, so cut down on your terminal need to be there for everything and focus on yourself and what you need for a change.

AQUARIUS: You’ve got a choice to make. It has to do with going along with the program or trusting yourself enough to find out what you really came here to do. Bucking the system is never easy, but when those things lose their meaning do you really have a choice? It makes no sense to go down the old and tired route because you’re afraid that if you don’t you won’t succeed or be fulfilled. The very act of staying inside the lines suggests that you don’t believe in anything enough to know that when life loses its meaning, you have to step out of line.

PISCES: Going deeper into the mystery has its good points. There’s something to be said for knowing more about the truth. At the same time, you’re wading through so much crap you can’t believe what you’re seeing about yourself. When the veil of illusion falls away, a lot of things disappear along with it. Whatever it costs you to let things go, know that nature hates a vacuum. The loss of whatever you thought you were is making room for your authentic self to shine through. Don’t resist any of this, and don’t be afraid of who you’re becoming.

 

October 28, 2009

ARIES: You haven’t seen anything yet. If someone keeps surprising you with their odd behavior, instead of wondering when it’s going to stop, you might do better to take it as a sign that they’re totally crazy! You don’t need this. And if you stick around just to make sure you don’t hurt them you’ll wind up in a codependent role that won’t serve either one of you. Waking up is as hard to do as breaking up, and while I understand what keeps you here, don’t let your inability to see things for what they are prohibit you from letting this go and moving on with your life.

TAURUS: You have your reasons for taking offense but don’t take it too far. Whoever’s giving you a hard time has plenty of justification for it. Instead of getting up in arms over things that involve your credibility you might do better to find some common ground. There’s no reason to fight and you’ll do yourself in if you spend too much time trying to prove them wrong. The old saying, "Keep your friends close, and your enemies even closer," has a lot of truth to it. In this situation your best defense might be to get over yourself and find a way to cooperate.

GEMINI: What’s right in front of you looks like a mountain of stuff that would throw anyone for a loop. You’re too busy looking beyond it to see that what you really need to do is anchor yourself long enough to complete things. Others don’t know what to make of you. If they keep testing you, don’t waste your time being anything but authentic and don’t worry about it if they act weird. You can’t waste your energy on other people’s side trips. There’s too much to deal with. If you really want to strengthen your future bring your attention to what’s here and now.

CANCER: Lots of competition and levels of third-party interference are making your world more volatile than usual. In case you didn’t notice, someone wants to be the chosen one. Whatever end of the triangle you stand on, underneath all the drama this is about older things. Disengage from the need to play into it and try to see what it is that makes you always need to have someone or something interfere with the smoothness of your involvements. Check out where mom and dad were at; their story could give you the key to this repetitious pattern.

LEO: You can’t be too sure about anything right now. Themes of dissolving seem to be everywhere. When everything that seemed real suddenly dissolves, the ego goes right along with it. Reconnecting the dots takes time. If you’re confused about anything, in the middle of an identity crisis, confusion would seem to be totally appropriate. Don’t even try to snap out of it. Sometimes the best MO is to let it all dissolve enough to expand beyond your known limits. Open yourself up to "not knowing" and consider coming unglued to be an initiation of sorts.

VIRGO: Things have gotten out of hand. No matter how it looks to you, it’s totally under control; besides, you aren’t the one who needs to be worrying. Too many other things are more important than whatever you think you owe to so-and-so. It’s OK to be vigilant about your motives but you got over questioning them a long time ago. At this point it looks like you’re in a position to correct the situation, so don’t start wimping out or giving people the benefit of the doubt. If you just stay true to yourself, this craziness will morph into something totally cool. 

LIBRA: The situation has changed and you’re beginning to understand why it just so happens to be you who’s stuck in it. We never know where we’ll end up. Here you are trying to figure out how to make the best of it, but it’s all you can do to find a way. There is a path out of here but you won’t find it if you aren’t totally clear that you’re 100% there for it. Down deep, a part of you may be thinking you can’t handle what life requires of you now. Don’t be afraid to acknowledge it. Nothing will move or improve until you look your demon straight in the eye.

SCORPIO: Nobody promised you anything. If you reflect back on all of this you weren’t paying attention. Expecting too much from people who don’t have the capacity to give it to you is like trying to get a Coke out of a coffee machine. What were you thinking? Whoever’s feeling the tail end of your disappointment didn’t know they were being set up. And what’s even more interesting is you are still of the mind that they let you down, when the truth is you wouldn’t know what to do if they measured up. This isn’t about them. It’s all your stuff. Think about that.

SAGITTARIUS: How far this will go is hard to say, but so far so good. Congratulations on manifesting something constructive for a change! You aren’t exactly sure what’ll happen next but you’re happy and whoever’s there with you is feeling pretty good about it, too. Enough has changed for both of you to know a little bit more about who you are. What seems more important than anything is a mutual need to move forward toward something lasting and permanent, without losing the spontaneity and freedom that comes from trusting the one you love.

CAPRICORN: You are torn by so many things and exhausted by them, too. Waking up and realizing that you can’t take care of everyone is a big item. Seeing this and recognizing that it’s time to pull away or at least change the way you do things is a good idea. Your love life is about to go through a major shift. Your heart is more open than usual. A deep willingness to accept whatever the conditions for relating are is bound to bring you into situations that teach you a great deal. Don’t question this. Just do your best to learn what you can from it.

AQUARIUS: You keep doing the best you can. Even though you aren’t entirely sure what the deal is right now, you do understand that you can only pay attention to what’s in front of you. Things seem to be going well and every day there are signs that you’re on the right track. At this point in time all any of us can do is be in the moment. Property issues and questions about whether or not to sell out have been percolating. So much is making you wonder. If you live in the northeast, it may be a good idea to vamoose and head south or west to warmer climes.

PISCES: Take time to deal with the things you overlook. Minor repairs are bound to become major if you don’t tend to them now. Changing your mind regarding a move or other important shift has become an issue. Ignoring your intuition, hanging on or playing it safe will get you into a whole lot more trouble than anything uprooting your self could cause you. There are reasons why we get impulses to do certain things. If you see all this as some sort of whim, it would be better for you to understand that what we call impulse is always the spirit calling

 

October 21, 2009

ARIES: There’s some question about how long it will take to get out of this. It seems like you’re stuck in the same boat with people who don’t want to be there either. A broader perspective would show you that you’re just moving through a difficult time that is bringing out everyone’s worst fears. No one is at their best when they’re afraid, and it makes it very difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel when you don’t know where you’re going. Things will improve. In about three more months you will all be home free.

TAURUS: Major disconnections with people have been going on for so long that it seems as if no amount of communication will straighten things out. Faced with the arrival of someone you wish you didn’t have to talk to, you’re wondering where to begin. They happen to feel just as insecure as you do. The tendency to get defensive needs to be watched. None of this will be resolved if either one of you starts hitting below the belt. Brace yourself. For the time being, the best you can expect may be to agree to disagree.

GEMINI: You’re in a tense situation that requires you to exercise a lot of self-restraint. Things are stable only because everyone involved is respectful of the fact that this could blow up any minute. If it seems like others are the problem, that may be so, but you may need to look at how conflicted you feel. Torn between the commitments you’ve made and your real desires, it could be that all of this tension will be resolved as soon as you wake up to what’s inwardly true. When you figure out what that is this will all come together.

CANCER: There are so many things that you would like to change, but you’re feeling unable to do anything about it. Major restrictions appear to be everywhere, but they’re largely in your mind. There’s one possibility or opportunity that you could latch on to right now and if you can focus on that you won’t feel so helpless. Taking action is difficult when you’re frustrated and depressed but doing nothing won’t work for you much longer. There is a way out. Finding it will require you to release a few more fears and a few more tears.

LEO: Don’t overanalyze people. You’re giving this way more energy than it deserves. Whoever you’re trying to figure out isn’t the least bit concerned about you and they’re not half as deep as you think they are. It might be better for you to think about what you want out of this. You’ve been basing too many of your decisions on what others consider important and you’ve lost the thread to what matters to you. Detach as much as you can and try to remember that you are more important than whomever you’re catering to.

VIRGO: Something tells you it’s your move, but you don’t know what to do. If you could deal more honestly with people this wouldn’t be so difficult. Try not to over-analyze something that is really quite simple. Nothing you do can change this and getting more involved will probably make it worse. It may be best to just realize that whatever binds you to this situation has run its course and the only thing you can do is let it go. If that thought scares you it’s only because you haven’t figured out that you’re done with this.

LIBRA: What we think is in our best interests often isn’t. You keep doing this out of some sense of obligation and you’ve even fooled yourself into thinking that it makes you happy, but it has very little to do with what you really want. Living from the heart takes guts. It’s been so long since you listened to your instincts, getting in touch with what you need to do now will require you to deprogram most of your cherished beliefs. What if you could do what you want here? If you knew what that was you wouldn’t stick around.

SCORPIO: Everything is going faster than a speeding bullet and there’s no time to dwell on too much. It’s too bad because you’ve got more than your share of personal issues that need to be straightened out. The stress in the relationship area is making you question what you even need to be in one for. If there’s any third party interference, human or otherwise, it’s making it even harder to see what needs to be done. You may need to think about moving, too. With all this change, you can’t afford to overlook the obvious.

SAGITTARIUS: Things started moving a little more quickly than you thought they would and it’s caught you off guard. All of a sudden you’ve got opportunities galore where before you were wondering if you'd ever see another one. Get your act together because this isn’t going to stop. Even if you have to fake it till you make it, do your best to keep up with this. New relationships appear to be good but take your time. The tendency to be overly trusting is so strong with you, it would be easy for anyone to play you for a fool.

CAPRICORN: You keep saying if you knew then what you know now this never would have happened, but it’s too late to change history. You’re in a situation that’s looking pretty crazy, but it’s by no means impossible. And you can’t walk away, so figure out what needs to happen and learn to live within that framework until something comes along to change what you can’t. If you feel bound by old structures and relationships that prevent you from doing your thing, know that they will fall away when you decide to go for it.

AQUARIUS: Having to play head games with intelligent people whose emotional intelligence puts them around three-years-old is one of the biggest crazy makers of all time. Whoever’s using their smarts to keep you in your place is operating out of a totally childish, terminally desperate part of their being and you’re buying into it. You can’t play this game. The next time they act up let them know you’re under no obligation to justify anything you do to them, or anyone else who can’t accept you as you are.

PISCES: If you’re feeling impatient, you might want to ask yourself why that is. It’s sheer arrogance to expect life to operate according to your schedule. And you can whine all you want about how you’re ready for a change, a new relationship or a new job, but none of that will happen until you see that if you were ready, those things would be there. What you seem to be missing is the deeper stuff. It isn’t out there — it’s in you. Instead of blaming life and cursing God for the way things are right now, try to see it as if it’s your creation.

 

October 14,2009

ARIES: Maybe this will blow over without any input from you; who knows? I wouldn’t waste my time getting righteous about correcting other people’s behavior without taking a good look in the mirror first. Chances are, whatever you see in them will disappear the minute you see it in yourself. Other issues surround the way things are going at work. A lot of it has to do with all of the above; the rest of it is about whether or not you’re truly engaged, doing what you love. That question is a big one. The answer lies in your body; if you’re sick, it’s time for a reality check.

TAURUS: Certain things aren’t your fault. At the same time, you can’t ignore the fact that you created all of this. Instead of whining over how victimized you feel, maybe you ought to take a look at how you got here. You could turn all of this around with a good dose of honesty and some soul searching. If you choose to maintain your position there’s no guarantee that anyone’s going to stick around and help you hold down the fort. Crack open the vault and do your best to override pride, fear or whatever it is that keeps you from getting to the heart of the matter.

GEMINI: What won’t go away is a reflection of whatever you can’t let go of. It’s pretty obvious. And while you may be whining about the fact that you seem to be stuck with this, inwardly you’re totally afraid to release your grip. You know enough about cause and effect to see that all of this is the sum total of too much babysitting. And maybe it’s reached this extreme just to show you never to do it again. At the same time, you need to be just as wary of hopping into the high chair yourself. Trading one thing for another is part of this. In the end, it’s all about you.

CANCER: You’re freaking out over something. It won’t do to get too worked up. What is already out of control won’t respond to any amount of hysterics or action on your part. When things are too big for us there’s no sense trying to be heroic. If you feel the need to step in and make things right you need to know that life is always correcting itself. Getting your fingers into the machinery is never the answer. I advocate sitting back and watching all of this run its course. You’ll be amazed when life metes out its justice perfectly, without any input from you.

LEO: Breaking away from your father pictures has always been a huge issue. In one form or another, “Daddy” is all over your life. Troubles with authority figures, frustration with your inability to make yourself heard and fears of taking charge are all part of this. Finding your own strength and expressing yourself without fear of reprisal presents you with themes that have run a constant thread through every experience. It’s time to look at how you’ve responded to this and cultivate a willingness to stand up for your own truth no matter how much you owe to Daddy.

VIRGO: Recent conversations have opened up a floodgate of secrets that have lifted the lid on Pandora’s Box. You find yourself caught in the middle of things that you were avoiding like the plague. The last thing you want to do is get mixed up in this whole affair, but you’re beginning to see that you might have to. Whatever you do, don’t be the one to initiate things and make sure your motives are clear. It’s obvious that something needs to be done. If you hold off and observe what’s really going on here you will know exactly how to handle it when the time comes.

LIBRA: You have been tripping out on life in a different location. Literally or figuratively in another world, so much of what you thought you wanted to do is taking a sharp, 90-degree turn. This is all to the good; every epiphany creates an opening. And what you’re wondering right now is — where do you really want to be? Something kicked in about two weeks ago. You suddenly became aware that you’re not tied to this post and the visions that you had when you rooted yourself to the spot have evolved into something that requires you to give it all up.

SCORPIO: High pressure tactics take so many different forms. Not fond of the direct approach you’re an expert at subliminal strategy. In your current situation this could turn out to be a huge asset. No matter what form things are taking, your needs won’t get met by making an issue of them. Whomever you’re dealing with likes to know that they’re on top. The merits of surrender mixed with unconditional love are as powerful as water when it comes to wearing down the rock of power or resistance. At the moment, your strength lies in your ability to inspire their trust.

SAGITTARIUS: You never thought life would end up like this. Welcome to the human race! Feeling like you don’t have a clue about how you got from A to B seems to be a collective issue these days. There’s no point in analyzing it; face it — you’re here. Questions as to what it means will have to fade in the face of circumstance and/or heavier-duty practical concerns. At times, the only remedy is an internal examination. At other times, the best you can do is nurse yourself through it. Either way, stop flailing around; slow down, get quiet and keep it really simple.

CAPRICORN: Trading places never occurred to you. It could be time for it. There are other issues that have to do with making things right. The only question you need to be asking yourself now is: Are you doing this from the ego or is it a soul issue? Because you’re on the brink of something huge. When our choices get this big we have to weigh our motives even more carefully. What you feel the need to stand up for may be better preserved by keeping quiet about it and going about your business. Think about it. This won’t be an issue if you don’t make it one.

AQUARIUS: Maybe you did the right thing. Time will tell. It’s difficult to know why we decide to do certain things. The long-term perspective suggests that this is one of your most important lessons. And whatever comes out of it will show you that sometimes we do things because we don’t know any better. What seems like the right thing is always our intention. What we have to learn is an entirely different matter. And this thing that you’re not sure about is a byproduct of the fact that you’re not too sure about anything right now and are in an extremely gullible state.

PISCES: It’s time to decide. If you’re going to do this, how are you going to do it? Think ahead. Because what you’re itchy about now will get scratchier as time goes on, and if you wait to follow your truer desires you’ll go nuts. Settle up with people and situations. Consider living in two places at once. You could even hit the road right now if you wanted to because life seems to be all up in the air. For the first time you feel like you can finally be yourself. Many of you are so out of touch with what that means, this time period could see you acting out all kinds of stuff.

 

October 7, 2009

ARIES: It won’t do any good to say this but let’s give it a whirl — have you lost your mind? Somehow or other you’ve gotten into something that either involves too much risk, or not enough of it; either way you’ve got to be crazy to take it on. Going too far too fast will only lead to trouble. If you’re one of the ones who’s gone the opposite route you’re settling into something totally deadening. Why the hell do you want to nail yourself into a coffin? Snap out of it and get real. See if you can find the fine line between taking too many chances and none at all.  

TAURUS: Totalitarian measures rarely work. You don’t need to push your weight around here. People are all too familiar with your power issues and all of them know that the only way to survive is to tell you one thing and do another. Your little show would run a lot better if you understood that you came here to share power instead of hoard it. Give everyone in your life a long leash and let them run with it. That method of operation will work wonders to increase your power in a real way and it’ll make everyone you’re connected to that much stronger.

GEMINI: Whatever this is about, it’ll blow over before you know it. You’re obsessing about stuff that doesn’t even matter at a time when you really need to get your act together. More recent scenarios have entwined you in a little soap opera that is really none of your business. Don’t let the need to distract yourself with a lot of drama override the fact that the shit is hitting the fan on so many other levels. Bring your self down to Earth. Draw a few boundaries. You don’t have the capacity to save anyone but yourself and your own interests right now.

CANCER: You can’t figure out what to do about this. Someone is riding roughshod over your life and you can’t figure out whether to step in and call a halt to it or just keep letting them run their routine. Anyone can see that you should have opened your mouth way before this. Whatever you’re looking at now is the sum total of all the stuff you turned a blind eye to. If you’re wondering what to do about it, you need to face the fact that everything gets more complicated when we put it off. It’ll take some fancy footwork to turn things around.

LEO: You never cease to be amazed by what’s come out of the last year or so. Lots of people have come into your life and as many have left it. Things that seemed horrendous a while back have turned out to be incredible blessings in disguise. As you contemplate how things come and go and what it all means you’re beginning to see that your only job is to stay at the center of it. It’s almost as if all you have to do is just Be. This revelation might prompt you to slow down and really get into the spiritual side of things. Maybe it’s time to jump down that rabbit hole.

VIRGO: You’ve been through the mill and are probably wiped out from it all, but the heat is off at the energetic level. Don’t expect too much from yourself. Turn off the perfection switch and try to understand that you have to regroup. After a long period of feeling pulled apart by too many demands you need to come back to yourself and remember what gives you joy. Simple things are OK for now. Hang out with children and look at the sky. Don’t run yourself ragged at a time when the battery’s too drained to do anything but wait until it’s recharged.

LIBRA: Don’t let the way things are going fool you for a moment. None of this is as bad or as good as it looks. You can’t trust your senses and you definitely can’t apply logic to this situation, so that leaves you without a whole lot of clarity. It would be better for you if you could find a way to cut through to whatever’s most meaningful and essential. I say this because you’re approaching a time when a lot of dead wood has to be removed from your life. In order to know what to keep and what to let go of you have to get crystal clear about what really matters to you.

SCORPIO: Grinding your axe is a full time job. Did it ever occur to you that you could drop this and move on with your life? Too many things suggest that you’ve settled into a part of the past and keep rewinding back to the beginning of the same old story. It’s the definition of insanity to keep doing the same thing and expect to get different results. It also gets boring after a while, not just for you but for everyone who has to love you through every single rerun. Life isn’t about blaming it for what isn’t working for you. You’d be happier if you could just let this go.

SAGITTARIUS: Here we go again. Extending yourself one more time isn’t a bad thing. You know well enough that you’re co-depending with someone who is at a very weak point and you have no choice but to say yes. You will wind up having to live with things that really don’t appeal to you for as long as it takes them to pull themselves together. As long as you understand that it will do no good to waste your energy trying to convert anyone, or fix things that have been going on for far too long, you’ll be able to do this without going nuts.

CAPRICORN: It’s more than obvious that certain things need to be rearranged. What was simple has gotten complicated by an increase in external pressures that won’t go away. A little help wouldn’t be a bad idea, even if you have to hire someone; you just can’t do all of this by yourself. Too many things call you to bring your attention more to your career than to anything that ties you to your home. Balancing the inner and the outer is a simple matter of looking at what needs to get handled and finding a way to make it all work via remote control.

AQUARIUS: You are laughing at yourself for wondering if this was the right idea; look at what you’ve created! With nothing but a good sense of intuition you’ve been able to remove yourself from a situation just in the nick of time. If you’d waited even a day longer you’d be stuck with something that you couldn’t get out of. Now that you’re free and clear, do you wonder what made you see the light? What we call luck is really just the ability to trust your inner voice 100 percent of the time. You’ve seen what can be done. Keep listening to that voice; it’s never wrong.

PISCES: The most difficult part of any process always has emotional overtones. You’ve gotten through the worst of things; from here on out you’ll be dealing with how to trade one life for another. Extricating ourselves is usually better for everyone if we don’t rip off the band-aid all at once. I see you needing to keep a portion of the past alive, but only enough of it to allow you the time and freedom to delve into your newer passions. You’ve got to do a little more time here — but take heart — it won’t be long before you’ll find yourself in two places at once. 

 

September 30, 2009

 

ARIES: You have to be self aware enough to see that people may be telling you what you want to hear. Whatever their motives are, it doesn’t serve you. It would be great if someone would sit you down and tell it like it is, because you’re at a point where you need to be realistic about who you are and where you’re going. The cheerleaders who back you up no matter what you do want something from you. Smarten up. Try to figure out why everyone’s waiting in line to kiss your ass and stop making it so easy for them.   

TAURUS: You’re wondering where the support structures in your life are. What you’ve counted on to guide you or build security has turned out to be relatively useless. In your closest relationships people seem to be turning to you at a time when you’re craving that from them. Start taking care of your self and stop pandering to the things you think will give you what you need. Time alone spent getting to the bottom of older wounds will provide strength, clarity and the courage to create a different vision for the future.

GEMINI: You could have seen this coming. Things have come to an impasse and you have to choose between what appears to be a safe bet and what’s “behind the curtain.” Everyone is full of advice and they’re all pushing you to be practical. You’re not so sure. A few months ago someone told you that you’d have to relive the sense of failure you watched your father play out in his life if you weren’t willing to take more risks. If there’s any truth to that, now is the time to be considering other options more seriously.

CANCER: Everyone is looking to you for answers and you don’t have any! Being put on the spot is always a great opportunity to just tell the truth. If you don’t know what to say, or if you’ve gotten caught with your pants down, don’t try to hide it. Problems in relationships have gotten more complex due to a refusal to communicate. Hurt feelings will fly before the week is out. Totally misunderstanding people’s intentions will give you cause to have to go back and find out what they really meant when they   told you off.

LEO: Whatever your blocks are you’re clear that it’s no longer about you being a victim. If you’ve been trying to change someone it hasn’t worked, and it’s fallen upon you to realize that this is an inside job. You’ll have days where you feel awful and days where you feel pretty fantastic for the next few months. As things shift make sure you stay loose enough to ride each wave as it comes up. Your relationships are demanding you to stretch beyond your normal limits. Don’t be too invested in keeping anything the way it is.

VIRGO: Computer entanglements are a theme right now. You’re having a little “online” romance or there’s something going on with your e-mail that isn’t kosher. You have a really good chance to change things for people in a positive way as long as you don’t get too involved. Pulling back to maintain your own sanity will create space for others to figure things out for themselves. There is a strong rebellious vibe around. If you or someone else wants more freedom and less responsibility, don’t be afraid to go for it.

LIBRA: What you have to ask yourself now is can you go back to the good old days? There’s a lot to be said for growing up and accepting the fact that life has changed. Releasing old attachments could be the best thing for everyone, no matter how hard it feels. You’re at a gateway and it’s time to just bite the bullet and move forward into the future. It would be good for you to look at how your friendships and close ties really serve you. Start speaking your truth and whoever doesn’t belong here will disappear.

SCORPIO: You’re feeling surer about things that you were a little shaky about before. There’s no doubt in your mind where people stand. Keep in mind that things don’t have to make sense to be real and true. And what’s going on now is you’re just waiting for something to hatch. Don’t worry; it will. The vision you hold is clear. Between now and the time it comes to fruition you’re going to have to do a lot of babysitting. Others are having a harder time breaking through, and their issues are what’s standing in the way.

SAGITTARIUS: Things are going well. You’ve reached a balance of some kind and it’s giving you time to breathe. The money picture is OK, too. Whatever you were sweating a while ago isn’t a problem. Those who were causing so much trouble have done themselves in. If they haven’t, they will. You may need to focus more on your relationship and see where it is you need to go from here. Changes for the better come in many forms. It’s time to commit fully or finally let go if you want to move forward.

CAPRICORN: You’re in a pretty complicated situation. Making changes was easy to do. Now that you’re in the middle of a new set of circumstances you’re seeing that no matter what, you always end up playing the same role. People are expecting you to do more dirty work than you need to. It’s very important for you to stick up for yourself or draw the line somewhere. If you can make it clear that certain things are not your job you’ll get a lot more respect, and this will open people’s eyes to the fact that you’re no pushover.

AQUARIUS: You just paid some big dues and feel that somehow the coast is clear. The problem is that you’ve misled people, yet again, into believing that you’re what they want you to be. Why you keep playing these games is beyond me. All you’re really doing is staving off the inevitable. And in the meantime, you have to live with someone whose life depends on making sure you dance to their tune. There are a million questions you could ask yourself and the first one is: “What am I getting out of this and do I really need it?”

PISCES: Some of you are faced with people who are trying to weasel their way back into your life. Like a bad penny, they have turned up just to give you a chance to tell them where to go. Others are dealing with someone who has broken one of the Ten Commandments. Before you stone them to death, remember that the mortgage on your glass house isn’t paid off yet. Whichever one of these scenarios applies, the lesson is about righteousness. Sometimes it’s totally justified — but most of the time, it’s not.

 

September 22, 2009

ARIES: Your life is at a high water mark. Either that or you’re wondering where you need to go from here. You are blown away that things have come together in the way that they have. For those of you who are feeling good about yourselves it’s a matter of believing that all of this is actually real. The rest of you are looking at dropping the ball and starting over again somewhere else. It may be that you can’t continue to grow if you stay rooted to this spot. Whatever category you fall in, just be patient and watch things unfold.

TAURUS: You have been feeling lukewarm about a person or situation. You’re so busy comparing it to what you had before, you can’t see it for what it is. It would be good if you could do a reality check to remind yourself that your glory days are long gone and you’re in a much different phase now. Maybe things are toned down or less exciting because that’s what your soul needs. People have more to offer than you give them credit for. You won’t find out how good they are for you until you give them a chance.

GEMINI: You may be feeling a lack of love. Those who could be giving it to you are too distracted to offer you what you need. You have no clue about so many things and you’re being strongly affected by influences that you’re totally in the dark about. Fears of rejection are being reflected back to you. The relationship dynamic is tenuous. If you want to keep it from falling apart you’ll have to stop imagining the worst. If you can find time to get to the bottom of what’s bugging you, you’ll be able to avoid a major upset.

CANCER: Using indifference to cope with your feelings won’t make things easier. Pretending you don’t care is a stupid way to get attention! The fact that this is something you really want is hard to admit, even to yourself. It’s OK to wear your heart on your sleeve and more OK for people to know where you’re coming from. The whole idea of acting like it doesn’t matter which way things go is your way of hiding from what the truth might be. In the long run, you’ll be better off if you face whatever you’re afraid of.

LEO: No one seems to be paying attention to the things that feel important to you. And you’ve managed to alienate the one person who could do something to help. You think you know everything. It’s unfortunate because there is so much you haven’t taken into consideration. It would be good if you could open your mind and see that nothing will come of this if you don’t accept the fact that others have contributions to make that are greater than yours. When you figure out how to work together this will turn around.

VIRGO: Whatever you do, don’t put any stock in what seems to be the case right now. Everything is exactly the opposite of what it appears to be. You can’t expect to be treated well by people who aren’t in touch with themselves. And you’re at the mercy of someone who is wounded or too immature to behave like a human being. You can’t put a stop to their efforts to control you. All you can do is have compassion for them and go about your business. Offer no resistance. Your best defense will be to do nothing.

LIBRA: If you’re a bit confused, that’s OK. Getting into a whole new way of being with yourself is making you wonder about a lot of things. Whatever you’re doing right now, you have to come from a place of radical trust. Don’t hold back because you’re afraid of what might happen. After all, the worst-case scenario is that you’ll make one more mistake, and so what if you do? You’re learning something here. Don’t use the past as a guideline for anything and give yourself plenty of space for your heart to open.

SCORPIO: You’ve gotten in over your head and you know it. Lucky for you, you’re a good actor because no one else can see how insecure you’re feeling right now. Whenever things get like this all you can do is be real. There’s no sense pretending that you know what you’re doing. The situation is way different than anything you’ve done before. Even so, your experience from the past has provided you with enough information to handle anything. Don’t follow any particular set of rules, be yourself and you’ll be fine.

SAGITTARIUS: Timing is everything. And you’re biding your time, doing what’s expedient just to cover your ass or to insure that you will have what you’re really after in the long run. There are different forms of resistance making it seem as if you’ve made the wrong choice. Anyone who criticizes your behavior is just deathly afraid of what it says about them. Very few people are honest enough to look at themselves. You happen to be in the position of showing everyone around you what happens when you tell the truth.

CAPRICORN: You have been waiting for things to come through without knowing for sure what will happen. The last few weeks have shown you that there may be some light in this tunnel. Being hung up in a lot of red tape has created a state of suspended animation. Cutting ties with someone who once had a lot of power over you has been therapeutic. The truth is clear and you finally see it. If anyone has power in this situation, it’s you.

AQUARIUS: Don’t get overly confident about anything. Things could go either way. What happens now all depends on how truthful you’ve been with yourself and others. And if you think you’ve been successful at fooling anyone, you’re wrong. The Laws of Karma always have the upper hand. Being called away on business is a theme. So are court dates and famous final scenes. Whatever you need will come to you. That doesn’t mean you’re going to like it, but if you’ve been doing your homework you should be OK.

PISCES: You have been struggling with something and putting a lot of effort into pushing your weight against problems that would resolve themselves more quickly if you just lightened up. The tendency to feel like life is a battle and that it’s all up to you to win it is egotistical. At this point you have only to look inside because the answers won’t come if you continue to patch things together on the surface. Being truthful about what you need from your relationship would help. Something definitely needs to change there.

September 15, 2009

ARIES: The reason you’ve had it with this is because you can’t be yourself and keep it going. I don’t know what made you think it would work to play things this way but something went awry about six months ago and it got out of hand because you haven’t been paying attention. Unless you’re totally in denial you know that it’s time to tell the truth. If others don’t want to hear it you will have a harder time finding a way to make yourself heard. It looks to me like they are so hooked on believing what they want to believe they refuse to see that you’ve moved on.

TAURUS: Sometimes life allows us to remember what it’s really all about. In the midst of too many things to do and more than your share of pressure, someone showed up to remind you that love is the operative word. All of a sudden everything you see is filled with it. Times like this are precious and fleeting so soak it up and be prepared for everything else you do to be altered by this feeling. Of course, you have to hold steady and remain focused enough to stay grounded in the real world, but the love that you feel right now is there to make it all worthwhile.

GEMINI: There’s a sense of relief that the bigger part of an effort is over and done with. If you’ve just come off of one thing and are about to move on to another, getting a chance to regroup would be nice. Unfortunately, the need to keep it up will see you moving forward with less energy than you need to get this next thing to work. That’s OK. It could very well be that something intervenes to rearrange the plan. It could even be that everything gets called off temporarily. Relax, knowing that whatever you’ve got is just enough to make life perfect.

CANCER: If I’ve got a bone to pick with you it has to do with the fact that you’re too damn nice. What makes you think it’s good to give people too much space to act out? In not standing up for your own interests you consistently allow others to control absolutely everything. And what you can’t see is that their issues always win out over the truth! There’s no virtue in not having the balls to say "No," and you don’t serve yourself by being overly kind. None of this would be a problem if you could see that it makes no sense to give all your power away to a basket case.

LEO: The need to be recognized plays a huge part in your psychology. It’s interesting because you haven’t figured out that no one will recognize you until you recognize yourself. The greater part of being seen comes from knowing who you are. Things get complicated when we think anyone can do that for us. As soon as your true confidence begins to flower it won’t matter who’s there to applaud you for it. Ironically, the minute we begin to know who we are and what we’re worth, attention ceases to be an issue and, as if by magic, we begin to attract it by default.

VIRGO: What an amazing time. So many things have come home to roost. If you’re not reaping a tremendous amount of love and reward, you’re feeling fulfilled by simpler things. Those of you who can relate to this know that you’ve come full circle and are now ready to settle into something that really gets your heart going. If you’ve been spending more time being amazed by the beauty of life than you’ve spent wondering what it’s all for, you know that something truly miraculous is happening right now. In so many ways, you’ve never been happier.

LIBRA: You still don’t get it. You bought into something and went so far into believing it you can’t see that what you’re living with is the end result of misplaced faith. All of us are being called to examine our beliefs. When life isn’t working it’s usually our principles that screw up the machinery. If your beliefs don’t show any evidence of working to create the life that they were guaranteed to provide you with, maybe it’s time to shift your perspective. When doing everything by the book doesn’t get you anywhere, try coloring outside the lines.

SCORPIO: We all shoot ourselves in the foot every now and then. It’s only human. You said no to this because you couldn’t deal with what it would cost you to open up to it. The fear of confronting whatever it is that keeps us from opening our hearts lies at the core of every problem. When the irony of pushing away the very thing that you want more than anything finally strikes you, it would be good if you could take a chance and see if you can get a rain check on this opportunity. Think about it. Stuff like this doesn’t come around too often.

SAGITTARIUS: Too many things call you to review your motives. Why did you get into this? Underneath it all were you taking the easy way out? Or are you sure that you got involved for all the right reasons? When things aren’t working it’s a sure sign that something isn’t balanced on the inner levels. Instead of trying to manage a situation that was out of integrity from the get go, maybe it’s time to call a halt to it, or at least rearrange it from a place of total honesty. Nothing works when it’s standing on a weak foundation. If you can’t redeem things, they won’t continue.

CAPRICORN: You don’t need to know how this is going to come together. Any need for certainty will screw up your ability to handle a very complex state of affairs. At times like this, being prepared has more to do with not having too many plans because so much depends on time and the actions of other people. If your usual MO is to have it all figured out, the linear approach will do more to drive you nuts than just kicking back and letting the universe unravel the details for you. Other factors indicate that everything’s about to change, so loosen up and flow with it.

AQUARIUS: You can’t seem to get across to people. Some sort of disconnect makes it impossible for you to make yourself heard. There are times when the best we can do is agree to disagree. Too many issues separate you for either one of you to try to get your message through. Things are also complicated by the fact that each one of you is going through a private crisis that precludes any openness to others. A little distance might help, or at least enough space for you to sort out your problems and find your way back to what keeps you together.

PISCES: Recent changes in your tune have you willing to be more open about things. It could be that you’re exhausted from having to keep yourself under wraps. If others are shocked it’s only because they’ve watched you go from being hard to read to being completely up front about your life and your acceptance of your own power. Part of this involves relationship scenarios that were only difficult because you had to stay under the radar. Your signal’s back on and at this point you don’t even care who picks up on what, or what they think about it.

September 9, 2009

ARIES: You aren’t too happy with the way things turned out because you expected too much. This has been a huge lesson in giving people more credit than they deserve. If you’re disappointed, consider the extent to which you saw what you wanted to see and don’t be too hard on yourself. On other fronts, you need to review your work situation and realize that playing it safe doesn’t always work even in troubled times. The writing on the wall seems to suggest that there’s no safety here. Keep your foot in the door but have Plan B cooking just in case.

TAURUS: It may be too late but it would be good if you could look at what you’ve done and see you were in error. This is no time to be stubborn; if you need to make amends do so. It appears as if you allowed your issues to win out over the truth in this situation. All of us fall prey to this. Getting conscious enough to do the right thing even when it’s the last thing we want to do is one of the most difficult parts of being human. The problem now lies in the fact that you did the wrong thing and you knew better, and the karma police aren’t too happy about it.

GEMINI: You’ve got too much on your mind to worry about what anyone else is thinking. Besides, it really doesn’t matter anymore. You’ve either moved on or you just don’t have the time. If others have a problem with your inability to make them a priority they aren’t mature enough to handle this. It’s a total waste of time to even talk it over. If there’s anything really worth preserving it’ll maintain itself whether you make it OK for them or not. Holding your own in the midst of other people’s power plays takes a tremendous amount of self control.

CANCER: You can’t be sure this will work out the way you want it to. Don’t invest too much in anything or anyone who can’t take care of themselves. If your intention is to help people out, consider the extent to which much of what you’re doing has weakened them. More dependent on you than ever, how do you expect them to let this go when you tell them you’re ready to move on? What you didn’t factor into the equation could turn out to be the biggest booby trap of all time. Hello! You were nuts to think that others had any intention of growing up.

LEO: Giving your power away works out to be a huge mistake nine times out of ten. This is one of those times. Whoever you’re pumping your life into has yet to appreciate everything you’ve given them in terms of time, space and an infinite amount of moral and physical support. What has it gotten you? A little time away will give you a chance to see that maybe you don’t need this. If you keep sticking around you need to set boundaries for your own sake. Others will keep sucking you dry if you don’t have the sense to tell them to figure it out for themselves.

VIRGO: You aren’t sure what’s going on. Things are either too consistent or not consistent enough and you wish you had a handle on it. The craving for certainty and the desire for perfection don’t get a whole lot of satisfaction on a planet where neither thing exists. Don’t let your qualms fool you into thinking that this was a mistake. Stepping back from it all it’s easy to see that you’re at zero-point, in the middle of a major turnaround with no sense of direction, or sitting in a dead calm wondering if change really is the only thing that stays the same here.

LIBRA: Recent lessons haven’t made a dent, in spite of your desire to figure them out. With more than your share of change to contend with it seems as if life is forcing your hand. You keep trying to go along with the program but the old prescription is worn out and you’re having a hard time seeing that a new program has to replace what you’re trying so hard to hold together. Any change at all would be better than what you’re faced with. If there’s even an outside possibility that you could bail out, it might be a good idea to dream it up before things get more intense.

SCORPIO: You would have handled things differently if you knew your actions were going to blow this; it’s bumming you out that you’re no longer the sweetheart of the rodeo. Too much confidence can be just as destructive as not enough of it. The thing that did you in, in this most recent encounter, was your total lack of humility. Assuming authority, popularity, privilege or even love before you’ve earned the right to it rarely sits well with anyone. As far as that goes, you aren’t aware enough of who you are to see that it would have been enough just to be yourself.

SAGITTARIUS: Nobody wants you to go out of your way. They’re more than aware of what you’re dealing with so don’t second guess their needs. For now, your energy needs to be spent getting your act together, or pulling your life together so that you can stand on your own two feet. Recent questions about where the money went, along with concerns over the possibility of a move, have you wondering if it’s time to sell out. That’s totally up to you. You have enough intuition to see the writing on the wall. Getting it together could easily require a 180-degree turn.

CAPRICORN: Your efforts to be prepared have gotten bollixed up by random forms of interference. With no time to steady your plans you find yourself torn between pressure to do a good job and the demands of close others who seem to need you more than anything. Too much to handle isn’t the phrase for it. If you’re worried about how you’re going to look when you show up without a script, you can trust the fact that everything that’s interfering with your prep work is actually part of it. Spend less time worrying and more time paying attention to the lesson.

AQUARIUS: You finally figured out how much it costs you to play both ends to the middle. Caught in between two separate issues or two separate people you’ve disappeared somehow. Coming to this realization you see that it’s time to make a choice. Part of you would be just as OK with dropping both balls as you would with trying to figure out what, or who means the most to you. The way it looks to me is that you will get to the point where your personal freedom matters way more than any of this nonsense. You could easily wake up and walk away any time.

Pisces: The pressures of the last six months have brought up every single one of your most difficult issues. In your efforts to bear this weight you’ve done everything you can to make it easier for others. Now that the light at the end of the tunnel appears to be shining on your choices you see that it’s safe to leave. More than anything, what you want right now is the freedom to pursue your heart’s desire. Nothing is left from your old life. And whatever you have to leave behind won’t be missed. The only thing left to do is make peace with the past and yourself.

September 2, 2009

ARIES: You just woke up to too many things all at once. When life dishes out one thing after another we go into shell-shock. Don’t expect yourself to know what to do next. Sort through the rubble and get in touch with what you’re dealing with before you even dream of making a plan. Right now the plan is about baby-steps – and it would help if you could resurrect a little faith. Because the key to pulling out of this has to do with seeing the blessing in it and believing with your whole heart that you are totally supported by life no matter how tough things get.

TAURUS: In the process of reinventing yourself you’ve found out that upheaval goes with the territory. When you decided to drop all the BS, what made you think there wouldn’t be an earthquake or two? Don’t get freaked out over things that have come about as a natural response to whatever your Karma consists of at this point. Once you stop driving yourself nuts you’ll calm down enough to see that at times like this, it’s your inner resources that pull you through. And part of the lesson has to do with you figuring out that absolutely everything comes from within.

GEMINI: If you haven’t made a stand yet, you’re about to. For too long you’ve put up with expectations that are too high or with behavior that borders on abuse – and the anger around this has reached critical mass. It’s not like you blow up or be anything but agreeable, but you’ve had it. If you’ve already spoken your mind, someone is busy figuring out how to return your serve. Give them time and expect their response to be in keeping with whatever they’re capable of. If you haven’t said boo yet, what’s keeping you? It’s time to draw the line.

CANCER: This could be the biggest milestone of your life. As you contemplate what it might feel like to step over the line, fears of how this will upset the applecart are equal to your desire to be who you are. Part of you wants a guarantee, or some sense of certainty that those close to you will be OK with this. I hate to clue you but there’s no certainty here; and the lesson seems to be about you figuring out that love is the response we get when we are true to ourselves – so you might as well follow your heart and stop worrying about what people will think.

LEO: You’d be OK with this if it wasn’t such a hassle. Getting around the details would be easier if you had a little help. Because what seemed like a small thing has become a big thing and you can’t do it alone. Get real about what needs to happen and prepare yourself for an increased demand for whatever it is you’re putting out. More training might be in order. You could also be called to teach. Think about everything else you have to do and understand that what’s going on right now is paving the way for the better part of your life to unfold.

VIRGO: You’re about to embark on something that is totally new and different. It has to happen because you’ve outgrown the past and the structures you’ve created just aren’t big enough to contain you anymore. If you’re freaked out about what might happen, get over it; this is no time to get skittish about the consequences. Crawl out of the phone booth and put on your Superman/Woman suit. For too long you’ve been hiding your light under a bushel. It’s an insult to you and to your purpose for being here for you to keep denying the truth of who you are.

LIBRA: You’d be happier about this if it was your idea. You either want more or less than the one who’s calling the shots, but unfortunately you don’t have the power here. Sometimes it’s best to recognize that it serves us to acquiesce. In the end, you’ll get what you want, or you’ll get more of what you already have. The need to be strategic can’t be overemphasized. For someone who has a hard time focusing on anything but themselves, at times it’s wise to be more aware of other people’s issues than you are of your own; especially when so much depends on them.

SCORPIO:  You’re looking around at what you’ve created and it feels good to be the one who did it. The satisfaction that comes from never stepping out of integrity is virtue’s reward. For some, reaping what you’ve sown isn’t feeling that good. Hopefully this will open your eyes to what happens when you approach your life with only yourself in mind. If you’re honest you’ll know what I mean. All of you need to chill out and reconnect with what feels real to you at this moment. The past is gone; and as far as the future goes, that all depends on where you’re at now.

SAGITTARIUS: You’d just as soon blow this off. You’ve been there and done that so many times you really don’t need to stick around. Find someone to take care of your duties and disappear, because you’ll wind up handling the whole thing if you’re not careful. Your personal life has taken an interesting turn and that’s part of the reason you need a break. After doing a 180 in the love department, the whiplash of reality is making you wonder what you did. The one who looked like they could walk on water has turned into a human being; can you handle it?

CAPRICORN: You keep trying to reach someone who can’t be reached. Everything is timing. There’s no way they can hear you when they’re overbooked, preoccupied, and/or depressed. It doesn’t matter what page you’re on or how much you want this to happen; whoever this is about just isn’t into it right now. Did it ever occur to you that they don’t want your input because they need to figure this out on their own? Too many things have gone down for you to think that talking to them, or being with them would help them at this point. Let them come to you.

AQUARIUS: You’re getting hassled by someone who’s too angry to deal with you honestly. This has been ongoing and it’s making your life difficult. I don’t know why you need to have someone out there playing the bad guy, but you might want to look at what you’re getting out if it. Instead of going into fear about whether they actually have the power to totally screw up your life, stop feeding into it. I hate to clue you but part of you is into this; because if they keep being mean, or cruel, or just plain koo-koo, you get to be the saint, the savior, or the one who can do no wrong.

PISCES: You’ve got to keep going at a time when your energy level is down. There isn’t much time or space for the emotional component either. When life gets like this it leads to exhaustion and it makes it real hard to stay in the ‘Joy Zone.’ Instead of pushing steadily along, try turning off the switch that keeps you going at intervals every day and use that time to do absolutely nothing. Life has to balance or it just doesn’t work. Too much “Yang” breaks you down. If you want to get through the next few months add equal parts of “Yin” to everything you do.

August 26, 2009

ARIES: With so much making you wish that something would come along to handle it for you, you’re in no mood to deal with pressure or change. That’s OK, but the longer you subject yourself to the demands of others the more you will see that you can’t keep doing it. If relationships are meant to be 50-50, how come your partner gets whatever they want and you get to go along with it? You can’t make this decision now. Too many variables are impacting this situation for you to even dream of knowing what to do. Give it six months; you’ll figure it out.

TAURUS: The best thing that ever happened doesn’t always come with a fairy tale. The wise men tell us that all passion breeds suffering and you’re getting a little taste of how that feels. If you could have said no to this would you be any happier right now? When life starts teaching us the meaning of bittersweet, the bitterness overrides everything until we realize that it’s all the same. Taking the good with the bad is what it’s all about. You may not like the fact that beauty and the beast live side-by-side but the sooner you learn to live with it the sweeter life will be.

GEMINI: You have an enormous amount of curiosity that takes you all over the place. It’s great to want to know everything but nothing sinks in if you don’t take the time to assimilate it. At this point you’re using too much of this information to justify behavior that makes it easier for you to fall asleep next to your primary issues. Your refusal to get the point is confusing to those who expect more from you than this. Stop using your self-help trips to rationalize your bigger denial mechanisms. I hate to clue you but people have had it with your nonsense.

CANCER: Whoa, baby! This is going a little too fast, either that or it’s too much too soon and you’re not ready. Don’t even try to run your life in the usual manner. You can’t be the one who’s there meeting everyone’s expectations. The ones who care expect nothing. You’re about to find out who your real friends are. Newer arrivals have been surprisingly supportive. You’ve got too much going on to waste a minute with anyone who can’t keep up with you. Say good bye to the hangers on; you’re about to fly – don’t let them weigh you down.

LEO: Things improve little by little. Don’t expect this to come together just because you’ve decided that it’s time. It borders on arrogance for you to assume that changes like this aren’t subject to forces that are beyond your control. Whatever you’re trying to manage isn